Rugged with Trey Tucker

In this episode, I share my journey from chasing society’s definition of a “10 out of 10 man” to becoming the man I was actually designed to be.

I open up about the struggles, the false standards I once lived by, and the pivotal moments that reshaped my life, from therapy and vulnerability to hookup culture, redefining success, and deepening my faith.

You’ll hear about:

- Breaking free from comparison and unrealistic standards

- How therapy helped me reconnect with my emotions

- Benefits of vulnerability

- The hidden costs of hookup culture and chasing money

- Choosing meaning, responsibility, and faith over image

Whether you’re wrestling with your own self-worth or rethinking what it means to live as a man today, this episode will challenge you to let go of society’s scorecard and find freedom in becoming who you were meant to be.

Listen now and start your own journey toward authentic manhood.

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In this powerful mental health podcast, Trey interviews Jason Smith, a former police officer and chef turned mental health content creator, known for his honest, funny takes on trauma, healing, and identity.

You'll hear:

The life-changing moment at the police academy that sparked Jason’s faith journey

What working crime scenes taught him about grief, trauma, and the power of humor

How journaling, stoicism, and attachment theory helped him heal — and why he now helps others do the same

If you're navigating a major life pivot, battling self-doubt, or looking for real, funny, and vulnerable conversations about emotional health, this episode is for you.

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Therapist Ritchie Pruehs returns to share the second half of his powerful journey of healing, transformation, and inner peace.

He opens up about the emotional breakthrough that changed everything - from a metaphorical “conversation” with his late mother to confronting the internal parts of himself that were still driven by fear, shame, and performance.

You’ll hear how Internal Family Systems (IFS), spiritual insight, and the love of God led Ritchie to uncover the root of his insecurities and find the freedom to live with wholeness. He also shares a message every father needs to hear - about showing up, initiating the hard conversations, and walking with sons through their most vulnerable moments.

Whether you're struggling with people-pleasing, religious guilt, childhood wounds, or just trying to make peace with your pastm this episode offers hope, tools, and perspective to help you heal from the inside out.

Topics Covered:

- Emotional healing through IFS therapy

- Conversations with “inner parts” and the power of self-compassion

- Faith, spiritual growth, and how God sees us

- Breaking free from fear-driven behavior

- A father’s role in adolescent development and emotional security

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Therapist Ritchie Pruehs shares his transformative journey through emotional enmeshment, internal family systems (IFS) therapy, and the lifelong pursuit of belonging and freedom.

From a childhood shaped by a loving but over-controlling mother to a breakthrough that unlocked his inner world, Ritchie opens up about the "Fort Knox" part that kept him emotionally guarded for decades, and how he finally found peace.

This conversation covers healing childhood trauma, fatherhood, faith, marriage dynamics, self-worth, and the power of spiritual integration. A must-listen for anyone navigating family wounds, Christian therapy, or personal growth through inner parts work.

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Scottie Scheffler, the #1 golfer in the world, just opened up in a rare, vulnerable moment at the British Open press conference. He shared how, even after winning major titles, he still felt unfulfilled.

We break down what Scheffler said about identity, purpose, and faith, and how it resonates far beyond the world of sports.

Why do achievements so often leave us empty? What happens when you reach the top and it’s still not enough?

We explore the psychology of hedonic adaptation, impact bias, and the universal human need for identity, belonging, and purpose. Whether you're an athlete, a professional, or just trying to find meaning, this episode is for you.

Featuring insights on Tom Brady, Michael Phelps, and the internal battle so many high achievers face—but never talk about.

- Why Winning Doesn't Fulfill Us

- The Trap of Hedonic Adaptation

- Faith, Family, and the Freedom to Compete

- How to Build Lasting Identity and Purpose

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Dr. Ian Robertson, neuroscientist, author of The Winner Effect and How Confidence Works, joins Trey to unravel the psychology and brain science behind confidence.

They explore how confidence is built, not born, why anxiety can actually be fuel, and how loneliness, self-worth, and purpose are deeply interlinked.

Learn why your self-talk matters, why imposter syndrome isn't always a bad thing, and how tiny daily actions can reshape your brain and life.

Get Dr. Robertson's book, "How Confidence Works".

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Dermatologist and social media powerhouse Dr. Dustin Portela joins Trey Tucker to cut through the noise on skincare, sunscreen myths, and how your skin health impacts your confidence and mental well-being.

In this episode, you'll learn:

- Why wearing sunscreen in your 20s pays off big in your 50s

- The truth about drugstore vs. luxury skincare products

- Whether parabens and chemical sunscreens are actually dangerous

- How mental health shows up in dermatology—and how doctors can spot the signs

- Why your skin concerns might matter more to you than to anyone else (and how to reframe them)

Dr. Portela also shares powerful stories from his practice, including how he supported a melanoma patient battling depression during the holidays—and what that moment taught him about purpose.

If you care about looking good, feeling better, and thinking deeper about health, this one’s for you.

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Few people truly know how to win. Greg Payne, a championship baseball coach and business leader, is one of those who do.

In this conversation, he redefines confidence and shares his winning mindset. Also, discover where confidence truly comes from.

Greg reveals practical strategies for overcoming the fear of judgment, taking control of your thoughts, and leading with purpose.

Drawing on decades of experience in sports and business, he offers actionable advice for building resilience, knowing your people, and achieving success in any area of life.

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Welcome to a groundbreaking conversation with the incredible Dr. Emily Leeming, a renowned dietitian and former chef, as we dive deep into the fascinating world of gut health and its profound connection to your brain and overall well-being!

You'll learn about the latest research on the gut-brain axis, including a landmark study showing how diet can significantly impact clinical depression.

Discover practical, sustainable changes you can make to your diet today,

Plus, Dr. Leeming shares easy visual cues for assessing your hydration and gut health, including what your "poo" can tell you!

Don't miss this engaging discussion that will empower you to make informed choices for a healthier and happier you!

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What if you had the same group of friends for 39 straight years? Therapist and friendship expert Will Honeycutt did just that—and in this episode, he shares the story of how it all started with a bold question in a college dorm and grew into a lifelong brotherhood that shaped their marriages, parenting, careers, and even how they handled tragedy.

If you’ve ever longed for deeper friendships, felt lonely, or wondered what real brotherhood looks like—this conversation will give you a roadmap.

Don’t miss this one.

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