A happily married lesbian is super turned-on by a male acquaintance's cologne. She barely knows the guy. So how can she ask him "What are you WEARING?"

Here's a conundrum: a sub serves two different masters. So what should she do when they give her conflicting orders?

On the Magnum, everybody loves Doc Chocolate! The former pastor turned porn star, adult educator and content creator is back to help Dan answer a question about use of the potentially problematic term "BBC." (Look it up.) Is it a positive stereotype? Or negative? They also talk about the rigorous STI health protocols Las Vegas sex workers must adhere to.

And, a listener challenges Dan's stance on how much responsibility the blow job giver has once the lucky receiver is "over the falls."

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