Selfie

We are giving our best recommendations for self-care gifts, for you or those you love!

For Skincare-Loving People With Decision Fatigue

Perfect Image 30% Glycolic Peel

Suki Skincare Transformative Purifying Masque

Graydon Face Food Mineral Mist (silver, magnesium, copper, zinc)

Bouillon Glow Serum

Sunday Riley Power Couple — Good Genes and Luna Sleeping Night Oil ($28) (acid and retinol)

Work-From-Home Care

CalmOptics Blue Light Blocking Glasses

On Air / Recording / On the Phone signs

Leah Belt Bag by Italic

Scented Goodness

Vitality Extracts Sweet Dreams Essential Oil Roller Ball

Vedic Botanicals Meditative Bliss Roller Ball

The Spa Girl Life Cosmic Karma Candle (mint and eucalyptus)

For Folks Who Need To Unwind

Sherpa Fleece Weighted Blanket ($50)

Patchology Eye Masks ($15)

Kannaco Guava Strawberry CBD Oil

Foodie Goodness

Wine Truffle Box Assortment

Fab Slabs Antibacterial Cutting Boards made of sustainable Camphor Laurel trees in Australia

Your Friend Who Wanted a Peloton but Didn’t Want to Spend $2000

Bala Bangles

Cast-Iron Kettlebell

For Your Politics-Loving Pal

Stila All-Day Lipstick in Beso

Kamala, Michelle, Elizabeth, & Ruth tee

A Promised Land by Barack Obama

Tea-Totallers

The Sounds Free Energy Tea ($38)

Stump Teapot ($40)

Tea Forte Loose Leaf Sampler ($17)

More than 160 million projected voters cast their ballot this year -- shattering records. We want to know what motivated you to participate in an election that will help us deliver a democracy where we all can thrive. We've heard from first-time voters, those who stood in line for hours, and those who were moved to tears knowing how important their vote was. If you, or someone you know, had trouble voting, or if there's any other experience you'd like to share... Let your story be heard now. Visit https://andstillivote.org/your-story-matters to join the fight for voting rights today.

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I'm talking adoption with my fellow adoptive mom (and adoptee herself) Jillian Lauren. We've been friends for a long time and both adopted internationally and also from foster care. We get a little misty reading parts of our memoirs about bringing our boys home, and talk through what we've learned about love (and about ourselves) from the experience.

In this episode we talked about:

Everything You Ever Wanted: A Memoir

Keto-BEAM for Keto Electrolytes

Hydralyte All-Natural Electrolyte Hydration Powder Sticks

Viteyes Blue Light Defender Gummies

Necessaire in Sandalwood

Molton Brown London in Orange and Bergamot 

Malin & Goetz in Cannabis 

 Thanks to Himalaya Botanique for sponsoring this episode of the Selfie podcast. Himalaya Botanique— the toothpaste that’s free from fluoride, SLS, and artificial colors and flavors, but bursting with foam and flavor! Enjoy 20% off your purchase of Himalaya toothpaste, using discount code 20SELCARE on Amazon. To learn more about Himalaya Botanique and Ayurvedic wellness visit Himalayausa.com

More than 160 million projected voters cast their ballot this year -- shattering records. We want to know what motivated you to participate in an election that will help us deliver a democracy where we all can thrive. We've heard from first-time voters, those who stood in line for hours, and those who were moved to tears knowing how important their vote was. If you, or someone you know, had trouble voting, or if there's any other experience you'd like to share... Let your story be heard now. Visit https://andstillivote.org/your-story-matters to join the fight for voting rights today. Paid for by The Leadership Conference Education Fund. 

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We talk about some of the ways we still get tripped-up by people-pleasing, and BJ gives us a meditation and some wisdom on how to deal with the collective trauma of this pandemic and election cycle.

In this episode we talked about:

* The Cusp At-Home Hormone Test

* Boost Oxygen 

* ColorCoral

* Stila All Day Liquid Lipstick (Alexandra Ocasio-Cortez wears it in Beso)

Orgain has all kinds of organic products to fit your active lifestyle –nutrition shakes, protein powders, meal powders, bars, and even almond milk. Orgain products are food-based and full of organic vitamins and minerals that taste delicious and provide maximum nutrition. And Orgain promises to never use unnecessary fillers like artificial ingredients, preservatives, or GMOs. They’re all about good, clean nutrition.Plus, Orgain ships right to your door! You can also set up recurring deliveries to get your favorite products delivered for free. Right now, you can save 20% off your first order at the link Orgain.com/SELFIE.

We’ve talked a lot on our podcast about the importance of voting, and we are huge advocates of voting as a means to use your voice and effect change. In response to the coronavirus pandemic, more voters used absentee ballots than in past elections. Most voters expect to have an officially certified winner of the presidential election within three days of the election. A longer-than-expected wait for results can breed distrust in the election. But it’s important to note that it takes election officials longer to verify and count absentee ballots than votes cast by electronic voting machines because they need extra time to double check that those ballots have been verified and counted before announcing a result. Every eligible voter should have their voice heard and their vote counted. It has taken longer to count the votes and verify a winner in this year’s election — and that’s okay. Visit AndStillIVote.org to join the fight for voting rights today. Paid for by The Leadership Conference Education Fund.

Photo by Max van den Oetelaar on Unsplash

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The whole nation is living in a limbo of uncertainty right now about a close election with very high stakes. We are talking about how we are coping with the ambiguity, and strategies for “waiting well.” BJ gives us some wisdom on the importance of spirituality, and how to cultivate and create space for your spirituality.

In this episode we also talked about:

* Flying Embers Watermelon Chili Hard Seltzer (sweet and heat collection)

* The Queen's Gambit on Netflix 

* Your Hormone Balance

* Fluffy-Ass Weighted Blanket

* Your Post-Election Care Strategy by Alicia T. Crosby and AnaYelsi Velasco-Sanchez

Thanks to Himalaya for sponsoring this episode of the Selfie podcast. Himalaya Ashwagandha designed to help your body better adapt to stress. Enjoy 20% off your first purchase of Himalaya Ashwagandha, use discount code SELFCARE4U when you checkout on Amazon. To learn more about Himalaya Ashwagandha and Ayurvedic Wellness visit Himalayausa.com

Photo by Emily Morter on Unsplash

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Grace Sandra talks about her journey as a biracial woman growing up with a white mom and siblings, the importance of all-black spaces, and the impact of intergeneration trauma on the black community. You can find Grace's book Grace, Actually: Faith, Love, Loss & Black Womanhood here.

In this episode we also talked about:

* Well Told Home Town Maps Insulated Hydration Bottle

* 23 Vitals Immune Support

* SureSwatch Temporary Paint Swatches

* Garment Rack

* Roo's Favorite Comforter

Having your voice counted in this year’s election is more important than ever. You don’t have to wait until November 3rd to cast your ballot. Be an October Voter! In most states, you can vote early in October. Request your mail ballot; return your completed ballot in the mail or in-person; or vote early at an early voting location. Visit AndStillIVote.org to join the fight for voting rights today. Paid for by The Leadership Conference Education Fund.

WYLD Gallery is an art gallery in Austin Texas featuring Native American Art. The art is bright/bold pop art style, many with a little historical tension thrown in. Several of the artists have work in the permanent collections of museums, including the Smithsonian National Museum of the American Indian in DC and NYC. WYLD Gallery art would make a great statement piece for your home, or a unique Christmas gift for loved ones. 

Today’s show is brought to you by EBY, a seamless underwear membership.Eby’s are seamless and smooth, with the perfect amount of softness and stretch . . . your new super power to fight VPLs, slipping, or riding up. A no-slip grip keeps everything in place, with a cotton lining to keep your lady parts healthy. They have fits and styles in sizes XS-4X to fit every woman. Joining EBY gives you access to exclusive, members-only offers, free shipping, limited edition prints, and weekly power tips on confidence and productivity. A membership keeps your underwear drawer fresh AND helps fund cyclical microfinance loans for women around the world. 10% of every EBY purchase funds business loans for women around the world. Get 20% your first order at joineby.com with code SELFIE20.  

Orgain has all kinds of organic products to fit your active lifestyle –nutrition shakes, protein powders, meal powders, bars, and even almond milk. Orgain products are food-based and full of organic vitamins and minerals that taste delicious and provide maximum nutrition. And Orgain promises to never use unnecessary fillers like artificial ingredients, preservatives, or GMOs. They’re all about good, clean nutrition.Plus, Orgain ships right to your door! You can also set up recurring deliveries to get your favorite products delivered for free. Right now, you can save 20% off your first order at the link Orgain.com/SELFIE..

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Eugene Cho is talking about how to have a civil dialogue about politics, the polarization of political parties, and the problem with Christians aligning with a party over their moral convictions. 

Thou Shalt Not Be a Jerk: A Christian's Guide to Engaging Politics,

Kristen and Eugene’s trip to Iraq and Lebanon 

Air Queen N95 Substantial Equivalent Masks

The Happy Labs Chill Pills

TheBalm Stainiac

Ninja Coffee Maker

Today’s show is brought to you by EBY, a seamless underwear membership.Eby’s are seamless and smooth, with the perfect amount of softness and stretch . . . your new super power to fight VPLs, slipping, or riding up. A no-slip grip keeps everything in place, with a cotton lining to keep your lady parts healthy. They have fits and styles in sizes XS-4X to fit every woman. Joining EBY gives you access to exclusive, members-only offers, free shipping, limited edition prints, and weekly power tips on confidence and productivity. A membership keeps your underwear drawer fresh AND helps fund cyclical microfinance loans for women around the world. 10% of every EBY purchase funds business loans for women around the world. Get 20% your first order at joineby.com with code SELFIE20.  

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We are talking with University of San Diego Journalism professor David Dozier about how to avoid falling for fake news, and what to do when people you love do. David Dozier holds a doctorate in communication research from Stanford University and is an internationally recognized expert and speaker on mass communications. BJ also gives us advice on finding mindful practices in the mundane.

In this episode we also talked about:

* The California Killing Field

* Skin MD Natural Face & Body Cream with SPF 15 

* Grip Guard Touch Protector

* Beakey Sponges

* Everything You Need to Ace Science in One Big Fat Notebook (Middle School Study Guide)

Having your voice counted in this year’s election is more important than ever. You don’t have to wait until November 3rd to cast your ballot. Be an October Voter! In most states, you can vote early in October. Request your mail ballot; return your completed ballot in the mail or in-person; or vote early at an early voting location. Visit AndStillIVote.org to join the fight for voting rights today. Paid for by The Leadership Conference Education Fund.

Eby’s undies are seamless and smooth, with the perfect amount of softness and stretch. No panty lines… ever. A no-slip grip keeps everything in place and their cotton lining to keep your lady parts healthy. Joining Eby's subscription gives you access to exclusive, members-only offers. Free shipping, limited edition prints, and weekly power tips on confidence and productivity. A membership keeps your underwear drawer fresh AND helps fund cyclical microfinance loans for women around the world. 10% of every EBY purchase funds business loans for women around the world. empower women out of poverty and into business. Get 20% your first order at joineby.com with code SELFIE20.

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Anyone else finding the current news cycle to be frustrating and fatiguing? Kristen and Roo are taking the week off from guests to talk/vent about the current political climate and the President's response to his Covid infection.

In this episode we also talk about:

* made by Fressko Tea Infusion Glass

* TheraBox Self-Care Subscription Box

* elf Hydrating Concealer

* A Whole New World, a Twisted Tale

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Drew Hart, author and anti-racism leader is helping us understand how to engage further in anti-racism. BJ is helping us figure out how to navigate election season with family and friends whose view differ. Kristen shares her emotions around making hard school decisions for her kids and Roo shares about her upcoming eye surgery. 

You can find Drew's book Trouble I've Seen: Changing the Way the Church Views Racism here and you can find his book Who Will Be a Witness: Igniting Activism for God's Justice, Love, and Deliverance here. 

In this episode we also talked about:

* Hudson and James Collagen

* Mighty Lil’ Lentils 

* Self-inking Date Stamp

* The Most Likely Way You’ll Get Infected with COVID-19

* Air Purifier Options (air purifier 2) ( air purifier 3) 

Nurture Life is a meal delivery service just for kids. Nurture Life makes kes delicious meals kids love with the right nutrients and portion sizes for every age group. with an extensive range of meals including Finger Foods for babies to Toddler and Kid meals, and even Teen & Adult Meals and shareable Family Meals. Every Toddler, Kid and Teen & Adult meal includes a FULL serving of vegetables while focusing on organic produce, antibiotic-free proteins, and whole grains. You can subscribe & save to receive weekly meals & discounts. The subscription is incredibly flexible—you can skip weeks, pause or cancel whenever you need. Nurture Life is offering a limited time incredible discount! Go to Nurture.Life/SELFIE and use promo code SELFIE to get 30% off your first two orders.

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We’re talking politics . . . specifically HOW to talk poltiics with people you disagree with. Our guest is Sarah Stewart Holland, cohost of the Pantsuit Politics podcast and author of I Think You're Wrong (But I'm Listening): A Guide to Grace-Filled Political Conversations. BJ Hickman talks about what it menas to abandon yourself, and how to nurture and protect the inner child with specific attention to our listeners in the LGBTQ+ community.

In this episode we talked about:

Humblemaker's Vitamin-Infused Cold Brew Shots

CBD Living Sparkling Water Strawberry Lavender

Women in Art by Rachel Ignotofsky 50 Fearless Creatives who inspired the world 

Women in Science

Women in Sports

The Time Timer

Nurture Life is a meal delivery service just for kids. Nurture Life makes kes delicious meals kids love with the right nutrients and portion sizes for every age group. with an extensive range of meals including Finger Foods for babies to Toddler and Kid meals, and even Teen & Adult Meals and shareable Family Meals. Every Toddler, Kid and Teen & Adult meal includes a FULL serving of vegetables while focusing on organic produce, antibiotic-free proteins, and whole grains. You can subscribe & save to receive weekly meals & discounts. The subscription is incredibly flexible—you can skip weeks, pause or cancel whenever you need. Nurture Life is offering a limited time incredible discount! Go to Nurture.Life/SELFIE and use promo code SELFIE to get 30% off your first two orders.

I’ve been getting Decocrated boxes for over a year now. If you aren’t familiar, Decocrated is a subscription box company that sends seasonal decor to your home. It’s so ideal for someone like myself who wants to decorate for the seasons but gets overwhelmed with where to start. Prior to subscribing, I felt like I could only manage Christmas. But Decocrated has upped my game, and I just got the fall box and set things out, along with some of my own pieces as well as pieces I got from last year’s fall box. Each box comes with 6-8 pieces, and they are shipped four times a year. You can subscribe annually, or just get an individual seasonal box. Subscribing also gives you access to their member’s only shop, a curated collection to complement Decocrated décor. You can subscribe to Decocrated here, and use the code RATM10 for 10% off:

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