46-yr-old Aida has been in an on-and-off LD relationship with 52-yr-old Inman for nearly 2 years. Aida is tired of waiting for Inman to make a complete commitment and move to her state so the two can be closer. On this episode, Paula explains how rushing the tempo is risking Inman’s desire, and how changing her mental script about their love-story will allow Aida to have the best chance for a happy ending.