re.love® with Dr. Ezzie Spencer

If you’ve been single for awhile (or you’re recently out of a long-term relationship) then you may be confronted with the weirdness of the current dating climate.

You might feel intimidated or turned off — which is entirely understandable.

And I firmly believe that it is still possible to have fun dating right now, a belief rooted in the reality of how I help my clients everyday to enhance their dating experience.

The quality of your experience will likely correlate with the depth of your inner work, the rigor of your vetting system, and your fluency in today’s “dating” language.

So how to do that?

As my cosmic pal Theresa Reed likes to say: be prepared, not scared!

On that: I give preparation tips in today’s podcast episode. 

Tune in below, or search my name in your fave podcast platform. 

xo Ezzie

* Postscript: after 5 beautiful years, flourishing self-love, many engagements and babies! - the re.love® program has drawn to a conclusion.

NEW BODY OF WORK:
www.ezziespencer.com

Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

So. We can know that the hype around February 14 is commercially manufactured, we can know that everyone is on their own timeline but … Valentine's Day can still be a tricky one to navigate if your love-life is not exactly where you'd like it to be.

In honour of this, today's podcast episode is a bit different. Tune in for a guided meditation to connect with unconditional love and hope, and to receive guidance from your own inner wisdom about what to do for yourself at this time of year.

You are so loved,

... and big love is coming for you.

xo Ezzie

* Postscript: after 5 beautiful years, flourishing self-love, many engagements and babies! - the re.love® program has drawn to a conclusion.

NEW BODY OF WORK:
www.ezziespencer.com

Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

Love Blocks don’t mean that you are doomed.

On the contrary, figuring out you have a love block is cause for celebration!

Okay, that sounds weird. Why celebrate?

Because correctly identifying what is blocking you means that you can swiftly address it.

In today’s episode, we go through the 3 main love blocks that I see with my clients.

These blocks might come up at any stage in dating and relationship. But when you melt these away, the more ease you’ll have in your love-life.

This applies whether you are single, dating or yes — even in relationship and wanting to go deeper.

Do you feel blocked in love? Do you relate to, 1, 2 or 3? 

Listen to the episode and let me know. 

xo Ezzie

* Postscript: after 5 beautiful years, flourishing self-love, many engagements and babies! - the re.love® program has drawn to a conclusion.

NEW BODY OF WORK:
www.ezziespencer.com

Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

Think of it this way.

If expectations signal a focus on them (how they "should" behave)

Then standards emanate from the inside-out (what works for you).

It’s how you position and hold yourself in relation to the thing that matters.

Starting with your own standards in the quest for love can make all the difference.

And then, to hold your standards is a sign of embodied self-worth.

Good in theory ... a little crunchier when you are connecting with someone you really like.

In today’s episode, we dive into that scenario.

xo Ezzie

* Postscript: after 5 beautiful years, flourishing self-love, many engagements and babies! - the re.love® program has drawn to a conclusion.

NEW BODY OF WORK:
www.ezziespencer.com

Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

FROM THE ARCHIVES: In the weird online world, when things seem increasingly uncertain and complex, a system can help you stay grounded and confident and relax into the flow. 

The wheels of (re)love is the exact system I use to help my clients weave their way from single to loved-up. 

Tune into another classic podcast episode from the archives: how to go from dating to relationship. 

xo Ezzie

* Postscript: after 5 beautiful years, flourishing self-love, many engagements and babies! - the re.love® program has drawn to a conclusion.

NEW BODY OF WORK:
www.ezziespencer.com

Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

FROM THE ARCHIVES: This week I’m sharing one of the top re.love® podcast episodes of all time.

THE GOLDEN QUADRANT gives a helpful framework to help you approach dating conversations with the energy of curiosity, openness, abundance and play. 

It helps to take the pressure down and have fun dating.

Try it out and let me know what you think!

xo Ezzie

* Postscript: after 5 beautiful years, flourishing self-love, many engagements and babies! - the re.love® program has drawn to a conclusion.

NEW BODY OF WORK:
www.ezziespencer.com

Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

If you’ve ever wondered whether you missed the chance with someone special because of something you said or did, then this episode is for you.

I loved recording this episode because it gives insight into a private client session (details shared with her permission).

She came into the session beating herself up about what she said to an ex one night - and left feeling peace, calm and relaxation at the end, knowing that she was enough.

Tune in, as this is a practical dive into self-love and weaving the unconscious into the light.

Love 
Ezzie

* Postscript: after 5 beautiful years, flourishing self-love, many engagements and babies! - the re.love® program has drawn to a conclusion.

NEW BODY OF WORK:
www.ezziespencer.com

Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

On the cusp of a new year, today’s podcast episode is another personal update.  

Tune in for my reflections on my word for 2022 (what was yours?) 

Also:

• Highlights of 2022 - and big decisions for me 
• Why I’m so excited about changing things up in 2023 
• And why I believe love is possible in 2023!

xo Ezzie

Apply for a private re.love® journey here:
www.ezziespencer.com/private

Check out the new self-study program LOVEABLE here:
https://www.ezziespencer.com/loveable

Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer

Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here:
www.ezziespencer.com


Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

* Postscript: after 5 beautiful years, flourishing self-love, many engagements and babies! - the re.love® program has drawn to a conclusion.

NEW BODY OF WORK:
www.ezziespencer.com

Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

Happy end-of-the-year, and good wishes for whatever you celebrate!

Amidst it all, it can be a tricky time of year where friends and family take the opportunity to probe into your love-life 

… tricky if your love-life isn't exactly where you'd like it to be.


If you're experiencing any awkward questions or opinions around the holiday dinner table, you might find today's episode helpful.

This is about love, but the principles apply to any tender subject.

Tune in for:

1. A framework to determine who to open up to.
2. Communication scripts on how to frame your shares - you don’t have to cut out your loved ones altogether!
3. What to do if no one gets you — what action to take.

I hope this episode helps you navigate any tricky conversations at this time of the year. Listen to your heart, and you've got this! 

xo Ezzie

Apply for a private re.love® journey here:
www.ezziespencer.com/private

Check out the new self-study program LOVEABLE here:
https://www.ezziespencer.com/loveable

Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer

Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here:
www.ezziespencer.com


Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

* Postscript: after 5 beautiful years, flourishing self-love, many engagements and babies! - the re.love® program has drawn to a conclusion.

NEW BODY OF WORK:
www.ezziespencer.com

Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

This question breaks my heart because there is so much toxic dating advice out there, making you feel wrong for simply being YOU.

The toxic part? "Having" to do/be something to be loved.

The truth?


Show YOUR magic.

You don’t need to fix or change yourself to find love.

And if you ever catch yourself trying to “be” or “do” something in order to “get” something …

… it’s really risky business. 

I share my personal experience with that in this episode,

Plus an alternative rooted in self-love and self-revelry.

Click below to listen, or search my name in your fave podcast app.

Show your own magic!
xo Ezzie

Apply for a private re.love® journey here:
www.ezziespencer.com/private

Check out the new self-study program LOVEABLE here:
https://www.ezziespencer.com/loveable

Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer

Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here:
www.ezziespencer.com


Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

* Postscript: after 5 beautiful years, flourishing self-love, many engagements and babies! - the re.love® program has drawn to a conclusion.

NEW BODY OF WORK:
www.ezziespencer.com

Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©