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They say success is 80% mindset and 20% tactical. In all areas of life, I couldn’t agree more. And what’s why when I got the request to do a podcast episode on discovering what you need and want in a relationship, I knew I had to break it down into two parts: the why and the what, and then the HOW.

Last week’s episode, which was part 1 in this 2-part series was about the mindset and importance of discovering what you need and want in a relationship.

And this week’s episode is all about putting it into practice. Knowing what you need and want doesn’t do you any good unless you know HOW to ask for it in a way that’s effective.

Most conversations I find are so ineffective. Conversations between coworkers, lovers, parents and kids, and employers and employees are riddled with blame, judgment, and accusation, which isn’t going to get you anywhere.

So today’s episode gets into the nitty gritty of how to have an authentic conversation. I go into the weeds here, and since I’m guessing that maybe you’re listening to this episode while you’re walking, driving, or doing something else, I created a freebie you can refer to.

This freebie has some important questions you need to ask yourself BEFORE you ever have this kind of conversation, and it outlines step by step what to do.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• The six questions you must ask yourself before ever having a tough conversation with someone
• Step by step, how to communicate what you’re dissatisfied with in your relationship and have the other person be receptive to what you’re asking for
• Exact phrases to use or avoid in your conversation

http://veronicagrant.com/episode77

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I once was talking to a woman who asked me, “Why can’t I find someone who just knows what I need and want, and then do it?!”

“Well, are you telling them what you need and want?”

“No,I just think someone you’re in a relationship with should know.”

It makes me so sad that this by far is the overwhelming beliefs as to what relationships are. It’s a mix of what we thought we saw in our parents, romanticized romantic comedies, and our smart phone culture where possibly technology knows us better than ourselves.

In a relationship, you can NEVER be too clear as to what you want and need in a relationship. In fact, if a 7 year old can’t understand it, you’re not clear enough. It’s not because you or your partner are dumb, it’s because that’s what effective communication is.

But you have to start with knowing what YOU want, and that’s what today’s episode is all about. This episode is the first in a two-part series. Next week, I’ll teach you how to effectively ask for what you need/want, but first, let’s get started with you knowing what you want.

http://veronicagrant.com/episode76

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In this episode, I share why ending relationships is so hard. The truth is, there’s a lot of fear, shame, judgment, not to mention heartbreak and disappointment when ANY relationship ends, no matter the reason or who did the breaking up.

Which is why so many women stay in relationships long past their expiration dates.

Think about it: how often have you waited for him to break up with you? How often have you tried to pick fights or make something so unbearable that he’d HAVE to break up with you?

If you’re unsure about the relationship you’re in, or if you NEVER break up with a guy even though you know you need to, this episode is for you.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How to deal with any shame or judgment that comes up when a relationship ends
• How to get the closure you need to move on
• How to know if it’s time to move on from your relationship

http://veronicagrant.com/episode75

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This episode isn’t just an interview, it’s two women about to get married having a candid conversation about what real love looks like. We talk about what beliefs we had to let go of and how we soften in ways so that real love could come in.

Here’s what you’ll learn:

• The realities of commitment and how to balance business ownership and family life
• how has being a business owner influenced your personal growth?
• Self-care as a highly ambitious person and taking yourself out on dates are also things that I practice and always love to talk about.

http://veronicagrant.com/episode74

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This is such an important conversation, and as a podcast host about dating and relationships, I can’t believe it took me this long to have a women’s health expert on the show!

Even though I do focus on the inner game and the self-development that goes into relationships, knowing the “real world” stuff is so important so you can stay safe and healthy.

Here’s what you’ll learn:

• What HPV even is and how to know if you have it
• The risks of HPV, including with fertility and what you can do instead
• Natural methods to overcome HPV

 

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All this month, I’m sharing a new series on the podcast, all about why you’re attracting emotionally unavailable men. Today is the final installment! If you haven’t listened to parts 1-3, make sure you listen to that so today’s episode makes more sense, then dive in here.

Important:

• Ready to figure out what’s missing in your life so they can stop the cycle of unhealthy relationships? Apply for a FREE Love/Life Consult HERE.
• For daily inspiration and tips on living a life of love, connection, and abundance, join me on Instagram: @veronicaegrant
• If you get value from Date Yourself Radio, please rate & review it in iTunes. It only takes a sec to impact our ranking + it’ll help other women find our community!

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This is one of the biggest frustrations I hear from my clients, and really any woman who’s trying to make a change, do the work, but nothing is happening.

It’s like you have the pedal down but you’re going nowhere. Or maybe you just have awareness of your patterns/beliefs, but still nothing is changing.

If that’s you, then this episode is for you. In it, I give you 3 reasons why you’re doing the work but nothing is changing.

Important:

• Ready to figure out what’s missing in your life so they can stop the cycle of unhealthy relationships? Apply for a FREE Love/Life Consult HERE.
• If you get value from Date Yourself Radio, please rate & review it in iTunes. It only takes a sec to impact our ranking + it’ll help other women find our community!

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EP70: Why You’re Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men Part 3

Why Smart Successful Women Suck At Relationships

All this month, I’m sharing a new series on the podcast, all about why you’re attracting emotionally unavailable men. Today is part 3! If you haven’t listened to parts 1+2, make sure you listen to that so today’s episode makes more sense, then dive in here.

Important:

• Ready to figure out what’s missing in your life so they can stop the cycle of unhealthy relationships? Apply for a FREE Love/Life Consult HERE.
• For daily inspiration and tips on living a life of love, connection, and abundance, join me on Instagram: @veronicaegrant
• If you get value from Date Yourself Radio, please rate & review it in iTunes. It only takes a sec to impact our ranking + it’ll help other women find our community!

http://veronicagrant.com/episode70

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Be more vulnerable! Be yourself! Act natural! Be authentic! Step into your authentic self!

WTF does that all mean? I tackle one of them, how to be vulnerable and give you 2 very tangible and actionable things you can do to start being more vulnerable in your relationships.

Important:

• Not sure what you actually want in your relationship? Get clarity by joining the Dating Refresh HERE. (It’s free!)
• Ready to figure out what’s missing in your life so they can stop the cycle of unhealthy relationships? Apply for a FREE Love/Life Consult HERE.
• If you get value from Date Yourself Radio, please rate & review it in iTunes. It only takes a sec to impact our ranking + it’ll help other women find our community!

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All this month, I’m sharing a new series on the podcast, all about why you’re attracting emotionally unavailable men. Today is part 2! If you haven’t listened to part 1, make sure you listen to that, then dive in here.

Important:

• Not sure what you actually want in your relationship? Get clarity by joining the Dating Refresh HERE. (It’s free!)
• Ready to figure out what’s missing in your life so they can stop the cycle of unhealthy relationships? Apply for a FREE Love/Life Consult HERE.
• If you get value from Date Yourself Radio, please rate & review it in iTunes. It only takes a sec to impact our ranking + it’ll help other women find our community!

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http://veronicagrant.com/episode69

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