re.love® with Dr. Ezzie Spencer

A beautiful woman slipped into my Instagram DMs the other day.

“How can I tell if someone is avoidant or just not into me?”

My answer to her — does it matter?

Does it really matter what their attachment style is — or their personality disorder, or their starsign, human design or whatever?

What really matters in love is, does it work for you?

(Meaning, does their behavior, personality and style work for you).

The big Q: why is your gaze on them — and not on you?

This episode is for you if you've felt anxious or confused about someone's dating behaviour.

Tune into:

-  understand different attachment styles; and

-  learn how to gracefully ask the other person what's going on. 

This episode includes communication scripts you can use rightaway to move forwards — plus common errors to avoid.

This is one of the most juicy episodes I've ever recorded.

Love to hear your thoughts once you listen!

xo Ezzie


Doors closing for re.love on 2 October, details here:
www.ezziespencer.com/relove

Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer

Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here:
www.ezziespencer.com


Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

* Postscript: after 5 beautiful years, flourishing self-love, many engagements and babies! - the re.love® program has drawn to a conclusion.

NEW BODY OF WORK:
www.ezziespencer.com

Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

Wondering how is it supposed to feel is so normal — especially when you have done deep personal work in recent years, had a spiritual awakening, or upgraded your relationship goals.

 The short answer? Listen to your body, trust yourself.

The longer answer? There are certain clues to look out for.

I'll go through two big 2 clues in this episode:

- what you DO want to be feeling
- what you DON'T want to be feeling.

Both are pretty revolutionary, if you are doing the deep work to shift lifetime(s) of old relational patterns that no longer serve.

This episode may hit on quite a deep level. Tune in. 

You deserve to be adored.

xo Ezzie

Doors closing for re.love on 2 October, details here:
www.ezziespencer.com/relove

Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer

Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here:
www.ezziespencer.com


Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

* Postscript: after 5 beautiful years, flourishing self-love, many engagements and babies! - the re.love® program has drawn to a conclusion.

NEW BODY OF WORK:
www.ezziespencer.com

Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

Intentional Celibacy is trending.

There's a good reason — a sacred pause can be a brilliant way to reset your attraction patterns and attract in the quality of suitors that you desire.

So ...

What is it?

Why do it?

For how long?

How to approach a period of sacred alone time?

Plus ...

How to get back onto the court, when you're ready? (eeek!).

Tune into today's episode for all the juicy goss on this important topic. (I'm increasingly seeing that Intentional Celibacy is a key stage on my clients' journeys into delicious relationship).

Can't wait to hear your thoughts about the episode!

xo Ezzie


Doors closing for re.love on 2 October, details here:
www.ezziespencer.com/relove

Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer

Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here:
www.ezziespencer.com


Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

* Postscript: after 5 beautiful years, flourishing self-love, many engagements and babies! - the re.love® program has drawn to a conclusion.

NEW BODY OF WORK:
www.ezziespencer.com

Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

While I'm a huge fan of dating apps (when done right), many of my clients are feeling the urge to meet people the old-fashioned-way too — in real life.

I love that!

I mean, why scrimp? Open up as many avenues as possible!

Today's episode is for you if you're wondering how to meet people in real life after a period of relying on the apps (or not meeting anyone at all). 

In this episode, you'll discover:
 
- awesome places to meet people, which are working right now
- a mindset shift that will help you get over the awks
- fun, simple ways to flirt and … how to assess their availability.

There's a renewed zest for meeting IRL right now, so if you're looking for love, you will want to take notes from this practical episode — and then take action!

xo Ezzie

Doors closing for re.love on 2 October, details here:
www.ezziespencer.com/relove

Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer

Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here:
www.ezziespencer.com


Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

* Postscript: after 5 beautiful years, flourishing self-love, many engagements and babies! - the re.love® program has drawn to a conclusion.

NEW BODY OF WORK:
www.ezziespencer.com

Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

But what do I SAY at the end of the date - so he initiates the next one?

The woman who asked me this was a go-getter who expressly wanted to learn how to embrace her feminine in love.

Sidenote opinion : there's no right or wrong relating dynamic. It all comes down to what YOU want.

THIS beautiful woman had a habit of stepping into the driver's seat in her romantic relationships — and that dynamic was leaving her depleted.

She was clear that she wanted to establish a different dynamic in her romantic life but wasn't quite sure ... how. 

What might it look like to "be in her feminine" while dating?

How might she indicate her interest, she wondered?

I gave her some super practical ideas, and she is now in the most delicious deeper dating dynamic (which works for her!)

Tune in to find out: what not to say, what to say, and why say it.

If you wish to invite masculine pursuit, listen to this episode.

Explore, experiment, do you!

xo Ezzie

Doors closing for re.love on 2 October, details here:
www.ezziespencer.com/relove

Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer

Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here:
www.ezziespencer.com


Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

* Postscript: after 5 beautiful years, flourishing self-love, many engagements and babies! - the re.love® program has drawn to a conclusion.

NEW BODY OF WORK:
www.ezziespencer.com

Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

Remote work: Once for the fringe dwellers, now mainstream. It's not possible for all professions of course, but maybe it is for you. The choice is great. 

So many possibilities for where to live, how to set up your life.

And ...

Will you find love when you don't yet know where you'll be?

Is love even possible in these circumstances? (Yes!).

In this episode, I guide you through a 3-step process to gain clarity, belief, and confidence in communication with your suitors.

I can't wait to hear how this episode helps you to move forwards!

xo Ezzie


Doors closing for re.love on 2 October, details here:
www.ezziespencer.com/relove

Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer

Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here:
www.ezziespencer.com


Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

* Postscript: after 5 beautiful years, flourishing self-love, many engagements and babies! - the re.love® program has drawn to a conclusion.

NEW BODY OF WORK:
www.ezziespencer.com

Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

After a summer hiatus, we're back with Season 4 of the podcast!

This is such a juicy season, kicking off with the question ...

How to handle multiple suitors?!

In this episode we cover:

- what rotational dating is (and isn't)
- why do it (this may surprise you!)
- how to do it elegantly (graceful communication alert!).

This episode is for you if you feel some resistance about the idea of having "multiple loops" open at any time ...

... and also if you feel like you don't know where to start with this approach ("omg one is enough!").

Mastering the mindset behind this approach heralded a major breakthrough in my own dating life. Hello, courtship!

As always, love to hear your thoughts, my DMs are open.

xo Ezzie


Doors closing for re.love on 2 October, details here:
www.ezziespencer.com/relove

Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer

Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here:
www.ezziespencer.com


Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

* Postscript: after 5 beautiful years, flourishing self-love, many engagements and babies! - the re.love® program has drawn to a conclusion.

NEW BODY OF WORK:
www.ezziespencer.com

Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

Elisa is an incredible life coach who is a graduate of the re.love program.

In our conversation, Elisa speaks candidly about her concerns before entering the re.love program — was this just a heteronormative experience? What about those with intersecting identities? 

I welcomed Elisa's hesitations, and was also excited to jam about her journey with re.love.

Elisa is now a mentor inside the re.love program, lucky ducks for this program, as Elisa has so much wisdom to share!

Tune in to hear Elisa's experiences and bathe in her gorgeous love energy.

x Ezzie

Details on the JUNE 2022 re.love group here:
www.ezziespencer.com/relove


Elisa's IG: @elisa.lifecoach.hatton

Ezzie's IG: @ezziespencer

Watch my conversation with Elisa on IGTV video here

Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here:
www.ezziespencer.com


Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©
 

* Postscript: after 5 beautiful years, flourishing self-love, many engagements and babies! - the re.love® program has drawn to a conclusion.

NEW BODY OF WORK:
www.ezziespencer.com

Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

 I'm sharing this seminal episode again because is an EPIC roadmap to love, and exactly what I use to (re)activate the love magic of the brilliant women I work with.

Interestingly enough, I found that the women who listened to this episode and then joined re.love nominating a specific focus on “Wheel One” … are in gorgeous relationships, 12 months later. 

As you will hear in the episode, Wheel One = self-love.

Goes to show, what we create within first …!

Tune in for a self-diagnostic tool to quickly figure out:

• your exact block to love (in self-love and in dating/rships)
• what is at the root of that block (hint: often self-protection!)
• how to quickly dissolve the block and re(activate) YOUR love magic.

xo Ezzie


Register for the free Masterclass on 1 June 2022:
Be Irresistable to Love

Reach out on IG: @ezziespencer

Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here:
www.ezziespencer.com

Details on the JUNE 2022 re.love group here:
www.ezziespencer.com/relove

* Postscript: after 5 beautiful years, flourishing self-love, many engagements and babies! - the re.love® program has drawn to a conclusion.

NEW BODY OF WORK:
www.ezziespencer.com

Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

There are two types of situation-ships I see my clients get lost in…

 Where the connection is palpable, the potential is STRONG, but the relationship itself feels elusive or remains just-out-of-reach.

Are you in one of these 2 types of situation-ships?

(And if you are — what to do about it?) 

Listen to this week's podcast episode to find out —

Of course, you deserve more than a situation-ship.

You deserve to be fully met in your relationships.

 
x Ezzie

Reach out on IG: @ezziespencer

Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here:
www.ezziespencer.com

Details on the JUNE 2022 re.love group here:
www.ezziespencer.com/relove


Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

* Postscript: after 5 beautiful years, flourishing self-love, many engagements and babies! - the re.love® program has drawn to a conclusion.

NEW BODY OF WORK:
www.ezziespencer.com

Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©