Resilient Kid: Therapy and tips for raising strong kids and teens

Resilient Kid: Therapy and tips for raising strong kids and teens

By Ashley Costello | TEDx Speaker | Author | Psychotherapist | Award WinnerParentingKids & Family
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  • Emily Parker: The Resilient Kid's New Coach for 2025
    Emily Parker: The Resilient Kid's New Coach for 2025

    In the latest episode of the Resilient Kid podcast, Ashley Costello introduces Emily Parker as a new coach joining their mission for 2025. The discussion highlights the importance of reaching a million kids and emphasizes Emily's experience and enthusiasm for the cause.

    Emily details her role as a teaching assistant and ELSA (Emotional Literacy Support Assistant) and shares her insights into the importance of supporting children's mental health. The conversation also explores the ELSA program's role in schools and Emily's ongoing studies in trauma-informed practice.

    Finally, Emily discusses her excitement about expanding the Resilient Kid initiative to new areas and the positive impact it will have on children and families.

    Timestamps
    • 00:00 - Welcome to 2025: The Resilient Kid Podcast
    • 00:12 - Introducing Emily Parker: A Key Player in Resilient Kid's Mission
    • 03:25 - The Role of ELSA in Schools: Emily's Insight
    • 07:04 - Emily's Journey and Passion for Helping Children
    • 13:46 - The Impact of Resilient Kid: Expanding Across Cheshire
    • 16:18 - How Resilient Kid Supports Families and Schools
    • 26:09 - Looking Ahead: Hopes and Goals for 2025
    • Emily's Links
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          • 28 min
          • Beyond the Binary with Alex Lynam

            Find the full transcript here https://www.theresilientacademy.co.uk/lounge  

            Growing Up Non-Binary: Alex's Journey Towards Acceptance 

            In this episode of the Resilient Kid podcast, the host interviews Alex from Beyond the Binary to understand the challenges of growing up non-binary.

            Alex shares experiences of a lively childhood in Manchester, the confusion and anxiety faced during puberty, and the lack of community which led to mental health struggles.

            Alex discusses the journey through substance misuse, rehabilitation, and finally finding a sense of self as a trans non-binary individual.

            They emphasize the importance of open, validating conversations for young people exploring their gender identity and offer practical advice for parents and educators on providing support and understanding.

            Timestamps

            00:00 Introduction and Special Guest Alex

            01:02 Meeting at Danny Wallace's Big Festoon

            03:08 Alex's Childhood and Early Struggles

            05:11 High School Challenges and Mental Health

            06:38 Substance Misuse and Rehabilitation

            13:21 Understanding Gender and Sexuality

            24:16 Supporting Young People in Their Journey

            31:03 Affirming Conversations and Holding Space

            37:41 Final Thoughts and Resources

            Alex’s Links

            Website: www.adventuresinspanish.co.uk

            Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/alex.lynam95

            Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/beyondthebinary

            LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alex-jay-lynam-78640b253/

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            45 min
          • School Days To Sweet Success with Tom Newey

            Find the full transcript here https://www.theresilientacademy.co.uk/lounge  

            School Days to Sweet Success: Tom's Chocolate Empire - A Young Voices Season Highlight

            In this introductory segment of the Resilient Kid podcast's Young Voices Season, host Ashley Costello introduces Tom Newey, a young entrepreneur and founder of Layers Treats.

            Tom shares his challenging experiences in the education system, dealing with bullying and lack of support for his dyslexia, which led him to change schools and ultimately avoid university to start his business.

            Through resilience and innovation, Tom successfully built Layers Treats, a unique chocolate business that quickly gained popularity, particularly for its creatively layered Easter eggs.

            Ashley and Tom discuss the importance of listening to young people's experiences to enact meaningful changes in education and the value of pursuing one's passion.

            Timestamps

            00:00 Introduction to the Young People Season

            01:03 Meet Tom Newey: The Young Entrepreneur

            03:54 Tom's School Experience

            09:58 Challenges and Discoveries in High School

            14:41 Sixth Form and Overcoming Doubts

            25:12 Starting Layers Treats

            29:13 The Success of Layers Treats

            44:11 Advice for Aspiring Young Entrepreneurs

            47:02 Future Plans and Conclusion

            Tom’s Links

            Website: www.layerstreats.com/

            Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/layerstreats  

            Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/layerstreats

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            51 min
          • Acting Up with Kit Phillips

            Find the full transcript here https://www.theresilientacademy.co.uk/lounge  

            The Magic of Youth Theatre with Kit Phillips

            In this episode of The Resilient Kid Podcast, we sit down with Kit Phillips, a driving force behind the inspiring youth theatre organization, First Act. Kit and Ashley discuss the profound impact of involving young people in theatre and the unique opportunities it offers them. From the importance of trusted adults in children's lives to the role of theatre in their personal growth, this episode is packed with insights and practical advice for parents and young performers alike.

            Key Takeaways
            • The Role of Trusted Adults: Ashley and Kit emphasize the importance of having trusted adults outside of family who can offer guidance and support to children. This helps build confidence and essential life skills.
            • Adult Involvement in Youth Theatre: Kit shares how adults are incorporated into First Act’s productions, enhancing the experience for young performers. Whether through direct involvement or supporting roles, adults play a significant part in the process.
            • Upcoming Productions: Kit provides a sneak peek into the exciting projects at First Act, including "The Trials," a performance that tackles climate change and intergenerational responsibility. This production offers a powerful commentary on current issues through the lens of theatre.
            • Choosing the Right Theatre School: Kit offers practical advice for parents on selecting a theatre school that aligns with their child's needs and interests. The key is finding a match that supports the child's growth and development in a nurturing environment.
            • Community and Support: Both Ashley and Kit highlight the strong sense of community at First Act, which is crucial for fostering young talent and ensuring a positive and supportive experience.
            • Kit's Links

              Website: www.firstactarts.com  
              Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FirstActUK
              Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/firstactartsltd/
              Tiktok: https://tiktok.com/firstactarts

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              44 min
            • Fostering Creativity through Art with Sam

              Find the full transcript here https://www.theresilientacademy.co.uk/lounge  

              Embracing Creativity for Resilience with Sam Warburton

              In this episode titled 'The Art of Resilience,' hosted by Ashley Costello, founder of The Resilient Kid, special guest Sam Warburton shares her insights on using creativity, particularly through drawing, to manage stress and build resilience.

              Sam discusses her recent experience as a speaker at TEDx Northwich, where she captivated the audience with a retro flip chart presentation challenging the notion that constant productivity is key to success.

              Instead, she advocates for the importance of taking breaks and engaging in fun, creative activities as a way to recharge and maintain well-being. Sam also highlights her personal journey, including overcoming a tough job situation that led to a breakdown, and how she now uses drawing as both a therapeutic outlet and a career.

              The conversation emphasizes the value of expressing oneself through art and encouraging both children and adults to embrace creativity without the pressures of perfection.

              Timestamps

              00:00 Introduction to Chelsea Rose and the Importance of Singing

              00:50 Chelsea's Journey into Singing

              04:23 The Benefits of School Choirs

              05:54 Can Everyone Sing?

              08:54 Emotional and Physical Benefits of Singing

              13:16 Singing and Building Resilience

              24:21 Tips for Getting Started with Singing

              29:45 Chelsea's Summer Package and Conclusion

              Chelsea’s Links

              Website: https://www.rosesingingacademy.com/  
              Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61559916276074&locale=en_GB
              Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rose_singing_academy/

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              Website: https://www.theresilientacademy.co.uk/

               

              36 min
            • Unlocking Musical Potential with Chelsea Rose

              Find the full transcript here https://www.theresilientacademy.co.uk/lounge  

              The Power of Singing: A Conversation with Chelsea Rose of Rose Singing Academy

               

              In this episode of the Resilient Kid podcast, host Ashley interviews Chelsea Rose, founder of the Rose Singing Academy, discussing the profound benefits and importance of learning to sing.

              Chelsea recounts her personal journey into singing, inspired by her mother and her involvement in school choirs. They delve into the physical, emotional, and social benefits of singing, highlighting its role in building resilience, confidence, and a sense of community.

              Chelsea also shares practical tips for beginners and emphasizes the importance of finding the right teacher. The episode concludes with Chelsea introducing her summer package offering and encouraging listeners to explore the holistic benefits of singing.

              Timestamps

              00:00 Introduction to Chelsea Rose and the Importance of Singing

              00:50 Chelsea's Journey into Singing

              04:23 The Benefits of School Choirs

              05:54 Can Everyone Sing?

              08:54 Emotional and Physical Benefits of Singing

              13:16 Singing and Building Resilience

              24:21 Tips for Getting Started with Singing

              29:45 Chelsea's Summer Package and Conclusion

              Chelsea’s Links

              Website: https://www.rosesingingacademy.com/  
              Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61559916276074&locale=en_GB
              Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rose_singing_academy/

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              Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@theresilientkid957

              Spotify: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ashley-costello

              Website: https://www.theresilientacademy.co.uk/

               

              34 min
            • Support for you and our Children after the Southport tragedy

              Find the full transcript here https://www.theresilientacademy.co.uk/lounge  

              Supporting Children Through Tragedy: Essential Tips for Parents

              This podcast addresses the families affected by the recent tragic events in Southport, expressing deep condolences and emphasizing community solidarity.

              It offers crucial advice for parents on how to help children cope, stressing the importance of creating safe spaces and maintaining routines to alleviate anxiety.

              Ashley recommends open and honest communication with children, tailored to their age, and shares practical strategies like physical activities and using a code word for added security.

              Additionally, the script underscores the significance of familiar activities to restore a sense of normalcy and overall well-being for the children.

              Timestamps

              00:00 Heartfelt Condolences to Families

              01:13 Creating a Sense of Safety for Children

              02:22 Communicating with Children About Tragedy

              03:07 Ensuring Safety at Camps and Activities

              04:20 Supporting Children's Emotional Wellbeing

              08:02 Practical Tips for Reducing Anxiety

              10:28 Final Thoughts and

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              Website: https://www.theresilientacademy.co.uk/

              12 min
            • Language Matters with Kelly Thornhill

              Find the full transcript here https://www.theresilientacademy.co.uk/lounge  

              The Importance of Language Learning for Children: Insights from Kelly Thornhill 

              In this episode of the Resilient Kid Podcast, Kelly Thornhill discusses the significance of children learning languages.

              She emphasizes how early exposure to languages eases learning, boosts cognitive development, and enhances cultural awareness. Kelly shares her personal journey of becoming fluent in Spanish, including her immersive experiences in South America, and describes her company, Adventures in Spanish, which offers local Spanish lessons and immersion trips.

              The episode also explores practical ways for parents to keep language learning engaging for their children, especially during school breaks.

              Timestamps

              00:00 Introduction to Language Learning
              00:08 Meet Kelly Thornhill
              01:11 The Importance of Early Language Learning
              03:12 Building Confidence Through Language
              07:43 Kelly's Language Journey
              14:10 Cognitive Benefits of Learning Languages
              16:14 Overcoming Language Learning Myths
              19:53 Tips for Immersive Language Learning
              26:48 Fun Ways to Keep Language Learning Alive
              31:29 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

              Kelly’s Links

              Website: www.adventuresinspanish.co.uk
              Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AdventuresinSpanish
              Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adsinspanish/
              X/Twitter: https://x.com/AdsInSpanish
              YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/@adventuresinspanish

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              34 min
            • Is My Kid Entitled

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              Addressing Entitlement in Children: Practical Strategies for Parents and Educators

              In this episode of the Resilient Kid podcast, Ashley Costello dives into the sensitive topic of child entitlement.

              Discussing its causes, impact, and the typical signs that indicate entitlement, Ashley emphasizes the normalcy of this behavior and how it often goes unnoticed by parents and educators.

              She offers practical strategies for mitigating entitlement, including setting clear boundaries, fostering gratitude, modeling appropriate behavior, and teaching the value of effort and money. The episode also includes insights specifically for educators on shaping positive attitudes and behaviors in the classroom. Tune in to gain valuable tips on raising respectful and future-proofed children.

              TIMESTAMPS 

              00:00 Introduction to the Resilient Kid Podcast

              00:50 Understanding Entitlement in Children

              02:43 Identifying Signs of Entitlement

              09:19 Causes of Entitlement

              18:38 Strategies to Combat Entitlement

              26:23 Tips for Educators

              32:13 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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              36 min
            • Dr Jill McGarry - The Sleep Doctor

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              Unlocking Sleep Insights: From Caveman Strategies to Modern-Day Solutions

              In this episode of the Resilient Kid podcast, hosted by Ashley Costello and featuring sleep expert Dr. Jill McGarry, listeners are introduced to valuable insights on managing sleep challenges in parents, teens, and neurodivergent children.

              Dr. McGarry discusses the significance of identifying whether one is a night owl or early bird and highlights the evolutionary basis behind partnering with someone of opposite sleep patterns. They delve into the importance of understanding and addressing the 'Sunday night dread,' optimizing sleep hygiene, and managing sleep for neurodivergent individuals through practical tips like increasing daylight exposure.

              The conversation ends with a focus on the critical role of sleep in achieving mental and physical well-being, especially for teens.

              TIMESTAMPS

              00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome

              01:24 The Importance of Knowing Your Sleep Type

              02:29 Sunday Night Anxiety and Sleep Tips

              05:49 Dr. Jill McGarry's Journey into Sleep Science

              09:21 Teenagers and Sleep Challenges

              13:56 Sleep Issues in Neurodivergent Children

              14:19 The Science of Sleep and Practical Tips

              27:23 Final Thoughts and Top Sleep Tips

              DR JILLS LINKS

              Website: www.sleepbetterdoctor.co.uk

              LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-jill-mcgarry/

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              32 min

            About Resilient Kid: Therapy and tips for raising strong kids and teens

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