Ever wonder why sex with a man who’s a completely committed, signed-on, Bono Fide Buyer (husband) isn’t as off-the-hook hot, intense, or passionate as with an Ultimate or Mixed-Messages Consumer? Paula gives the low-down on the goods feeling hotter when on the down-low, marked-down, hot-sale rack than they are when delivered from a fully-invested man who’s decided that you are his prize to value forever.