Semper Sometimes

Benny and Dcure talk about his journey through 7 years of sobriety. We discuss the road less traveled and why he has chosen to stay sober. We discuss the darkest times and the times we don't remember. We both share stories of our issues with alcoholism and the problems it caused in our lives. We all struggle with different things in this life and for some it is alcoholism. If you struggle listen to this episode where we both expose ourselves and the lives we have lived. We do this to help others see they aren't alone. We keep fighting daily so we can help one person overcome addiction. Know you aren't alone and know we are here to help no matter what. If you have a story to share please reach out and help this platform grow. No matter the addiction and no matter the issue we are here to lend an ear. 

Benny speaks with a current 8411 SSgt Reinhold. He is a current SNCOIC/Recruiter. Yes you saws that correctly. SSgt Reinhold checked in from BRC and was made a SNCOIC of a small office of just 2 recruiters. He was one of them. He speaks about his current grind and life on the duty. We all live through the duty in a different manner and take things differently. It's important we discuss mental health and what's going on daily. As an 8411 you are in constant contact with people flooding your mind. We need to take time to speak about what we go through and that's what this episode is all about. Please reach out if you are in need. I am always willing to help and just lend an ear if you need it.   

Benny has Adam and Roland on from Romeo Echo. From meeting in the Marine Corps to becoming Business Partners. These men shared a commonality and it was a horrible experience with buying their first home. The both of them wanted to help Veteran understand their benefits and get the most out of them. They wanted service members to be mentored and taken care of after their sacrifice and service. We discuss transition and finding purpose after enlistment. Please follow them and share their journey.

Benny and Tommy talk about making time for our families while on the duty. We discuss having children on the duty and what it is to be a parent while on a rigorous duty. Take the time and put it in your S&R. People say they will but often times we don't. We must prioritize the things that matter and the people that matter to us. Benny and Tommy share some personal stories regarding the topic of fatherhood and being a husband. How did you find Recruiting Duty affecting your marriage? What did you do about it? Do you have a similar story? Can you relate? Please reach out if you have some things you want to talk about and get out there to assist the current 8411 on the street. We all need help but don't want to ask for it. Come share some stories with Benny on our next episode of The SUC!

Benny talks with Ian Smith the Co-Owner of Atilis Gym in Bellmawr New Jersey. We discuss his reason for keeping his gym open throughout the pandemic even after all the backlash. He has received countless phone calls from people disapproving of his actions but he's also received the thanks from his patrons. We discuss mental toughness and the need for a place like the gym for many. At the height of Covid19 small business were destroyed but he fought to stay open after everything and all the fines. I ask you remove your bias and listen to the story of 2 gym owners who have fought to stay open. 

Benny talks with Jordan a former EAD Recruiter. We talk about his time on the duty and why he didn't extend for a third year. We discuss the good and the bad situations. We discuss the mental anguish it can cause on a Marine and dive into anxiety and panic attacks. This duty can be a hard place to be. Benny and Jordan talk about what a winning team looks like and how to become one. There is no one way to make it happen on recruiting duty. Everyone has a different way to make it work but the basis needs to be MC3. I firmly believe if you truly push yourself and follow the steps you can be successful. Put your best foot forward and fight each day. Failing has never been okay in the Marine Corps. We need to adapt and overcome day by day. If you find yourself need a place to come to this is it. Reach out to Benny anytime! Follow us on Instagram at Semper_Sometimes.

Benny speaks with current 8411 Sgt Nico Flores about the duty. We discuss his positive mental attitude and how he felt when he first got hssted. He talks about his mentor who was a MSgt who spoke highly of the duty. Recruiting Duty can be very different when you are exposed to positive stories. Unfortunately we tend to only hear the horror stories. That's why I am here. I want to share both sides of the story. Lets find a way to be better through a duty like this. Let's talk about the change and positive outlooks. It can't all be bad. Let's make this a place of growth and prosperity. Let's make being an 8411 mean something. Be proud to wear that ribbon and talk about the good times. Let's change the stigma and make it a place people want to return to. If you find yourself enjoying these episodes please share them with your fellow devil dog. I am to change one life and if that's your please share your story with me. 

Benny talks about Recruiting Duty and what were doing to change it. What are we doing to make this a better environment for our Marines. How do we make it a place to return to? Most people who have ever been on the duty feel that would never return. You couldn't pay them enough to experience it again. What are we doing to change that? Besides useless incentives like "RS of Choice" you work 7 days a week the RS doesn't matter at that point. How do we create a conducive environment? If you find these episodes help you please share them with others and spread them. I am here to help the 8411 on the street anyway I can. That includes outside of these episodes. Follow us on Facebook and Instagram. Keep up the fight.  Please Subcribe so you can see all the new episodes Mondays and Weds! 

This episode starts a little different then others. I speak about some announcements and talk about some comments. Then we have Sgt Nico Flores on to discuss his current tour of duty being an 8411. We discuss his thoughts on Positive Mental Attitude and the importance of it. We also discuss determining your own destiny. We are often put in positions we cant control. The one thing we can control is our attitude towards it. We discuss the positive things that will help him return to the fleet Marine Corps a better leader. People like to focus on the bad times on the duty and we rarely hear about the growth it creates in our leaders. Come to the duty with an open mind and a yearning to win. If you are interested in being on the podcast reach out. Also you can see Benny every night at 8pm EST on A LIVE EVERYDAY PODCAST HOSTED BY THE MARINE RAPPER ON YOUTUBE!!!!. Please make sure to leave a review wherever you find yourself listening.