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February 13, 2025 Become yourself or a people pleaser?
If we have to decide to do it in our way and risk or to do it in the popular way, what to do?
I have read a lot of biographies and always the greatest artists never have done any compromises … And remained unpopular.
After their death they became famous. Too late?
Why not try first to become successful and afterward become yourself and creative?
If we sell out our meaning of life for our success we become uncreative and unmotivated. Goethe said: we sell our soul to the devil…
Is it really so important to become successful?
What is to be successful for you?
Is it not better to be just yourself and don’t care what other people think?
What is if we end up poor and we regret that?
Imagine you are a young girl and you do have a loving relationship and then you have the chance to marry a rich one?
In all cases, we do not know our outcome. A loving relationship can end soon, our great talents can turn in a nightmare…
And that had happened all to me… Still, I am happy that I tried so hard, even it didn’t have worked out.
As a kid, I was outstanding in technique and loved to become an engineer… But… I was too stupid in the school, no chance at all…. Never less I did it… And, then it was a nightmare to solve all these technical problems, even I was very good in that.
And then I wanted to have a passionate love relationship and I got many of them… And always, I wanted to marry every darling, it never worked out.
Should I be frustrated or should I be grateful for the amazing moments in my life because I tried it?
The only son of Peter Thomson (British famous business strategist) wanted to become a famous musician… Peter Thomson supported the son ambitions, even when all the other relatives and friends had been against that. Because Peter Thomson wanted that his son becomes happy. After 10 years working as a musician with a good earning, his son quit his courier and started to work with his father together.
We have only this moment and this life.
The greatest sin is to wast our time for meaningless things.
Just try it, if it is not working out try the next thing.
The worst thing is always after we have been knocked down by the circumstances not to go up immediately.
And to try the next thing.
Life can be amazing or depressing or just a prostitution for …
That is your choice!

My Video: Become yourself or a people pleaser? https://youtu.be/I8sOSAyeDIQMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Become-yourself-or-a-people-pleaser.mp3
9 min
February 12, 2025 With our “I” and “My” start the problems
The great Yogi Ramakrishna strongly avoided saying “I” or “my”.
A wife went to a doctor and asked him what she should do because her husband doesn’t like to have sex with her anymore. The doctor answered bring me your husband and I will solve the problem. The doctor said to her husband before you go to bed, go to the bathroom and in front of the mirror say 10 times: I don’t know her, and she is not my wife.Problem solved! Because what we don’t know and don’t own is exciting.
If we say it is “my” friend then our ego assumes that we own our friend and that he is under our control. That is the reason why we are so angry if our friend does what we don’t like. And when we are married we think that we both own our spouse. After the separation our illusion is over, we have never owned our spouse and our spouse was never under our control. Because of our illusion, we own our spouse we suffered so hard.
Be thankful that you are together in a loving relationship. How would you appreciate your time together, if you would think that your loving relationship can end every moment?

Our Ego likes to personalize everything so that even after some time an innocent PC, smartphone, car,… becomes a person. And if these things getting broken or don’t work we get angry.
As a kid, I have learned what I really owned. My mother said: close your eyes and what you see is yours.
We don’t own anything.

When the Greek emperor Alexander the Great died, he said: “Make two holes in the coffin and let my hands hang outside. Because everybody should see that I died with empty hands.”
All our accusation in this world are temporary and not under our control. Even it is so with our body or life. Without the grace of God, we are nothing.

Our Ego/I assumes that we are God that we have everything under our control…. Everybody experience devastating moments where we had been overwhelmed. Still, after some time, we think we have everything under our control. That is the incurable disease of our ego.
When we brag what we have done we can’t really see the reality. Because we depend on so many circumstances. And God punishes our bragging with worse moments. Watch yourself when you brag, what will happen afterward?

Ramakrishna said:God laughsWhen a doctor said I have healed him.When two brothers divide the land of their died father and say this land is yours and that land is mine.
Everything owns God!Praise the Lord

My Video: With our “I” and “My” start the problems https://youtu.be/lJThjlIS23kMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/With-our-“I”-and-“My”-start-the-problems.mp3

8 min
February 11, 2025 Quotes Jeff Bezos

I believe you have to be willing to be misunderstood if you're going to innovate.

A brand for a company is like a reputation for a person. You earn reputation by trying to do hard things well.

What we need to do is always lean into the future; when the world changes around you and when it changes against you - what used to be a tail wind is now a head wind - you have to lean into that and figure out what to do because complaining isn't a strategy.

The human brain is an incredible pattern-matching machine.

Life's too short to hang out with people who aren't resourceful.

We've had three big ideas at Amazon that we've stuck with for 18 years, and they're the reason we're successful: Put the customer first. Invent. And be patient.

If you're competitor-focused, you have to wait until there is a competitor doing something. Being customer-focused allows you to be more pioneering.

If you can't tolerate critics, don't do anything new or interesting.

Great industries are never made from single companies. There is room in space for a lot of winners.

The best customer service is if the customer doesn't need to call you, doesn't need to talk to you. It just works.

The special ops guys and the firefighters around the world have this great phrase. They say, 'Slow is smooth, and smooth is fast,' and that is true. Everything I've accomplished in my life has been because of that attitude.

Cultures, for better or worse, are very stable.

There are two ways to extend a business. Take inventory of what you're good at and extend out from your skills. Or determine what your customers need and work backward, even if it requires learning new skills. Kindle is an example of working backward.
The thing that motivates me is a very common form of motivation. And that is, with other folks counting on me, it's so easy to be motivated.
There are two kinds of companies, those that work to try to charge more and those that work to charge less. We will be the second.

The question really is, are you improving the world? And you can do that in many models. You can do that in government, you can do that in a nonprofit, and you can do it in commercial enterprise.

My Video: Quotes Jeff Bezos https://youtu.be/W5WDq2zcLWIMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/Quotes-Jeff-Bezos.mp3

5 min
February 10, 2025 Why can’t men sleep with women?
In most cases, men are potent and have psychological problems to sleep with women.If you think that you are impotent, do a clinical erection test by yourself - is at the end…If you have a physical problem:
Go to the doctor to scan your prostate.
If the prostate is okay, fast for at least 7 days that the blood vessel in that lower abdomen can be purified and the physical problem is solved. Or look up for Mantak Cia /Tao-Garden in Chiang Mai in Thailand, they can solve your problem.
Low testosterone level and aging.
I recommend these herbs.
1.) Fo-Ti (He Shou Wu, Chinese Cornbind)2.) Ginseng3.) Ashwagandha4.) Gingko Biloba5.) Goji Berries (Wolf Berries)6.) Astragalar7.) Lingzhi Mushrooms8.) Gotu Kola9.) Jiao Gu Lan
The first 5 herbs are increasing your testosterone and other sexual hormones… At least they make your body strong. The last 4 herbs are for busting your immune system and heart… I take all of them every day by capsules or as tea.

Many men become homosexual because of their problems with women.
About 70% of all married couples experience a sexual dysfunction in their lifetime!
The wives think that the men are impotent and can’t see that maybe they are the problem!

I will cover now the psychological problems.

Why can’t men get an erection? It is a performance anxiety caused through:
1.) Sexually abused in your childhood.2.) Dominant mother or sister that pushed you always down.3.) Bad consciousness. 4.) Too much stress or tension.5.) Sham.6.) Fear of failure7.) Relationship problems.8.) Unattractive sexual partner9.) Rejection of women.

Because the anxiety causes the erection problem.
To get an erection:We need to be aroused and relaxed.

Tip 1Exercises (see also Youtube: Mantak Chia at the end)
Masturbate every second day until you have a full erection and then stop. Let your erection die and re-arouse yourself again… Make that 3 times and then it is allowed to release your semen. You can use pornography or imagination of sexual situation.
Psychology effect:You train your brain, that you can arouse yourself and don’t need to release your semen.
Tip 2:
Solve your relationship problems. Or better go to a therapist or group… When I have problems in the relationship or if I want to sleep just so with a girl, I can’t do so. Because my body and mind reject that women… I need intimacy and without intimacy, I can’t sleep with any women. And I was sexually abused in my childhood…. that makes sex with women much more difficult. Never the less I have slept with over 100 women… and many times I could not. When I could solve often that problem with a so bad childhood then you can do too! Still, it is a challenge and that is good so!

Tip 3:Speak about your sexual problems and find other ways to improve your sex life.Couples, who just give up on the sexual dysfunction of the man will never get the sexual problems solved. Touch your partner, be lovely and don’t set yourself under pressure. Sleep naked, be close to your partner and try to arouse each other without any tension. Make your partner orgasms without an intercourse.

My Video: Why can’t men sleep with women? https://youtu.be/FRlr5QmSEWUMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Why-can’t-men-sleep-with-women.mp3

13 min
February 09, 2025 The beauty of uncertainty
Even we try to get everything under our control, we can’t control our relationships.
And most relationships end with closed hearts because of anxiety to get hurt…
Without the uncertainty:
1.) is no love possible,2.) is no personal growth,3.) no spirituality,4.) no excitement….
Still, most people hate uncertainty and so the relationship ends.

We die without dying.
We can only do our best to nurture our relationship, instead to wait that our partner gives us his/her appreciation.
We can search where we are wrong, instead to look where our spouse is wrong.
Instead of playing cool we share openly our feelings and speak about our fears. Because we are human beings and we are full of negative habits, mistakes and never perfect. Or do you want to marry an Apple or a smartphone?
Instead of demanding love we give love regardless of what. Because we want to love and not end up frustrated when we can’t get the love…
We don’t depend on our partner.We can only love when we are independent… slavery will never work out.
Look what your partner needs instead to look that your partner fulfills your desires. And so you candle your love.
Almost the love in the relationship is not synchrony. The most beautiful moments in your relationship might be the worst moments for your partner. An awesome love relationship over 20 years ended when both read their diaries for every day.
Choose trustEven your partner doesn’t deserve trust. I trust in God that I get always the best… I don’t trust people because every person can fail. What God gives me is enough… And my spouse is an eternity of God.

We try our best and if it is not working out, we can’t blemish ourselves.
With every relationship, I have learned so much, for what I should regret it?
And then get engaged again.

My Video: The beauty of uncertainty https://youtu.be/_5SkrZUawYMMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/The-beauty-of-uncertainty.mp3

7 min
February 08, 2025 Why are you not rich?

We all have a negative money mind when we are not wealthy.
So what is wealth?
You don't need to work anymore and you can afford the things that you want.

Buy back your time!
Your focus should be on making more money to save time. Instead of focusing on saving only money, that is a waste of your time.
This means you save your money to invest it! Otherwise, you never can build up wealth.You have to invest your money to become rich.
Really, understand this!
So, my rich father, (Dr. Carl Zimmerer, Interfinanz) didn’t care for the price of a good, because he didn’t have the time for it.
He asked his colleagues to buy a car for him because he didn’t want to be involved in that. No time, he worked 60 to 80 hours every week … He drove even our junk cars… he didn’t care… a car is a car …  He didn’t care for his personal income, his work was the most important thing for him, and he didn’t spend much money on himself; including his family because he didn’t want to spoil his kids… Honesty, we, his children, were wearing the worst clothes in our town.
He liked to inspire young entrepreneurs and he did it for free… because it was joyful and exciting for him to meet young entrepreneurs… He could make much more money when he would speak in front of wealthy people…  That is the mindset of a rich person, he did what he enjoyed! My father was again and again the entrepreneur of the year in Germany and a guest of Honor at the World Economy Forum in Davos!
3 Principles or building keys to build wealth.
1. Most entrepreneurs hate their own company.So the more they grow their business, the more pain and less free time they have. That is wrong!You want to buy back your time!
What do they hate most?Their calendar, schedule ...
They don’t have the right people.Their selling is too complicated.So the more they do, the more their calendar explodes.They get an email to double their income, but they don’t have the time. If they would do so this means more pain, and more stress.
They thought, so more successful so less time they have to work, so more freedom they have.
You have to value your time!What are you worth for one hour of work?Nobody gets one penny more than he thinks he is worth!
Most people try to save money on buying things instead of spending money to buy time…
We are creating wealth by making one hour of work more profitable and not only saving money.You have to learn to delegate your tasks and to say "No" to jobs that are under your value …You have to increase your value.If you are not worthy of the money that gets paid then you have to increase your value for your customer’s work…
1. And this means, you change your character to solve the problem.You have to back up your desired income through action.Upgrade your skills
3. Believe systemIf the goal is to get rich…
Why I can’t do that? -  All "coulds" are questions about your abilities.  And there is a negative belief about money, success, achievement... Rich people are evil?Money is bad?You can’t get rich if you think negatively about wealth.Then you will self-sabotage yourself.Or you feel guilty that you have much more money than other people...This was also true for me … And I did so much to change my attitude...In the end, Ken Honda changed my attitude and my treks on high altitudes, above 5400m.
And you don’t allow yourself to buy expensive things, what should think the other people…
How do other people judge me?For sure, they get jealous if you wear a Rolex watch, even if it was gifted... I would never have the courage to wear a Rolex watch…Think over, most Rolex watches are cheap Chinese copies.

My Video: Why are you not rich? https://youtu.be/FVTGukB_j_cMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/Why-are-you-not-rich.mp3

9 min
February 07, 2025 Why can’t women sleep with men?
Because of Physical issues and Psychology issues.

1.) Low libido.
When having a menopausal problem,- the females have a lack of sex hormones or a dry vagina. In these cases, they have pain when they have sex…
Or if the body is too fat.

2.) Difficulty being aroused.

When women are:
stressed out,
tired,
depressed,
too many problems,
bad lover,
or have anxiety. -
the majority of women don’t like under these circumstances to have sex with men.

3.) Aversion to sex and/or of men.

If a girl is growing up in a family that abuse sex then the girl will have a bad consciousness if it will enjoy sex.
On average every 10th girl is sexually abused through their family…
In both cases, the sexually abused woman needs a therapy to get rid of all these aversions of sex and traumas. Otherwise, intimacy or a deep connection to her boyfriend or spouse will be a problem.

4.) Asexuality. Women who have no or less sex drive… That is possible.

5.) Inability to reach orgasm.
Up to 10-20% of women never achieve an orgasm.

In all cases exist some remedies…
First, check a female doctor.

A.) For a low testosterone level, menopause and aging take daily:

1.) Maca powder from a high altitude mountain (Andean) (otherwise it will not work!!!).
Maca powder can be very powerful to overcome menopause. Or try Ashwagandha (can’t be used during pregnancy).
2.) Ginseng
3.) Fo-Ti (He Shou Wu, Chinese Cornbind)
4.) Gingko Biloba
5.) Goji Berries (Wolf Berries)
6.) Astragalar
7.) Lingzhi Mushrooms
8.) Gotu Kola
9.) Jiao Gu Lan

The first 5 herbs are increasing your testosterone and other sexual hormones… At least they make your body strong. The last 4 herbs are for busting your immune system and heart…

B.) Zesta (a botanical oil to apply to the genitals) to enhance the climax of women.

C.) INTONE ™ and Intensity™ are approved electrical stimulating devices that can help to get an orgasm and help to treat the urinary leakage in women.

D.) Vaginal estrogen – Available as a cream, a tablet or a vaginal ring, and considered the best treatment for genital arousal problems and pain from vulvovaginal atrophy that occurs in many postmenopausal women.

E.) Off-Label use of Vaginal DHEA 1 percent suppository – An adrenal precursor that women with vaginal atrophy/thinning/decreased sensation can use as an alternative to vaginal estrogen.

F.) Osphena – The first, non-estrogen oral therapy for moderate to severe painful sexual activity due to vulvovaginal atrophy.

G.) Flibanserin (Addyi®) – This drug was recently approved by the FDA to restore female sexual desire in women before menopause. It must be taken orally every day, and it may have side effects, such as severe low blood pressure and fainting.

My Video: Why can’t women sleep with men? https://youtu.be/zeT3eA_f_T0
My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Why-can’t-women-sleep-with-men.mp3

10 min
February 06, 2025 Positive and negative selfishness
All Religions condemn selfishness and that is wrong.
We should discriminate between positive and negative selfishness.
What is positive and constructive selfishness?
1.) To have children and to have not children. It depends on the person if he/she likes to have children.
2.) To enjoy sex. With sex we can show our love to our darling; we can release our tension; it is good for the body, and it bonds our relationship….
3.) To become rich and successful without harming anybody or our environment.
4.) To benefit from the people when we have done it right.
What is negative or destructive selfishness?
1.) To live an unhealthy lifestyle with junk-food and no body-exercise.
2.) To overspend our money and live on credit.
3.) To gain profit without keeping the contracts or our word. For instance, the people donated $500 Mill for the Haiti earthquake to the Catholic church and the Catholic church has not done anything for Haiti… just put the money in their pocket.
4.) To condemn sex and to rape kids like the Catholic church. 25% of the American Catholics left the church because of the raping scandals of the Catholics priests with the kids.
5.)To exploit people in the name of God. That has done and does every Religion.
If we see people, religions, politicians who are demanding selflessness, look what is their real intention.
Normally when we over-think our acting we find out that short time acting to get the most out of the situation will harm us. It is rather more that we first invest and help, to gain the maximum. Because if the people see our selfish behavior than they run away. And we gain at the end not much.
If we maintain a good relationship we have to give in advance. And then we gain always.
If we want to love we give first love… If we cheat people. In the end, we will get so much trouble and can’t enjoy our life anymore.
A real selfish guy is honest and loves to help everybody. Because it makes him happy and content.

My Video: Positive and negative selfishness https://youtu.be/ZV4jwrilet8My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Positive-and-negative-selfishness.mp3

8 min
February 05, 2025 The Remedy of Envy
We are all human beings and we have sometimes envy and resentments against people who make it better than us…. The envy is coming from our animal mind and is hard-wired in our mind-body complex.
Who wonders that animals, for instance, the dogs are envy…[email protected]

The roots of envy are that we compare other people with ourselves.

When we compare us we want to become better and are encouraged by our fear, envy, resentments that somebody is better.

What is if our envy is blocking us?
Then we give up too soon because we can’t see our progress … We want it too fast…

Even when the envious person succeed he can’t celebrate because he is too focused on the other person who seemed to be better.

There is always somebody better in some area …

Why should we compare us?

Why do we like to suffer that somebody is better or has more?

Why are we not satisfied with what we are or have?

Why are we not thankful for what we got?

When I am envious, I look at what I have gained instead of what I miss.

And as a spiritual being, I am happy what God has given to me and that I am still alive.
God has saved my life many times…
And I remember that …

Remember your worst times and be thankful for what you have now, instead to complain.
Don’t compare yourself with another person. Because every person is unique.
Celebrate the success of other people.

Then the envy is gone.

My Video: The Remedy of Envy https://youtu.be/2TD8lHwUE6c
My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/The-Remedy-of-Envy.mp3

6 min
February 04, 2025 Steve Jobs realized 5 truths for life.

Don’t educate your children to be rich, educate them to be happy.So when they grow up, they know the value of things and not the price.
Eat your food as your medicine otherwise, you have to eat medicine as your food.
The ones that love you will never leave you. Even if there are 100 reasons to give up they find one reason to hold on.
If you just want to walk fast, walk alone.But if you want to walk far walk together.
The best six doctors in the world:SunlightRestExerciseDietSelf-confidenceAnd friends.
Maintain in all stages a healthy lifestyle.

My Video: Steve Jobs realized 5 truths for life. https://youtu.be/kCn_yKTo2MQMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/Steve-Jobs-realized-5-truths-for-life.mp3

3 min

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