re.love® with Dr. Ezzie Spencer

"Is it possible to get too much into self-love and self-sovereignty?"

Well, firstly, there's no rule that says you have to want to be in romantic relationship!

But what happens if you did want that — and now you don't?

How to know whether this is a passing phase, avoidance, or a core desire?

In this week's podcast episode, I share why this question might come up, together with prompts for inner contemplation and practical next steps.

To your love (in all the ways!)

x Ezzie


Reach out on IG: @ezziespencer

Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here:
www.ezziespencer.com

Details on the JUNE 2022 re.love group here:
www.ezziespencer.com/relove


Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

* Postscript: after 5 beautiful years, flourishing self-love, many engagements and babies! - the re.love® program has drawn to a conclusion.

NEW BODY OF WORK:
www.ezziespencer.com

Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

As a love coach, I see a LOT of text messages each week.

This gives me a ringside seat to what exactly is misfiring for women who wish to be pursued (and who are experiencing the opposite in their dating lives).

While every situation will naturally have its own context, there is one particular mistake I see time and again.

What is it? Tune in today's episode to hear!

Love to hear your thoughts,

xo Ezzie


Reach out on IG: @ezziespencer

Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here:
www.ezziespencer.com

Details on the JUNE 2022 re.love group here:
www.ezziespencer.com/relove


Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

* Postscript: after 5 beautiful years, flourishing self-love, many engagements and babies! - the re.love® program has drawn to a conclusion.

NEW BODY OF WORK:
www.ezziespencer.com

Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

Why is he not pursuing you … or even asking you out?

In this week's podcast episode, you'll learn - 

1. The counter-intuitive tip I teach my clients (to activate pursuit)
2. What to do when you become magnetic (and what not to do)
3. The critical mindset shift to make now (to keep all this flowing).
 
This is for you if you're dating — and it might just spark up your existing relationship too.

You'll love this episode, it is pure love magic!

xo Ezzie

Reach out on IG: @ezziespencer

Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here:
www.ezziespencer.com

Details on the JUNE 2022 re.love group here:
www.ezziespencer.com/relove



Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

* Postscript: after 5 beautiful years, flourishing self-love, many engagements and babies! - the re.love® program has drawn to a conclusion.

NEW BODY OF WORK:
www.ezziespencer.com

Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

Welcome to season 3 of the re.love podcast! 

If you are a highly sensitive person, or an empath, you may have porous energetic boundaries. 

This can be a superpower in terms of navigating spiritual realms ... 

 … But in romantic relationships?

It can become kryptonite, particularly when coupled with a tendency to take on and transmute the pain of others, and to compromise your own needs in the name of love.

In this week's podcast episode, I answer an empath's question on how to stop losing herself in relationship.

In the episode, we dive into :

— How to distinguish between your feels and desires - and theirs?
— A powerful affirmation to return to self-love + self-acceptance
— How to keep yourself in relationship - a longer-term strategy

To your self-sovereignty,
x Ezzie

Reach out on IG: @ezziespencer

Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here:
www.ezziespencer.com

Details on the JUNE 2022 re.love group here:
www.ezziespencer.com/relove

* Postscript: after 5 beautiful years, flourishing self-love, many engagements and babies! - the re.love® program has drawn to a conclusion.

NEW BODY OF WORK:
www.ezziespencer.com

Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

Most of the brilliant magical women I work with are yearning for a committed relationship, a healthy life partnership, a loving long-term partnership ...

... what we call the Secret Garden in re.love language, the ultimate Spoke #8 on the wheel ...

... but they keep getting stuck at the dating stage, in Spoke #6 of the re.love wheel.

When your dating explorations and relationships get stuck here, it is a BIC clue that you are not quite ready for that committed relationship that your heart is craving.

The good news? Becoming ready might not require months and months of work.

To become ready, you might just need to make a few tweaks.

In this episode, I walk through how to identify if you are not quite ready for that Secret Garden relationship, even if you are really into someone ...

... and 3 things to incorporate to become ready.

x Ezzie

P.S. This is the end of Season 2 of the Podcast. I'll be back (very) soon with Season 3.


Reach out on IG: @ezziespencer

Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here:
www.ezziespencer.com

Details on re.love here:
www.ezziespencer.com/relove

* Postscript: after 5 beautiful years, flourishing self-love, many engagements and babies! - the re.love® program has drawn to a conclusion.

NEW BODY OF WORK:
www.ezziespencer.com

Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

My answer to this is — No, And.

Tune in to hear what I advise my clients about dating apps vs love-in-the-wild.

xo Ezzie

Reach out on IG: @ezziespencer

Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here:
www.ezziespencer.com

Details on re.love here:
www.ezziespencer.com/relove

* Postscript: after 5 beautiful years, flourishing self-love, many engagements and babies! - the re.love® program has drawn to a conclusion.

NEW BODY OF WORK:
www.ezziespencer.com

Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

... my living situation is sorted, until my heart is healed, until I figure out what is happening with my work, until I lose those pandemic pounds … ?

I see many so many women delaying love unnecessarily

 … resulting in loneliness.

And I see others rush forwards into dating before they are ready

 … resulting in (further) heartbreak.

Are you ready to date now, or would it be better for you to pause?

This episode contains different advice for three specific situations -

- if your life, your living situation, or your work is not exactly where you want it to be
- if you've exited a toxic relationship, or if you have a habit of attracting unavailable people or settling for less-than what you deserve
- if a major life change is on the horizon for you.

Tune in for prompts and the metric that I suggest that my clients use to assess when it is time to get back on the court of love!

x Ezzie 

Reach out on IG: @ezziespencer

Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here:
www.ezziespencer.com

Details on re.love here:
www.ezziespencer.com/relove

* Postscript: after 5 beautiful years, flourishing self-love, many engagements and babies! - the re.love® program has drawn to a conclusion.

NEW BODY OF WORK:
www.ezziespencer.com

Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

Recording this episode dredged up the memory of that time I was ghosted after dating someone for six months …

It was excruciating. 

Ghosting truly sucks. 

But in hindsight, the reason why it happened was obvious.

In today's podcast episode, I share three reasons why people ghost, and how to handle it when they do.

The third is rarely spoken about, but I see it each week in my client sessions. Hint: “Shift #3” in this week's masterclass.

This episode is designed to bring internal closure and help you shift your attention back to where it belongs ...
 
... on YOU, your standards, and the high-quality love you are calling in.

x Ezzie

Reach out on IG: @ezziespencer

Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here:
www.ezziespencer.com

Details for the February 2022 re.love journey here:
www.ezziespencer.com/relove

* Postscript: after 5 beautiful years, flourishing self-love, many engagements and babies! - the re.love® program has drawn to a conclusion.

NEW BODY OF WORK:
www.ezziespencer.com

Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

"After I got out of that toxic marriage, I'm now in a relationship with a decent, kind man … he is so nice … buttt I just don't fall in love with him. 

Am I blocked? What is it that I'm doing?"

Are you familiar with the pendulum swing — 

From wild, all-consuming, BIG LOVE (great til it crashes!)

To the sensible, “safe” choice (great until it becomes a bit boring).

What if you do not need to settle for the “safe” relationship?

What if you were with someone who was stable, consistent, kind — and you were also in love, had fun, were happy and inspired?

It is possible! In fact, it is what you deserve.

In today's podcast episode I share how to create exactly this.

I walk you through the re.love wheel through the lens of both chemistry and compatibility.


You need both. But what does this look like in practice?

You want to get out of the reactive, painful-or-unfulfilling swing, and turn the re.love wheel in the right way.

This is a BIG topic, so tune in. I can't wait to hear what you think!

x Ezzie



Reach out on IG: @ezziespencer

Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here:
www.ezziespencer.com

Details for the February 2022 re.love journey here:
www.ezziespencer.com/relove

* Postscript: after 5 beautiful years, flourishing self-love, many engagements and babies! - the re.love® program has drawn to a conclusion.

NEW BODY OF WORK:
www.ezziespencer.com

Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©

What if I told you there was a method to go from dating to relationship? 

I have created a very simple method, which cuts through all the noise.

In today's episode, I lead you through this tried-and-tested method that I lead my re.love clients through, from non-existent love-lives to being happy and settled.


All you need to do -

1. Follow the 8 steps in order,

2. Take the correct role in spinning the wheel, and

3. Release any old blocks at each of the spokes on the wheel.

Tune into today's episode for more on what each step looks like!

To your love in 2022,

x Ezzie

Reach out on IG: @ezziespencer

Free quiz, attraction elixir, love-notes and other resources here:
www.ezziespencer.com

Details for the February 2022 re.love journey here:
www.ezziespencer.com/relove

* Postscript: after 5 beautiful years, flourishing self-love, many engagements and babies! - the re.love® program has drawn to a conclusion.

NEW BODY OF WORK:
www.ezziespencer.com

Music composed and produced by Nathaniel Koenig ©