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 Love each other and do what you like at best. (Bible) We should live our sexual desires, regardless what, as long we do not harm others or the law of our country. Nearly all psychologists agree with this. Why? What we suppress is getting worse. If you see all these scandals about overworked manager/VIPs’ and their perverse sex life, then you must be compliant. They work and work and forget their own sex life and then such things happen. The reality is that these manager/ VIPs’ are not evil; it is just that their suppressed sex had led them to these deeds.  Live your Sex  When it does not work with the communication anymore, then the relationship is over. The same applies to the sex in a marriage. Both partners have a sex drive, and if they have to suppress it, then the result are hate and anger. Even worse it is forbidden to live their sex outside of their marriage. You see, we have all an inner child, and this inner child wants sex. We are suppressing a big part of our personality if we cannot live our sex and even worse we have our sex partner in front of us and cannot make love with them. So the partner who doesn’t like to have sex is rejecting his partner, and this will lead to hate, anger, depression, and fear to lose the partner. We know all these power trips to control the sex life to control the spouse and then the whole relationship is getting worse.  The reasons for women are:  1.The women want that the men have to fulfill their desires. The best example: the reason to buy a diamond for a woman is to 80% sex. 2.Through their childhood, women are getting conditioned that sex is impure and after some time when the love is over, then they feel really very sorry to sleeping with their spouse. I see only one solution, if you have a bad consciousness, feel guilty or fear to make love then go to a therapist otherwise the relationship is getting very worse. You harm yourself, your family and your spouse with these….  3.The sex life isn’t fulfilling because the man is ejaculating too early, too less love or too less time. 4.Through a total surgery of the uterus, other diseases or very much stress is the sex drive down.   Some husbands don’t like to sleep with their spouse the reasons might be: 1. Fear for intimateness 2. Fear that they depend on their spouse and so that their spouse is controlling their life. 3. Too much stress 4. Impotency 5. Fear that they can’t make their spouse orgasms.  6. Fear of failing in the bed… 7. Bad consciousness, feel guilty, fear of sex….   Please see a therapist to save your relationship and your family for all these reasons.  It is quite normal that after some time a couple is together the love and sex is getting fewer. So then we should be more creative and flexible in our sex live and really looking why our love is getting lesser.  Worldly love has two poles Love and Hate. At the beginning of our love, we perceive only love and suppress our negative feelings against our partner, to love more. Then the other pole is coming, and we get court up, in argue…. So we should work on our negative feelings without blemish our partner. A joke: an old Muslim is praying in the Mosque: Oh Allah you have taken away my sexual potency, please also take away my desire for sex otherwise I get crazy.  So older we grow so less sexual potency we have; and still the same desire for sex.  Before we regret, that we did not have enough sex in our life, live it. We can improve our sex potency if we make Dao exercise and massages from Mantak Chia or a real fasting cure with colon cleaning. I recommend the colon cleaning from Blessed Herbs.  My video: Healthy Sex! https://youtu.be/I2DIdVKASRgMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/Healthy-Sex.mp3

  Relax your eye muscles with this exercise.Look, at one point far distance. And turn your head left and right and keep focusing your eyes on that point… And look that you turn your head without going up and down. Then focus on one point and move up down with your head without going towards the left or right. Lay your neck on a tennis ball so that the tennis ball touches the gap between the neck and head at the back… move slowly your head… Under the tennis ball, you put a towel, so that the tennis ball doesn’t move out of position.  Then move a visit card closer and fare to your eyes and turn your head in different angles so that you train also that. If your vision for both eyes is different then do it with one eye and cover the other with your hand without touching your eye. Do this for both eyes and one time with both eyes together. Look at a written line that you can read clearly and move away until you can’t read it, then move until you can read it…Do this again and again and until you can see it clearly even farther away… Then you turn your head left or right, up, down look when you see it more clearly. If your vision for both eyes is different then do it with one eye and cover the other with your hand without touching your eye. Do this for both eyes and one time with both eyes together. Do this exercise for 5 to 10 minutes, so that your eyes don’t get strained.  You can choose to do the exercises with good light and poor light. If your vision is bad for poor light, then do the exercise with not good light.Or do the exercise with good lighting and poor lighting. My Video:  The best Vision exercises  https://youtu.be/2H7pgs15dCMMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/The-best-Vision-exercises.mp3

 Looks weird? If we play really high, with the outcome to lose, then we must be ready to accept without regret to lose. If we have fear to lose, then we attract that we lose. And if we lose, then we try again… until nothing can hold us back… to win.  We need to be comfortable with to fail, to win. That is the rule for the high performance…. Or for every baby who learns to walk… in the end, it will walk…  If we would see failing as natural, or if we would enjoy failing, for sure nothing can hold us back.  I have never been a great musician because I never trained like crazy for years, every day 8 to 14hours… so how can I expect to be good in music? I never had this drive to train like crazy music… and when the drive is missing then how we can be very successful?  I don’t like to do training in selling, but I like to become rich fast and efficient… This is a contradiction and right for so many people…. We like to get the fruits and don’t like to do the work… Because we don’t have the drive….  The solutions are:A. We are doing things that we love to do, so we don’t care for failing. B. We convince us to get the fruits whatever it takes…. And only then we can work like crazy to get our fruits and maybe we don’t find our work satisfying…. In the end, we might be rich through the things that we have done…  For T. Harv Eker, Steve Jobs, Joel Bauer … is the solution A the right one, because it is more fun. We can get rich in every profession, with the right concept and money management. And we have much higher endurance, we don’t give up too early because it is fun…  Again if we have fear to fail, then maybe we don’t have a good time what we are doing; because our mind is only focused on the fruits instead to work with pleasure. My video: If we are not ready to fail we can’t succeed. https://youtu.be/e51f-d9-fso My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/If-we-not-ready-to-fail-we-can’t-succeed.mp3

 the last words from A. Einstein. Inside of our body is the life force or life energy when we alive. When we pass by, then what happens with this energy? We can’t destroy energy. We (our energy) leave our body, as soul/mind. This means we get rid of this false identification with our body and become the spirit again.  And this is so true… I was three times clinical dead… I should know it. During my passing by, I remembered the Golden Moments in my life in very intensive pictures… saw my body from the perspective of a bird,  nothing to bother about. I could even enjoy it, and last time I didn’t want to come back…. Because I felt so free, no worries…. I have read that this is totally normal… For what we have a fear of death? The Germans scientists had simulated the death on many people with drugs, read here, the entire report is as download link at the end.  Berlin | A team of psychologists and medical doctors associated with the Technische Universität of Berlin, have announced this morning that they had proven by clinical experimentation, the existence of some form of life after death. This surprising announcement is based on the conclusions of a study using a new type of medically supervised near-death experiences, that allow patients to be clinically dead for almost 20 minutes before being brought back to life. This controversial process that was repeated on 944 volunteers over that last four years necessitates a complex mixture of drugs, destined to allow the body to survive the state of clinical death and the reanimation process without damage. The body of the subject was then put into a temporary comatic state. Most common memories include a feeling of detachment from the body, feelings of levitation, total serenity, security, warmth, the experience of absolute dissolution, and the presence of an overwhelming light. The scientists say that they are well aware the many of their conclusions could shock a lot of people, like the fact that the religious beliefs of the various subjects seem to have held no incidence at all, on the sensations and experiences that they described at the end of the experiment. Indeed, the volunteers counted in their ranks some members are a variety of Christian churches, Muslims, Jews, Hindus, and atheists. “I know our results could disturb the beliefs of many people”,  says Mr. Ackermann. “But in a way, we have just answered one of the greatest questions in the history of mankind, so I hope these people will be able to forgive us. Yes, there is life after death, and it looks like this applies to everyone.”   My video: I can’t die, I am Energy…  https://youtu.be/RLWiIZFg5a8My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/I-can't-die-I-am-energy.mp3 http://healthandwellness365.com/2016/07/02/german-scientists-prove-there-is-life-after-death/

 There was a guy who wants to learn an Asian martial art. He went to the Shaolin master and asked how long it needs to learn Shaolin. The master said only 10 years… What is if I practice every day 12 hours, can I learn it in a shorter time. The master said then you need 20 years. Over eagerness only harms… Imagine you are in a rush, want your tea, and then the tea making procedure needs much more time than you thought,… you become impatience … you running out of time because the bus will not wait on you,… (maybe you  don’t need a tea anymore).  What is if we are planning our future, and then the realization needed much more time, and then we give up…. If I don’t know a task or if I have to try out new things, then I can’t schedule the time correctly. Then my focus is only to do the stuff. Otherwise, I would mess up, if I can’t keep the time to finish the task and even put me under pressure and stress me.  For what? Let us enjoy to make new exciting things/work and make them relaxed and with fun.  The same is true with goal setting (for things/task that I don’t know) for a particular time. As Bob Proctor said, it is okay if my time setting has not worked out for my goal, then it is just a delay. Everything is under the control of God, and God knows it better when we should reach our Goal. If we are thankful in advance that we will reach our goal, then everything is easier, regardless when.  With our impatience and over eagerness we prevent and sabotage our success. Sorry I have done it a lot. If I make sure that nothing is urgent or life threatens, then I slow down, and the things are coming much faster, and I also enjoy my time.  For sure I am against every rushing that is truly not necessary because it brings so often the opposite that I want. Zen: Don’t run behind anything. Or impatience is a part of the ego, so why I should follow my ego? When I make new tasks, I simply don’t plan in advance, for what?For new jobs, I work very concentrated, make maybe many mistakes, don’t beat me up for any mistake and look that I enjoy the work. My goal is to finish the task, enjoy the moment and to be relaxed. My video: Slow down https://youtu.be/IB0CEMQDAUMMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/slow-down.mp3

Thus I have asked for many years,… For me are many things/goals easy to realize, this might be true for you…And the other things I can’t… For sure we need to be passionate to reach any difficult goal… And if I read you should write down your goals or visualize them… That is nonsense because it shows that you are not passionate, and so in any case you can’t reach them! You have to be on fire… if not you can’t mobilize your power to reach them. Now we want to go with the law of cause and effect…That mostly nobody understands! A causes B and then B causes  C. But life or our world is not linear!Often we get that result C and we think because of  A and B, but we can’t see the gaps between A, B, C…The reality is that A, B, and C are independent manifestations. We have to accept that life is not linear, or the Law of Chaos teaches us that we have some rules in total chaos, life is irrational!  Our logical mind is filling up the gaps, and that is mostly wrong.Our mind likes to make assumptions and that is not based on reality! Because we want life rational and we want to be save! Every cause and effect can change and are caused by some sources that we don’t have under control or can’t see! Regardless of how hard we work…  If we have an idea A and we want this idea A to realize B… We are looking for a result C…What are the gaps or unseen…? A lot… The gaps are huge! We need the right intention, passion, luck, timing, resources, support, and location… If one ingredient is missing/wrong, we can’t get our thing done! We are starting from the unseen cause, having our intention to get our goals realized.And then we need the bridge of incidents, where we have no control over… The bridge of incidents can happen or not happen in every possible way… We should be open to new things in our life.  Instead of focusing on “how can we get things done”, then we shut the door to the unknown! Instead, we focus on our intention, and passion and look for What? Why? Who? All of them are unseen resources.  We try to get clarity in our emotional, and intellectual minds and identities of who we must become in order to experience that life.  Then the How and When get resolved.  What is the root of the unseen source?  We have thoughts and that influence us.But what causes those thoughts?Our belief system that we assume is true… And even we are not consciously aware of what is our belief system.We have outer beliefs, or certain views about the world that are limited and mostly not true…The outer beliefs can be caused by traumas or by inner beliefs and that is our identity. How can we change that? We have to change our inner beliefs or identity. We need to become that worthy and deserving guy to receive…  Ask yourselfWhat do I want?Who would I have to become?So the self-conception or identity has to change.Our identity can override our other beliefs.When I believe that I am worthy of receiving the things in my life that I want regardless of my doubts, my situation, …Then my dominant thoughts and emotions are also changing.Then my actions also change. Your goal has to resonate with your soul purpose… Otherwise, the unseen sources will not work in your favor. When I assume to have already what I want, what would complements that …? If we visualize being there already, we change our belief system.But visualizing has no power if it is not charged emotionally. This means, we go with our passions in the correct direction and then we have to drop our attachment with our goal, otherwise we get too many obstacles.  The goal is the path. We follow our intuition and just do what is in our mind because we are already there…We let go of our fear, uncertainty, and doubts and do it…Even if we do the wrong things in the end, we learn something that will lead us to our goal. This means we need a lot of time, maybe months, years… I have overcome so many diseases and I never had a plan, I just did it and through trial and error, I could heal…Today I have the confidence to cure everything…And this confidence/faith is needed…I just start somewhere and at the end, I complete the cure…I could make big money with it, but I don’t care, because every healing needs too much energy, effort, and time. And I can’t buy time… What do you want? Do you want to remain in the same situation or do you want to change! Where is the bigger pain? If you are happy with your situation then let it so.If you are angry, or in great agony only then can you change.Bad times are the best times to become better! The lips of wisdom are sealed, except to the ears of understanding.First, become the change and then you can attract the things to become the change. 1 Step. Get clear on what you have to become to get things done.You change gradually, do baby steps until you are there. If you face a hard decision, think what would do the best version of you.  Forgive yourself when you cannot do so.Clarity will solve 90% of the problem. 2. Step. Suspend our disbelief… If you are confronted again and again, with your doubts, that you can’t do it… That is absolute nonsense… Look at it, analyze it, look at the worst-case scenario, and the doubts are gone. Even you thought you never can learn to walk, write, cycle, learn different languages, surfing… It is all nonsense! Be open to doing it! 3. Step. Inner and Outer Action.Doing consistent inner and outer action. Mindset and massive actions/physical actions…Our Outer action: should be determined by our choice or intention…Otherwise, we waste too much resourcen...   Regardless of what we do, we have a plan (choice or intention), and execute the plan…No Blah Blah BlahWe have a goal to execute a plan to get our outcome… For instance:How many leads should we get every day? We incrementally increase our number of leads every week. We need only one channel to get the leads and focus on that, become an expert in recruiting leads!Get appointments! What is if we have to act outside of our comfort zone?It is the same, try and error… And if you are not on fire you can’t do it…It is just so simple, … You need a reason that is so compelling… My Video: What are the causes we succeed or fail? https://youtu.be/MuYA7ECioIwMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast3/What-are-the-causes-we-succeed-or-fail.mp3 

 How get the fascination of every moment in our life?Think over, You have only to live 1 day more…. How intense would be your life?Why we can’t not really live in the here and now?Why we could live in the here and now as a baby?Because of our rational mind… who thinks that he knows already everything, and this mind develops after we had been a baby. It is science proved that we can see in the here and now until 7 years and from that time we have almost the pictures inside of us, just like templates. Our brain produces the images from the memory instead to see them in the here and now …. They have shown Africans in the jungle a movie about hygienic and they could not see the results of unhygienic, because they just switched off.  We call this ignorance…  how many chances we have everyday to become rich, if we would have the mindset of the rich…. Then we would see our opportunities.   My mother bought me always under wear, that was too small, because she could not see that I was grown in the meantime, when she fixed me to an old image. So it is with mostly of all parents, they can’t see, that the child is changing, growing because they don’t live in the here and now, like all of us. Normally we are making us a picture from our darling and fix our darling to that image our whole life; -so that our darling can’t change… And then the fascination and love is over. In Tantra we have learned the Golden Rule: Kill every day your Darling… We start every day new to discover our darling as an unknown person… Only so, our love can remain and grow. What happens to me? When I was starting with meditation and learned to empty my mind, my life went slowly and slowly… My life won so much on dynamic, fascinations …. Then I tried to be productive and my life went faster and faster… Again I slowed down, (less is much more) and again my life is intensive, the clock is ticking slowly, life is fascinating. This is the art of meditation.  So more we under tension, so more we make, so more we run away from our life. Instead of enjoying every precious moment, we become a robot, which can’t feel. And then our time is running faster and faster.For what????? My video: How to get our life back…  https://youtu.be/3PRnwuSFpJMMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/How-to-get-our-life-back….mp3

 The more we remove the pain of the past, so more we gain in the future.And this applies to every aspect of our life including our love and happiness. If we don't release our pain from the past, then we live continuously in the past. For instance after research from London about raping... The study found that 80% of all raped women go back to the same situation where they got raped. There were only 20% who avoided all situations where they may get raped. This means that all the women are still under the spell of their trauma, and are still affected by their experience when they got raped. Do you think that this applies only to that raped women or for us all? We all repeating, again and again, the same situations until we go with full awareness through that, accept the situation as a learning and change our lives.  For instance, we got grown up poor and felt humiliated to be so, then we are going to a 5-star hotel,… We still believe that we don’t fit and feel bad  (minority feelings) in the presence of the rich guys in the hotel… because of our upbringing. We love to leave this hotel and going back home. Do you think that we can become wealthy if we feel so?  The first step is to release our negative feelings, in this case: the humiliation, conflicting feelings about money and then we accept that we had been poor. If we don’t do that, then we can’t get rich and will be our whole life jealous of the rich. The next step is to confront us again and again with such uncomfortable situation to be under rich people until we feel comfortable. And now we are ready to get through our efforts rich because we got rid of all of our negative sentiments…. If we don’t follow this process, then we maybe get very fast rich and afterward poor again. For instance, 90% of the lottery winner is after 5 years bankrupt, even poorer than they had been before. And the same goes for all of our relationships, we can not love somebody if we harbor inside of us hate, fear, anger, sadness from our previous relationship… and even the previous relationship is based on our experience with our parents… Doesn’t it make sense to work on our childhood with a qualified therapist, a life coach to build up a great loving relationship? Otherwise, we repeat our childhoods traumas again and again, for what! My video: Leveraging on the past  https://youtu.be/mwXanbEv6yAMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/Leveraging-on-the-past.mp3

  Take care of your body. It's the only place you have to live Discipline is the bridge between goals and accomplishment. Either you run the day or the day runs you. We must all suffer one of two things: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret or disappointment. If you don't design your own life plan, chances are you'll fall into someone else's plan. And guess what they have planned for you? Not much. You must take personal responsibility. You cannot change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself. That is something you have charge of. If you are not willing to risk the unusual, you will have to settle for the ordinary. Whatever good things we build end up building us. It is the set of the sails, not the direction of the wind that determines which way we will go. If you don't like how things are, change it! You're not a tree. Take advantage of every opportunity to practice your communication skills so that when important occasions arise, you will have the gift, the style, the sharpness, the clarity, and the emotions to affect other people. Time is more value than money. You can get more money, but you cannot get more time. Happiness is not something you postpone for the future; it is something you design for the present. The walls we build around us to keep sadness out also keeps out the joy. Don't wish it were easier, wish you were better. Learning is the beginning of wealth. Learning is the beginning of health. Learning is the beginning of spirituality. Searching and learning is where the miracle process all begins. You cannot change your destination overnight, but you can change your direction overnight. The major reason for setting a goal is for what it makes of you to accomplish it. What it makes of you will always be the far greater value than what you get. Whoever renders service to many puts himself in line for greatness - great wealth, great return, great satisfaction, great reputation, and great joy. Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person you become. Work harder on yourself than you do on your job. The worst thing one can do is not to try, to be aware of what one wants and not give in to it, to spend years in silent hurt wondering if something could have materialized - never knowing. When you know what you want, and want it bad enough, you will find a way to get it. Miss a meal if you have to, but don't miss a book. Money is usually attracted, not pursued. My Video:  Quotes Jim Rohn https://youtu.be/z_ed7twjDKAMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/Quotes-Jim-Rohn.mp3

 1. Judging,- Everything is just so, nor good or bad. We make it bad or good; still, it remains as it is,- neutral. 1. Abusing sex.... Every abuse shows our weak side; it shows how much we need sex and doesn't get it, that we are jealous, that we are dishonest.... 2. Too much or too less sex harms our body.... (Monks, nuns have double so often prostate cancer, breast cancer) and too much sex weakens the immune system. What is too much sex? - If we are too drained out through sex. 3. Nearly all women diseases are caused by suppressing and refusing of sex. I went through 136 women diseases for my book (Heal yourself and stay healthy)… If the women would enjoy their sex and to be a female; then there would be no reason for females diseases. Why women are getting so punished from nature? Because nature needs children. Essential women are the most remarkable creatures because only they can get children. 4. A shame of sex. Nearly every mutual person has and needs sex; has a sexual drive. So what is special on sex? Why we can't speak over it normal? We just put a stick in a whole, and then our phantasm is getting crazy..... Why we want to hide it. The Koran says shame is a sign of dishonesty. ... There was in Singapore a guy who had posted a picture and a report in the News; about that in their family tradition, they assist the son during his first-time intercourse.... and he got abused....I would be happy if they assisted me when I had my first-time sex because I failed and it was so painful to fail in the bed. 5. The guilt of sex. For what is that good? Get rid of it. We are all a product of sex. 6. Not to enjoy sex. Why not enjoy it; sex should be a regular part of our life. Many people are getting fat because they don't live their sex enough. So more corpulent the female body so fewer feelings are in the vagina... science proofed. 7. Frigid... is psychological (see Impotent) or caused through a dry vagina (oil helps). 8. Impotent.... are created through guilt of sex, bad consciousness and a weak blood circulation (for that helps to fast for at least one week, or colon cleaning from the Internet shop Blessed Herbs or sexual organ massage from Mantak Chia). For the psychological reasons make Therapy, Tantra, Tao-love groups. ... The Chinese define sex as healthy, and if sex is lost, then the immune system is weak....to have sex until they die is healthy. Even with sex, we can cure our diseases if we apply the Techniques of Tao-love  (Tao Master Mantak Chia). Actually, I have cured my Spine (broken disk) with it.I had started very late with intercourse (25 years), after many failures in sex, I made Tantra I and Tantra II and became an expert. I also practice Tao- Love from Mantak Chia…. My Video: What is bad about sex? https://youtu.be/Plbwh1yRCuMMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/What-is-bad-on-sex.mp3