Ruwando Podcast

According to Jung, an intimate relationship actually involves four entities: The man's masculine and feminine sides, and the woman's masculine and feminine sides. How these archetypes interact determines the polarity and therefore healthy intimacy of the relationship.

In modern relationships, a battle often ensues between the masculine sides— This is often unintentional, but is often the cause of low polarity and lost attraction in relationships. If you want a healthy polar relationship, then it's on you to rekindle the polarity. If you're a man who dates women, that means helping her into her feminine.

This episode covers what it actually means to "wear the pants", why women have had to develop their masculinity and the challenges on their side, and how to "outman" her animus.

#howtogetherintoherfeminine #howtobemorepolarizingtowomen #howtoattractfemininewomen

"There is no female Mozart because there is no female Jack the Ripper." (Camille Paglia)

Obsession is a male tendency. It's why boys are more likely than girls to addicted to video games or adult content. It also relates to why young men take stupid risks. And why you really only see male stalkers.

But this tendency can also be one of the greatest virtues. All the great men of history have been obsessed with something. When obsessed, a person naturally pushes through discomfort and generates the creative ideas that lead to exponential growth.

This episode explores how.

#brainwashyourself

"Target Panic" is an experience archers sometimes get when they lose the ability aim properly. My buddy Andy brought it up as an excellent metaphor for the experience many of us have when we get attached to an outcome. Andy is a bowhunter, former cowboy, and has been a client. We speak about Zen and methods of retraining the mind and emotions.

Last weekend a friend and I did a David Goggins-inspired challenge: 4km every 4 hrs for 48hrs.

During it we had a lot of philosophical discussion and created personal morality.

This episode shows the other side of "Breaking Social Constructions of Reality" episode-- MAKING personal reality.

In this episode we talk about different perspectives on realities (subjective vs. objective reality), how we build our own reality, who sets the norms of "normal" vs. "not normal". We talk about the effect of social media, the effect of resentment on one's life, how important forgiveness is and how forgiving means taking responsibility for your own actions. Living in an abundant reality supposes having responsibility for your own choices.

Regret is a type of shame-- One of the worst kinds since it allows the past to continually F up your present.

This episode covers some of my recent experiences confronting these very old feelings.

• The two types of regret
• Why sometimes your actions SEEM outside of your control
• How to retrain your autopilot
• Deleting victimhood
• Psycho-Cybernetics

Actual abundance with women doesn't come from learning a bunch of social tricks. It comes down to who you are.

Here I boil down what makes a man attractive to women in two simple but universally true principles.

The 'Dark Masculine' is the set of testosterone-driven traits that have been evolutionarily beneficial, but not accepted by modern society. (Hence they are "dark".)

The first Dark Masculine episode (from last summer) focused on healing shame. But how do you embody these characteristics for fun and profit?

Enter: The Beast

This episode speaks on channeling that animalistic part of you that conquers, takes, pillages, (and has people love him for it). We dive deep into some social taboos. Be warned.

Q&A episode on the Lover Archetype, Dark Feminine, and Culture. Featuring Noelfry.

The Magician Archetype is the part of the psyche responsible for creativity, making meaning, and spirituality. It's the part of you that "writes" your life story.

This episode covers:

1. Understanding "magic" and the creative process
2. Removing blocks to "becoming the Magician"
3. Opening the floodgates

I reference some mystical/occultist models. You can take them as a metaphor for creativity, or more literally if you choose...

#kingwarriormagicianlover #archetypes #jung #crowley #magick