Relax with Meditation

 If the teacher is making a mistake and one pupil has mentioned that, then all the other pupils are moping that honest pupil.  And that will never change.  That means that the Authority can do what they want with us! In our school we have learned these 2 rules:  1. The teacher is always correct.2. If the teacher is wrong apply rule number 1. How can you be innovative or think out of the box if you? 1. Cannot think beyond of your wrong assumption that you have learned?Even you don’t know what are assumptions and what is true! Question everything to gain the truth!2. Cannot accept to be wrong?  People who are not open for critics remain stupid!!! People think that intelligence is something that we can learn to answer some question… Intelligence paired with fear is like a bird with broken wings…  Fear is a bad guide! True intelligence is based on fearlessness and intuition.Learned knowledge can help… but with fear is learned knowledge useless… Imagine you have fears and have studied aerodynamic and aircrafts… You are sitting in an aircraft and then heavy winds caused the aircraft to roll and tumble. Because you have learned aerodynamic and aircrafts you imagine that your aircraft will have an accident and you die…  Fear makes you think wrong!  So more knowledge you have so more you suffer when you have fear! When my friends studied medicine and learned the different diseases they checked always if they would have that disease… And many times, they even imagined to have that disease! True intelligence is always based on fearlessness!!!  Until you have fear You cannot think correctly. My Video: Fear makes you think wrong! https://youtu.be/06GvWdHix2MMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast1/Fear-makes-you-think-wrong.mp3

  Why are we not happy? Ask yourself what hinders you from being happy? Is it the government?Past relationships?Your work?Your family? Not enough money?Love? Are you happy?Do you have everything in life that you want?Have you accomplished everything in life that you want?Do you own many things?Are you in the process of accomplishing your goals?Do you have a certain income that allows you to live a simple life and pay your bills…?Do you have a laptop to connect with the world, and post things about your life that is a blessing? And then we become jealous of what other people do or own! We fail to utilize our blessings to live a happy life. We become more and more unhappy where we miss out… We read stuff and see things on the internet that make us unhappy, instead of skipping them… If we can’t get inspiration or learn from the information, we get about the other person's life… skip it. We need motivation, encouragement, and not bad news or something that upsets us. The major things people are unhappy about are pessimistic and the victim's mindset… We all struggle, last 2 years were very hard for me… Should I stick to my problems that I cannot solve… Or should I let go and do positive things and build something new in my life?  Should I play a happy person when I am frustrated or depressed? No, feel it and let it go…  Don’t beat yourself up, love yourself that you are still alive!I have faced so many times the death so I am happy that I am still alive …  Challenge yourself so much that you can reset your life… And that I did in the mountains…  Don’t let society or bad news pull you down…  I never promised you a rose garden… (great book) We have to go back on our feet after losing so badly… That is about happiness…  We should appreciate what we have and what we went through… So that our life is a blessing with all the ups and downs… Do your best… Still, we don’t have most of the things under our control…So, what, I am proud that I do so and not give up… Live a simple life, don’t depend on what you expect…It is only this moment that you have… So, the more things we do have so more we are involved… So more we depend! Then our good times are already scheduled! Then we don’t have time for ourselves… I see no happiness in having a family a spouse or a car, or a house. If we can’t be happy alone, then can’t be happy with a family… Happiness is in our attitude… And doesn’t depend on circumstances… Happiness is in letting go of negativity… What is the benefit to stick on negativity, bad news, and bad experiences?  Why are you worrying? You see, you can worry about so many things and then you have an accident, and for this accident, you didn’t worry… Let it go…  My Video: How to be happy alone?  https://youtu.be/8GpTiWfAZBcMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast3/How-to-be-happy-alone.mp3

 I went back after over 10 years to the Ashram in Amritapuri/Kerala…I was meditating the whole day as usual in the presence of my Guru Amma. Then I went swimming, the Arabian Ocean was calm and no wave. Somehow, we should not go swimming, but the older devotees like me did that always. Beside that I am an excellent swimmer/certified rescue swimmer/lifeguard. It was Sunday late afternoon; we had many buses full of Indian devotees in the Ashram…  I swam my 30 minutes… good for my body… And again, I meditated for 4 hours… In the night my roommate told me, shortly after I left the water; a baby went in the water, when his mother was going to get a ticket for the Guru…   There had been about 200 Western and Indian devotees on the beach… Nobody cared for that baby and guess… My roommate jumped in the water, when he heard that there is a baby drown in the water of the ocean.First, he undressed his white cloth… The Ashramites were complaining and then he tried his best to find the baby… NO CHANCES! All of these so holly Ashramites didn’t like to help, they watched the sun set and hindered my roommate to find that baby! … In Germany these Ashramites would go to jail, because they didn’t help or prevented the baby to get drowned! IT IS A CRIME! Next morning, they put in English everywhere signboards on the beach that nobody should swim. 99% of the Indians CANNOT swim and 99% of the Western people can swim. For what reason they put a signboard in English: “It is dangerous to swim”? That is not true! I went swimming every day for 10 years when I was living in the Ashram! Most of all Indians cannot read English nor swim!Even it is everywhere forbidden in Kerala for the Indians to go swimming because they cannot swim… For Western people it is allowed to go swimming.  My situation was terrible, because people could blemish me that I have inspired the mother with the baby to go swimming.  Then I had to defense myself and to tell the truth… Would never be good, the people would hate me!  I could not stand the whole situation of dishonesty and I left immediately the Ashram when I saw the signboards. It was Christmas, so I went to Varkala, it is close to the Ashram. A half year later I read the book “Holly Hell” by Gayatri about our Ashram and the Guru… Gayatri was one of the best Sanayasin of our Guru Amma and the personal servant of Amma. She wrote terrible stories about Amma and our Ashram… The book became a bestseller! In India it is forbidden to criticize a Guru. If you abuse a Guru then the devotees should kill you, after the Indian scriptures (Srimati Bhagavatam).  In our Ashram we had to idealize the actions done by the Guru and to rationalize the wrongdoing. So that everything was perfect…  The suicide rate was so high that the government wanted to close the Ashram!   Because we should not speak/care to other people. Everybody should stay isolated.If you needed help, for sure it was very difficult to get help…  There were a lot of signboards in the Ashram that Western people should not speak or to be together with Indian people!? But I had a lot of Indian friends, so again I didn’t care.  Regardless what a Guru is doing it is divine…? Because he/she is an embodiment of selfless love…? I surrender my life to God and I don’t need for that to be perfect! For me is God perfect, and that is enough. And I am happy that God has shown me again that this Ashram is not the place, where I should be!  My Video: Episode 25 my last day at the Ashram https://youtu.be/3rf39AQs0x4My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast1/Episode-25-my-last-day-at-the-Ashram.mp3

 A true story… There was a couple who was loving each other continuously over 20 years…. This love was so outstanding and exceptionally that this couple got admired… From the beginning on, when they met each other both were writing a diary. Their friends asking them how would it be to publish a book about their great love… Both agreed. They thought it would be easy to write a book about their love, because they had written down their experience every day in a diary. And then they were reading their experience of the same days in front of each other. Afterward, they separated!  What was the problem? On the same days both experienced differently their love…When one thought, the other love me so much on this day, the opposite was true… They could not understand, what the main thing about true love is:  To love the other person, regardless of what… It is ONLY important in a love relationship that you open your heart and surrender your love to your darling… It is NOT important if you get appreciated for your love… Love is ALWAYS selfless! Love wants always to surrender WITHOUT ANY CONDITION!   Love wants always to serve! I have heard it Millions of times: I love you…And I thought always that we will see! Deeds are speaking louder than words… Most of the time I have heard “I love you” because my darling wanted something from me…So that this “I love you” was just only a strategy… The other times, it was not necessary to say: “I love You” Bhagwan and I understood independently so more often you say “I love you” so faster the love will end! It is counterproductive to say, I love you!   My Video: Is love an illusion? https://youtu.be/CZ6dllz-FNUMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast1/Is-love-an-illusion.mp3

 1. Find time to Relax… If you don’t have time to relax you will run in huge problems! All what is needed is to relax! Schedule free time for yourself! 2. Avoid the NewsWe don’t need the negative news that are sucking our energy out. Trust that if something important happens, you’ll know about it. Spend your time on something more worthwhile. 3. Nurture Your Positive Relationships.Make time to nurture the positive relationships you have with friends and family. Identify the people who lift you up and focus your energy on them. 4. Meet New People.Be open for new people… Because it will provide us with new ideas, perspectives and chances. 5. Explore New PlacesNew places and cultures offer a different perspective on the world and add a healthy dose of inspiration and possibility to our lives. 6. Keep a Wish ListWrite down your true desires, watch what you can accomplish and think which desires you should change over time! 7. Try New ThingsExplore new things… 8. Spend Money on Experiences and not Possessions.It’s experiences, not possessions, that create memories and meaning. 9. Cut down Your JunkMake space in your place where you live. Get rid of the clutter and be surrounded only with the things that you like. 10. Make Time for Gratitude and Appreciation.How to start a positive life?  Be thankful what you have and get… Start with a gratitude journal. And say always “thank you” for everything that you get.  11. Track How you spend Your TimeIf we are conscious how we spend our time we save so much time. Don’t waste your time! 12. Invest in YourselfThe more self-aware and self-accepting we are, the happier we are. Make time to read personal development books, journal, and focus on being compassionate towards yourself.  14. Accept bad as good times, both are necessary.And so is it with our emotions… All emotions are good … We are feeling beings that can think! Don’t get stacked in your negative emotions.   15. Celebrate Small WinsMake time to celebrate your wins—no matter how small, and focus on enjoying the journey rather than the destination. 16. Get OutsideFeel the wind on your face, the sun on your skin, and enjoy a good dose of Vitamin D and fresh air. 17. Speak Your MindWhen we hold back our thoughts, opinions, and desires out of fear of displeasing others, we’re not being true to ourselves. Speak up and feel uncomfortable in the short-term and you’ll enjoy life more in the long-term. 18. Get ActiveExercises releases endorphins, natural pain-relieving and stress-busting chemicals. 19. Keep Learning My Video: How to Enjoy Life more? https://youtu.be/BuaiNWNHH6sMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast1/How-to-Enjoy-Life-more.mp3

 Don’t buy something that you don’t need now or that you don’t really need.Go through your living place and check how much stuff you have stored that you don’t need or even didn’t use at all… Get rid of them to make space. Don’t be a hoarder or collector of useless stuff.Guess, afterward you feel much better!  Don’t buy a new car because they are too expensive! Buy stuff that can make you money! Get a job where you are not indispensable so you get power from that… When you are easily replaceable, then you are always in a bad situation…  Most people are dishonest and unreliable and don’t do the work good! They are wasting their time instead to work… If you are honest and reliable, do every work good as you can and don’t waste your time… Guess,…  If you have skills on demands, like plumbers…  You will get always a job.  Self-sufficiency is king! So, you don’t have to rely on other people.Have the skills to fix and build things by yourself. Learn even more things to do by yourself. Redundancy is God.  Make always a copy (two copies are better) of your data…Regardless where. So many people got stranded because they didn’t have a copy!  Wisdom is to see everything in a big greater picture. The mass is ALWAYS wrong! Said Earl Nightingale…If you have the choice to choose between two groups, a big group and a small group..If you choose always to follow the small group you rarely make any mistake in follow the small group for your whole life! Marry early otherwise it is too late! You can adapt to another person much easier when you are young!  If you would empty your mind with meditation, then you are getting better so older you become otherwise your memories drawn you down! Because we are getting much worse experience than good experience! Everybody should learn to cook healthy his own stuff. From that depends our life quality! Additionally, you need to make every day your body exercise. Every old smart person will agree to that.   Living a simple, honest life sounds like a successful one to me.  Success like many things is in the eyes of the beholder. Many people are rich.But have lost their true self or sold their souls to get there.  Don't take life too seriously, nobody makes it out alive. It's all about Perspective....Without the Pain you would not know true Happiness.It's never too late.... As the old saying goes: Our failures make us stronger.   "Every man is guilty of all the good he did not do" Voltaire Rich is the man who is happy with his lot. It has never been about money. What a sad state if it is. Be generous, have gratitude, be humble; and happiness will find a place in your soul. My Video: Life tips: https://youtu.be/hNhkTvGwI7IMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast1/Life-tips.mp3

 Women are the only creatures that can create life… The females are most important! Males are superfluous… You need only the sperm of a male to procreate and then you can kill the male! This is the reason that males are more mission/goal-driven or to become a master, to create new things… than females. Most aging women who never had children are feeling unfulfilled in their life because they didn’t live their life mission to be a mother! In the Western World, more than 1/4 of the kids had been unwanted kids… And the mothers took the responsibility to give birth to that unwanted kid.  Maybe you are like me that was an unwanted kid? Even if you get that unwanted kid you can enjoy being together with that kid. And this kid will fill that void inside of yourself…  After some years, almost every woman who gave birth to that unwanted kid felt that the decision was best to get that unwanted kid! Almost every mother got the resources to grow up a kid! Most of the women who made an abortion felt depressed/guilty/unworthy of the abortion and that often for their whole life.  Do you think honesty that you will have the grace of the Lord when you abort a kid?  Do you think that you will lose the grace of the Lord if you abort a kid? For sure. Nevertheless, I think that women should have the option to abort a kid in the first 3 months of their pregnancy…  What do you think?My Video: Abortion or not abortion? https://youtu.be/iIrud-HswRQMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast1/Abortion-or-not-abortion.mp3

 Forgiving ourselves is one of the hardest things we will ever do.  Why are we seeking for validation, love, respect, money…? If we would love ourselves and have forgiven ourselves do you think that we would need love, money (more than we need), or respect from other people? Are we really guilt free? We use our guilt to remember not to do our errors again.  And then we feel guilty.   Our guilt does not change our past, but hinder us to enjoy fully our life.  People use our guilt to exploit us… We are handicapped by our guilt.  If we act out of guilt, we cannot act optimally. What is if we learn our lesson from our wrong doing and then forgive us… What was yesterday wrong might be today the best…   Regardless how we see it, to let go our guilt means that we are free from our past and can act optimally on a situation….   In any case we can learn only by mistakes, even we have done so badly when we learn something from that then everything is fine!  There is no hero who has done it always great… And there is no wicked person who has done everything wrong. Both are we…  I don’t care if people think that I am a bad guy… Because I am also a bad guy! What is wrong to be a bad guy? Sometimes or often, everybody is a bad guy!  Life is life…  I would be a stupid person if I would not forgive myself. I can only improve my shortcoming everyday if I let go the past…  Because my guilt will draw again and again my past to me, to repeat my wrong doing. So what, I can punish myself and feel bad? For what?   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jn83maTLVZgMy Video: Self-forgiveness https://youtu.be/jn83maTLVZgMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast1/Self-forgiveness.mp3

We want to cure the symptoms of dry eyes through Neurostimulation, which means vibration on the trigeminal nerve. Scientists have discovered the trigeminal nerve plays a critical role in ocular surface health, symptomology, and overall homeostasis of your tears. If you stimulate the trigeminal nerve you can increase the baseline of tears. The baseline of tears is the tears that are created naturally without emotions created tears or by the outside environment,- onions...   You can use for this procedure, an electrical vibrating toothbrush (the back of the head, without the brush), an electrical face massager, or a prostrate vibrator (to cure enlarged prostate), instead of a specially designed device called itear100, for that.  When you do so in the correct way with a strong vibration, then your tears will come and you will sneeze… After a week or so when massaging with such a device your trigeminal nerve, the symptoms will subside.  You should massage your trigeminal nerve, 2 times per day for 30 seconds.  Where is the trigeminal nerve? The easiest way to stimulate that nerve is in the middle of our nasal bone, on each side, above our nostril, and until the end of our nostril. We massage the left and the right side of our nose as described before. We are looking for a maximum of symptoms as I have described before, tears, running nose, and sneezing.  After 5 to 10 seconds, you will sneeze, the nose is running with nasal mucus, and drives tears in your eyes. What does not kill you makes you strong… You keep it for 30s. Otherwise, the vibration is not strong enough or you didn’t hit the nerve. . My Video: Cure Dry Eyes With A Toothbrush https://youtu.be/BckiU4wnKi0 My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast3/Cure-Dry-Eyes-With-A-Toothbrush.mp3

 It was November, the temperature about -5 Celsius and I was just only a short time in Germany, the other time I lived in India… My Wisdom tooth was hurting… I went to my well trusted dentist, he said we have to pull out your wisdom tooth, and it will be very hard to do so… I need for that at least 2 hours, come tomorrow…  He could not pull out the tooth directly, so he had to cut the tooth in 4 pieces and again and again I got more and more local anesthesia… After 3 hours the tooth was out… Finally, I left my wisdom (tooth) at the doctor and went outside. The cold temperature hit my face. I climbed the stairs down. I had to pass a small market in an area of heroin addicted people. I felt very dizzy and lost my consciousness, dropped down on the pedestrian. The people thought I was an addicted person with an overdose… So, they didn’t care… When I got back my consciousness some Junkies were jelling and kicking me. Come on, go up…Otherwise, the police will come and arrest you…  I went up and with my last power I could climb up the stairs to the practice of my dentist… I entered the front door after ringing of the bell… The nurses yelled; Doctor come his face is already blue… I knew what that means, because I had nursed an old woman and when she died her face went blue…  The doctor came, saw me, yelled to the nurse harshly: Shut up… Because he didn’t want that I was frightening to die… They maneuvered me to lie on a bed… one nurse was holding my hand to check the pulse the other 3 nurses around me… The doctor gave me some injections and commanded me move your body, but I could not. Can you hear me, I could, but I could not reply…? The nurse was counting 40, 30, 20… And I didn’t care, I wanted to give up my body… I had no fear…I wanted just to go beyond and never be again jailed in a stupid body…  The nurse said no pulse anymore… Then they started with heart massage…  And I enjoyed it… But then my bad consciousness kicked in… You cannot do such thing… The doctor will think that he had killed you…Come back…  If we analyze this story, the anesthesia had weakened my will power… so that I had not enough power to recover… And this problem is facing the patients who got full anesthesia and then they give up their body!  Still, I had my mission and so I could go back to life…  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=01a-ozlMxrk My Video: Episode24 My dentist killed me. https://youtu.be/01a-ozlMxrkMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast1/Episode24-My-dentist-killed-me..mp3