In episode 7, Matilda talks about experiencing trust issues after a bad breakup, being stabbed in the back by a good friend or after doing something against your values and moral compass. In order to feel secure and safe again after having the people we love and respect betray us - we need to tune into ourselves again - into our own sense of self, self love and self worth.
When someone does something horrible to us, due to the way we have become conditioned - we tend to blame ourselves because we think for someone to do something that horrible — it must be a reflection of our own flaws. This is simply false (99% of the time). This podcast also focuses on what we can do looking forwards to safeguard our mental health when we find our selves in a similar situation again ( essentially damage control). The first thing is acknowledging that you can have a deep connection with someone but also have boundaries to create healthy detachment. We also need to start trusting our gut instinct more because our gut truly stores the eyes of the future - it is our inner psychic. Let’s call out the red flags before they even show up!