On the heels of a devastating divorce, 36-yr-old Liz was encouraged by friends to start dating again. Following a 9-hour date with 38-yr-old Personal Trainer, Mike, Liz was smitten. But after experiencing Mike’s lack of initiative and follow up, Liz found herself seriously confused. After much back and forth on text, including messy social media interactions, Liz found herself wondering if she could just “have fun” with Mike and his muscles, yet also maintain the possibility of more “down-the-road.” On Episode 77 of Make Him Wonder, Paula attempts to help Liz recognize that her need to be a “Peacock” results in her continued interest in “Pigeons” who can be fun for a time but will leave her with lots of “droppings” to clean up, afterwards.