After seeing each other for 10 months, 36-yr-old Jaime began growing tired of 37-yr-old Derek’s mixed messages.  In discussions of their relationship, Derek would tell Jaime that he “sees it all” with her, only moments later stating that he also needs his space.  Fed up and frustrated with Derek’s lack of effort and last-minute texts to hang-out, Jaime stopped texting first and otherwise reaching out. But Derek’s twice a month attempts to hook-up didn’t change. At her wit’s end with this man that she loves, Jaime read Paula’s book wanting to find out what she can do to move things forward with Derek. On this episode, Paula explains what has to happen next for Jaime's best shot at success.