Ruwando Podcast

Hans Comyn rejoins the podcast in a different stage of life. He speaks on the Freedom vs. Commitment Dilemma that many men feel when in a relationship. Can one be truly free while in partnership?

If you want to work with Hans, contact him at [email protected]
https://hanscomyn.com/global-lovestyle-consultation/

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Why do narcissists inflict random punishments?
And more importantly, why are so many drawn to it?

This video uses my favorite scene from the Sopranos to break down why random abuse works as a manipulation technique.

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In our first years of life, we each develop methods for feeling safe. These methods eventually shape our personality and how we behave in overwhelm, conflict, and intimacy.

Author of The Five Personality Patterns, psychotherapist Steven Kessler, explains how to recognize your pattern and meet your deeper needs.

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Money and Women are the most primal desires of men (Survival and Replication), and therefore the deepest triggers to self-worth and identity. And psychological blockages around them follow the same principles.

I share a recent story of a man who had a major breakthrough out of lifelong fear/scarcity, and how it applies to all areas of life.

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NPD is a hot topic in the pop psychology world, but is it really a pathology? Might there be an evolutionary purpose. I discuss this with my friends Om Rupani and psychotherapist Joseph Teskey.

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Flirting = speaking with the subtext, "I want you."

When authentic (and therefore easy), it comes from your instincts, not your thoughts.

Unleash your instincts: https://www.ruwando.com/archetype

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How a man behaves in the bedroom largely depends on how he behaves outside of it... down a physiological level.

Here we break down some scenes from Breaking Bad to highlight 3 key principles about male psychology, libido, and confidence.

Arousal Control Course— Master your arousal in 6 weeks

Cyber Monday deal: https://www.ruwando.com/acs-cyber-50

If you're struggling with a psychogenic dysfunction, apply directly for coaching. I have almost 100% success rate with hundreds of men. (90% cured within 2 months).

https://www.ruwando.com/coaching

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Since raising a daughter, I’ve become more sensitive to women’s experience in dating men.

So I invited on my friends Reece and Efia to get a bit of female perspective.

Reece and Efia are coaches who met in a women’s mystery school in Spain. We met in Mexico last year.

We discuss dating, relationships, gender role culture, and the female version of Nice Guy Syndrome.

[Video Excerpt] Two Kinds of Women? Nice Gal Syndrome in Dating

(Full episode in audio only)

Reece: mamanourish.co

IG: @mamanourish_

Efia: yamayelore.com

IG: @yamayelorecoaching

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Since raising a daughter, I’ve become more sensitive to women’s experience in dating men.

So I invited on my friends Reece and Efia to get a bit of female perspective.

Reece and Efia are coaches who met in a women’s mystery school in Spain. We met in Mexico last year.

We discuss dating, relationships, gender role culture, and the female version of Nice Guy Syndrome.

[Video Excerpt] Two Kinds of Women? Nice Gal Syndrome in Dating

(Full episode in audio only)

Reece: mamanourish.co

IG: @mamanourish_

Efia: yamayelore.com

IG: @yamayelorecoaching

Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe

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Josh Hatcher of Manlihood and I connected earlier this summer to discuss about man stuff. But once I found out he was a father of four adults (and grandfather), I had to pick his brain on his role in his family.

Here’s a video preview of our talk. (Full episode is in audio/podcast only)

Check out his stuff at manlihood.com

ruwando.com/archetype (Still includes coaching call with me)

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