In this episode of Self Talk, Dr Ray discusses typical reactions to toxic friends and family, and how the blame game enters in. Dr. Ray discusses how a normal human response suddenly turns into a lot of guilt and shame. 

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Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter. 

In this episode, Dr. Ray interviews Jay Golden, one of the most intriguing individuals he has ever met. Jay Golden is a renowned PGA professional golfer, long-drive competitor, trick-shot artist, poet, painter, stand-up comedian, and producer. He is known as golf's renaissance man and is a fascinating person who is coming to a profound understanding of what it means to fulfill God's purpose. Amazingly, during this special video podcast, Jay creates an impressionistic painting of the 12th hole at Augusta National Golf Course, a truly iconic golf hole. 

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Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter. 

This show is part 2 of our most popular Self Talk episode. In this show, Dr. Self continues to interview Apostle Norma Hawkins, who shares an incredible story of overcoming abuse, rejection, and abandonment. She talks about being cursed and rejected by her family and finding redemption, deliverance, and blessings. This show will touch your heart and inspire you with hope in the real power of deliverance through faith.  

Isaiah 61:1  The Spirit of the Lord GOD is upon me, Because the LORD has anointed me To bring good news to the afflicted; He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, To proclaim liberty to captives And freedom to prisoners;  

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Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter. 

As the holiday season approaches, it's crucial to spend time with family, but sometimes a few relatives can be toxic. So how do you manage toxic family members while maintaining a Christ-like attitude during the holidays? Whether it's a controlling aunt, an overbearing uncle, or a narcissistic parent, there are healthy ways to navigate these situations and find that peace that surpasses all understanding. Dr. Ray will give you the answers in the latest episode of Self Talk. 

Mat 5:44  But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;  

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Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter. 

Some theological perspectives can be dangerous. A theology is present in many mainstream churches that poses risks. It is not necessarily what these churches teach directly, but rather what they choose to overlook or condemn. This crucial episode of Self Talk with Dr. Ray Self highlights this issue and what we should be aware of. 

1Co 2:4 -5  and my message and my preaching were not in persuasive words of wisdom, but in demonstration of the Spirit and of power, so that your faith would not rest on the wisdom of men, but on the power of God.  

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Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter. 

In this crucial episode of Self Talk, Dr. Ray warns listeners to beware of a church or denomination that teaches the gifts of the Holy Spirit, such as prophecy, tongues, and healing, are no longer valid for today. This teaching distorts scripture, forcing it to align with preconceived ideas, and it's perilous. It can even border on blasphemy of the Holy Spirit. 

2Pe 2:1 But false prophets also arose among the people, just as there will also be false teachers among you, who will secretly introduce destructive heresies, even denying the Master who bought them, bringing swift destruction upon themselves.  

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Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com. 

Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeem Your Past and Find Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com. 

Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804  

For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self at [email protected] 

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Show host bio - 

Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter. 

In this episode, Dr. Self discusses how to determine your gifting and calling from God. This understanding is crucial because if you don't grasp these concepts, you may find yourself heading in the wrong direction and potentially encountering difficulties. Dr. Self addresses questions such as: How do you know what you are called to do? What are your natural gifts? What might be your supernatural gifts? Gaining clarity on these topics will benefit you both in your personal life and in your relationships. 

Jeremiah 1:5  "Before I formed you in the womb I knew you 

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Follow and subscribe to Self Talk with Dr. Ray Self on our podcast website: https://www.icmcollege.org/selftalk.  

Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com. 

Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeem Your Past and Find Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com. 

Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804  

For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self at [email protected] 

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Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter. 

We live in both the natural world and the supernatural realm simultaneously. Recognizing that there is more beyond what you can see and feel is essential for your life and success. In this show, Dr. Self discusses the unseen realm, its impact on you, and how to navigate it effectively. 

Eph 6:12  For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.  

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Follow and subscribe to Self Talk with Dr. Ray Self on our podcast website: https://www.icmcollege.org/selftalk.  

Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com. 

Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeem Your Past and Find Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com. 

Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804  

For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self at [email protected] 

Enjoy free courses offered by the International College of Ministry Free Courses 

Show host bio - 

Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter. 

Your mind is incredibly powerful. Your mental focus can dictate your success or failure. In this episode, Dr. Self will provide tips and strategies for taking control of your life in a positive and influential way. 

Rom 8:6  For the mind set on the flesh is death, but the mind set on the Spirit is life and peace,  

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Purchase Dr. Ray's latest book, "The Call." God called you, and you answered: this is what you need to know! Click Here 

Follow and subscribe to Self Talk With Dr. Ray Self at our podcast website  - https://www.icmcollege.org/selftalk.  

Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com. 

Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeem Your Past and Find Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com. 

Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804  

For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self at [email protected] 

Enjoy free courses offered by the International College of Ministry Free Courses 

Show host bio - 

Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter. 

For you to have peace, your life has to be purposeful and meaningful. However, many dark Forces are trying to keep you from that piece and the abundance that God promises. It is an important episode. Dr. Ray Self will provide you with three keys to finding that peaceful place —a place of fulfillment, a place where you can ultimately prosper and have the abundant Life that God promises you. 

John 10:10  "The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly.  

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Purchase Dr. Ray's latest book, "The Call." God called you, and you answered: this is what you need to know! Click Here 

Follow and subscribe to Self Talk With Dr. Ray Self at our podcast website  - https://www.icmcollege.org/selftalk.  

Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Hear His Voice, Be His Voice, or visit Amazon.com. 

Click here to purchase Dr. Self's book – Redeem Your Past and Find Your Promised Land, or visit Amazon.com. 

Or our new podcast website at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2249804  

For show topic suggestions, email Dr. Ray Self at [email protected] 

Enjoy free courses offered by the International College of Ministry Free Courses 

Show host bio - 

Dr. Ray Self founded Spirit Wind Ministries Inc. and the International College of Ministry. He holds a Doctorate in Christian Psychology and a Doctorate in Theology. He currently resides in Winter Park, Florida. He is married to Dr. Christie Self and has three sons and a daughter.