Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about requiring marriage certificates, reimbursing acquaintances, taking taxis in New York, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a hand-written thank you note if we could.)
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QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS:

What should I say to my friend who doesn't think a partner of seven years warrants a wedding invitation?

What is the proper etiquette for repaying an acquaintance who picked something up for you?

How can I keep my cool in the face of tourists rudely asking for directions all day long?

What are the rules for taking a taxi in New York City like a local?

Bonkers: Rudeness at the gym


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Qi Gong on Wikipedia

Labyrinth (1986): "You Have No Power Over Me" scene


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Episode 203
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Requiring Marriage Certificates, Reimbursing Acquaintances, Taking New York Taxis, and More

Editors’ Notes: “I want to give everybody the tools to solve their own etiquette problems,” says Nick Leighton, cohost and producer of Were You Raised by Wolves?, a weekly podcast in which he and cohost Leah Bonnema look into the many sticky social situations we all face. “With each of the questions that we get, from the bonkers to the ordinary, I always try to take a step back and ask, ‘What are the bigger principles here?’ I'm always looking for topics that help us make a larger point.” In each episode, Leighton, a two-time Emmy Award-winning journalist, and Bonnema, a comic/writer, share practical advice on how to navigate a wide range of situations, from the serious to the whimsical—whether they tackle interrupting excessive talkers, establishing healthy boundaries with coworkers, or the proper way to eat Cheetos.

When they developed the show in 2019, Leighton and Bonnema had one goal in mind: to have empathy for other people. Their informal conversations tackle a mix of personal topics, viewer questions, and the occasional historical fact with warmth and positivity and humor. Leighton views this approach as an antidote to a lot of the negativity he sees in the online world, while Bonnema thinks the show’s premise is a natural fit for her situational style of comedy. “A lot of my comedy is about events where I’m like, ‘What just happened here?’ or where I embarrass myself,” she says. “And, ironically, all of these fall under the guise of etiquette, where you either feel aggrieved or you feel like you committed some sort of social crime. I just loved the topic.”

Leighton and Bonnema credit the show’s ongoing success to their work ethic. They haven’t missed a single week since they launched the show, which recently hit a new milestone: 100 episodes. But what they value the most, above all else, is how they've built a community of listeners from all backgrounds. “We have conservative grandmothers in Tallahassee to nonbinary chefs in Seattle and everybody in between,” he says. “Because who among us has not experienced an etiquette crime? This is universal.”

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Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about faking wedding start times, asking for gifts back, clipping nails in church, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a hand-written thank you note if we could.)
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QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS:

Is it rude to put a fake start time on a wedding invitation?

What's the polite way to tell someone "when" to stop pouring wine?

How do I politely decline someone's offer to share a hotel room?

Is it OK to ask for a gift back after someone dies?

What do you do if you only remember a dog's name but not the owner's?

Etiquette Crime Report: Clipping nails in church


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A "Standard Pour" of wine

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Episode 227
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Faking Wedding Start Times, Asking for Gifts Back, Clipping Nails in Church, and More

Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah tackle getting things monogrammed, behaving at brunch, requesting graduation money, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a hand-written thank you note if we could.)
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EPISODE CONTENTS


AMUSE-BOUCHE: Monograms


A QUESTION OF ETIQUETTE: Brunch


QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS: When you have an extra ticket to a performance, is it rude to send a group text to see who calls dibs first? Is it OK to include a QR code or Venmo address on a graduation invitation?


VENT OR REPENT: Commenting on hair, Joking at a VC party


CORDIALS OF KINDNESS: Thanks for the song, A nice review


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The Preppy Handbook

Elizabeth Holmes documentary "The Dropout" trailer


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Episode 226
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Getting Things Monogrammed, Behaving at Brunch, Requesting Graduation Money, and More

Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about removing shoes on airplanes, exiting weddings early, welcoming guests in, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a hand-written thank you note if we could.)
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QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS:

What are your thoughts on removing one's shoes on an airplane?

How do you handle a friend who wants a friendship more than you do and also always suggests meeting up closer to where they live?

Should a bride and groom leave their wedding reception before the last song?

How do you feel about the phrase "Welcome In"?

What do you do about a friend who's always a downer at parties?

PSA: You're on camera when you sit front row at an opera or musical.


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Sound Baths

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Episode 225
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Removing Shoes on Airplanes, Exiting Weddings Early, Welcoming Guests In, and More

Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah tackle enjoying petit fours, visiting New York City, tracking down perishable gifts, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a hand-written thank you note if we could.)
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EPISODE CONTENTS


AMUSE-BOUCHE: Mignardises and Petit Fours


A QUESTION OF ETIQUETTE: New York City Etiquette


QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS: How do I respond to unsolicited encouragement from a stranger after a fitness class? How should I handle a perishable gift that's been delayed in the mail?


VENT OR REPENT: Rude taxi drivers, Stealing laundry carts


CORDIALS OF KINDNESS: Using luggage racks, Thanks for joining us at our recent live show


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Parts of a French meal

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Episode 224
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Enjoying Petit Fours, Visiting New York City, Tracking Down Perishable Gifts, and More

Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about stealing hotel rooms, escaping dinner parties, grabbing Costco canapés, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a hand-written thank you note if we could.)
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QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS:

What do we do if another couple we're traveling with does something rude at the very start of our vacation?

When gifting someone a photo or print, should you include the frame?

What's the polite way to escape a dinner party that's gone on for too long?

Does the rule about not wearing white to a wedding also apply to all the pre-wedding festivities?

Etiquette Crime Report: Stealing samples at Costco


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Trailer for "White Lotus" Season 1

British Knights shoes on Wikipedia


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Episode 223
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Requiring Marriage Certificates, Reimbursing Acquaintances, Taking New York Taxis, and More

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