Satisfying Intimacy ~ A show for Love, Sex & Life

Yet another pair of camps we get divided into and dehumanize each other with is empaths and narcissists. ~

Yes any one of us can be empathic (focussed on others) or narcisisstic (focussed on self) in a moment or as a habit. And both can have good reason to exist for survival and co-habitation. However, when the extreme cases that are a minority get focused on, we can think that in our or our partner's mild empathy or narcissism, one is right and one is wrong, one is healthy and one is sick. ~

Why would we want to see the world so black and white, threatening each other with physical or moral power-over? ~

Who doesn't benefit from us getting along, succeeding in love, working well together, uniting for a better society and relationship with the natural world? ~

Here are suggestions to dial in our ability to view self and other as mixes, with room to play and make mistakes, try our best with good intention, and draw a new picture of the world based on our truths. ~

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James Thorp ([email protected]) is an American Board of Obstetrics and Gynecology-certified doctor serving women and families in reproductive health for 40+ years. Currently practicing in Gulf Breeze, USA, he's become aware of menstrual cycle, pregnancy, and newborn health problems linked to having received mRNA gene therapy injections in some COVID vaccines. ~

He's one of many doctors to have experienced censorship and smearing for speaking up, on the principle that informed consent is necessary to fulfill the doctor's oath to look out for patients' health. ~

This interview presents Dr. Thorp's understanding of how the injections can affect a woman's reproductive cycle (pre-puberty and post-menopause uterine bleeding, decidual cast shedding, entry of injected lipid nanoparticles to ovaries/placenta/fetal brain) and the need for careful monitoring. Also presented are examples of approved medicines like DES linked to reproductive health problems, and examples of government medical policy that harmed people and violated the Nuremberg Code so-called "for their own good", as in the forced sterilization of aboriginal women in Canada, the USA, and Australia. ~

The question is raised, what is dangerous about people having a variety of information from health care professionals and making up their own minds as to what's best for themselves and their children? ~

Thank you Dr. Thorp for making the time to share your insider's experience and current work analyzing documentation on adverse events. ~

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Stephen Quaderer (@headeroapp) helped create the Headero app for lovers of oral pleasure and connection, starting in New York, USA and spreading out from there. ~

Headero's goal is to make a difference in the world of online dating by uniting people of all genders/orientations, having community standards based on consent/conduct not looks/performance, encouraging oral as anything from appetizer to dinner to dessert, and not playing into the shame game of saying you want dating those times you want sex. ~

The team looks at the major apps/sites and our evolving cultural values and is guided by member input, so far 17,000 people 6 months after launching. ~

Thanks Stephen for showing another side of that world with your group's vision and passions. ~

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Everyone has delightful places on their body and everyone has sweet spots in their ears... I mean, the mind, the feelings, everything. Do you ever talk about it with your beloved? ~

What are your absolute favourite things to hear? What's the setting? ~

And what are the words you love to say? Is it about their heart, body, ideas, way of being? How about your shared memories and dreams? ~

This show is a very simple reminder to enjoy sharing the love language of words. ~

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When you're in the middle of a conflict with your beloved, can you remember the purpose of your life and this relationship? ~

Do you get lost in reacting, trying to see things their way, insisting on being heard in your feelings and ideas? Does conflict excite you or terrify you or does it not phase you at all because it's just part of life? ~

This show talks about how you can use conflict as a golden opportunity to get to know yourself and them even better, sometimes even a sign that you're doing things right and the two of you are ready to open up to the next level of trust, love, passion and purpose. ~

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Will Blunderfield (willblunderfield.ca) is a yoga/tantra teacher helping men break down barriers within themselves and between each other, to live relatively free of fear and full of power in authentic relationships and purpose. ~

He talks openly here about overcoming drug addiction, feeling lost and disempowered, going natural and wild, simplifying life, balancing self care with service to others. His events bring men together to learn how to be intimate solo and with others, developing body and emotional confidence in a way that puts sexuality in a conscious, not automatic place. ~

This show is for men whether gay, straight, bi, trans and for woman wanting to love men better, understanding the pain men face and how to help unlock powerful loving happiness. And it's especially for any human wanting to get past limiting labels and fully realize their nature and opportunities. ~

Thanks Will for shaking us up, sharing from your vulnerability and learnings. ~

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Supriya Ermione (@supriya.tantrika) is a tantra and kundalini teacher in Koh Phangan, Thailand. A lover of women and men, she shares about opening to new experiences, letting them come true, experiencing so many changes and awarenesses and pleasures. ~

This show is for many people, women who've never made love or been intimate partners with a woman, women who have and are curious what else is possible to explore, and men who want to love women in a fuller more satisfying way. ~

There's the tantric principle of everyone and everything having feminine and masculine qualities, ideas to support curiosity and exploration, and personal stories of joy and expansion. ~

Thanks Supriya for sharing your experiences and reflections. If you read Italian or can auto-translate ebooks, she's got a new book coming out soon. ~

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Chloe Lee (@presencecuddletherapy) is a professional cuddler / cuddle therapist in Ottawa, Canada. In this chat she introduces the revolutionary practice of getting a good part of your physical, emotional, and spiritual needs met safely and in a way your partner can embrace too. ~

These simple 20 minutes reveal so much about our natural healthy impulses, how we've been boxed into a setup where often we have no one at all or depend on one person to be our intimacy everything, so we don't even know we can ask others without shame to help us meet our needs and this can actually make our primary relationship(s) and community stronger, better mental health, less stress, juicier bodies, all of it. ~

Instead in this new time we can choose touch that is sexual or non-sexual, we can be listened to and held without anyone wanting anything from us, we can trust each other to respect self-boundaries and communicate them and arrive at nourishing ways of meeting, even heal traumas with powerful conscious and unconscious presence, reassurance, acceptance, love, space to self-express. ~

Thank you Chloe for sharing your deep reflections and loving skills in blazing this trail. ~

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Wairimu (@vwairimukaruri) is a sex educator who organizes sex parties and has a budding BDSM practice in Nairobi, Kenya. ~

In this very candid chat she shares from her experience with 3somes/4somes going solo or with a partner, and going through those chewy personal reflections and partner and group discussions to create a good setting with full consent and curiosity from all, the good experiences, the bad experiences, what it can teach you about yourself and our society that few other situations can. ~

Two particular options she talks about are bringing a 3rd/4th person into your couple, and going to a sex party. Consent and honesty are essential in creating an amazing experience that builds your confidence and the bond between you and your partner whether it's a one-time thing or ongoing. ~

Thanks Wairimu, this information is often kept tightly under wraps and to hear you speak freely with experience can give many people a much higher entry point or refinement of their existing practice. ~

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Caffyn Jesse (erospirit.ca) has 20+ years experience teaching somatic sex education and sexological bodywork, helping people experience sexual pleasure for the first time and discover how strong and full-bodied their pleasure can be, based in Saltspring, Canada with links to the Institute for the Study of Somatic Sex Education. ~

This is a powerful method because it's based in feeling, seeing, accepting yourself first, and from there learning how you became the way you did and how you don't have to follow any old path but rather can - especially with the right support - shift right back to your true self and fullest desire in life. ~

With patience and love, Caffyn accompanies people whether healing from trauma or just never having had the kind of experiences they want and know they can. It gives people decades of their life back in super connected sex. ~

Thanks Caffyn for making time to share your experience, understanding and ethics. ~

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