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In this episode, Alexis and Sangodare reflect on the impact of family-of-origin dynamics on how we love romantically. With a grounding sacred text from Audre Lorde's essay “Eye to Eye”, they reveal how recognizing these patterns can lead to healing and liberation. The episode emphasizes intentionality in relationships, the importance of community support, and celebrates the love and influence of family, exemplified by a super special listener testimonial. The session concludes by inviting listeners to embrace these insights for personal transformation.
Navigating Relationships and Family Dynamics
Personal Reflections and Breakthroughs
North Stars for Healing and Growth
A special listener testimonial
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In this solo episode, Sangodare unpacks afformations (not to be confused with affirmations) and their transformative power in all areas of life. Sangodare explores their learnings from the book ‘Afformations: The Miracle of Positive Self-Talk’ by Noah St. John, emphasizing the importance of belief, generative practices, and asking the right questions. They highlight how altering self-talk can create new possibilities and enrich the relational experience while addressing the challenges of balancing self-love and community engagement.
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And because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1
Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.
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In this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis celebrate the power of joy and gratitude within their community, relationships, and personal growth. they emphasize the importance of celebrating their elders, relationships, and the journey of black lesbians. The hosts introduce celebration as a technology, which they leverage to foster community and progress. They share personal anecdotes about turning gratitude into tangible growth, illustrating three 'North Stars' guiding their practice: always finding something to celebrate, celebrating before manifestations, and embracing creativity in celebrations. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on and practice gratitude daily, amplifying the impact of positive energy in their lives.
If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534
For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
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And because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1
Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.
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alexispauline.com
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See a Film School version of Sangodare’s Dreamgirl Music Video on Patreon (FREE)
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In this episode, Alexis and Sangodare unpack the power of making requests, emphasizing the importance of learning to make and receive requests in relationships as a practice of vulnerability and community building. They discuss how asking for what we want can enhance cooperation and trust. The episode encourages listeners to see requests as acts of generosity and steps towards deeper connections.
If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534
For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
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And because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1
Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.
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https://sangodare.podia.com/
alexispauline.com
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See a Film School version of Sangodare’s Dreamgirl Music Video on Patreon (FREE)
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In this episode, hosts Sangodare and Alexis discuss profound themes around communicating desires and boundaries in Loveships. They share personal anecdotes, highlight insights from black feminists like June Jordan and Prentis Hemphill, and provide guidance on practicing healthy caring, non-codependent relationships. They emphasize the importance of community, mutual respect, and open communication in fostering spiritual growth within intimate relationships, and they address a listener's question about maintaining boundaries while valuing community.
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For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
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And because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1
Thanks for listening! Let us know what you thought through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.
RESOURCES
https://sangodare.podia.com/
alexispauline.com
sangodare.com
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See a Film School version of Sangodare’s Dreamgirl Music Video on Patreon (FREE)
Website
Produced by Wowow Podcasts
This discussion highlights our universal need for love and intimacy, and how the perceived scarcity of these elements can lead to lowered standards and feelings of unworthiness. Drawing on Ntozake Shange’s mantra “I found God in myself and I loved her fiercely, the episode underscores the importance of recognizing our intrinsic worth and the examples of love and intimacy that truly resonate with our authentic selves.
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Are you seeking intentional partnership? Consider our 8 week cohort: TRUST FALL: Activation and Accompaniment for Lovebirds. For more information click here: https://sangodare.podia.com/trust-fall-activation-and-accompaniment-for-lovebirds
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https://sangodare.podia.com/
alexispauline.com
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CONNECT WITH US
See a Film School version of Sangodare’s Dreamgirl Music Video on Patreon (FREE)
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In this episode, hosts Sangodare and Alexis delve into the concept of heartbreak as a crucial part of spiritual growth and self-awareness within relationships. The episode shares personal stories of past heartbreaks and the lessons learned from those experiences, emphasizing the importance of intuition and self-trust. They outline three 'North Stars' guiding through heartbreak: understanding it as a spiritual milestone, the essential role of community in healing, and viewing the capacity to care and grieve as a gift. The hosts also introduce their 'Trust Fall for Lovebirds' cohort aimed at helping individuals rebuild trust in themselves and clarify their desires in partnerships.
If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534
For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship
And because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1
Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.
RESOURCES
https://sangodare.podia.com/
alexispauline.com
sangodare.com
CONNECT WITH US
See a Film School version of Sangodare’s Dreamgirl Music Video on Patreon (FREE)
Website
Produced by Wowow Podcasts
In this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis explore the multifaceted concept of intimacy as a vital part of loving relationships, romantic, platonic and otherwise. They discuss various forms of intimacy, reflecting on personal experiences and offering practical advice for expanding love and self-love. Listener questions address how to build healthy relationships despite past toxic experiences. Additionally, the episode highlights the influence of historical and cultural practices on contemporary dedication rituals, and announces upcoming events like virtual playdates and trust-building cohorts for those seeking romantic partnerships.
If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534
For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship
And because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1
Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.
RESOURCES
https://sangodare.podia.com/
alexispauline.com
sangodare.com
CONNECT WITH US
See a Film School version of Sangodare’s Dreamgirl Music Video on Patreon (FREE)
Website
Produced by Wowow Podcasts
In this episode, hosts Sangodare and Alexis explore the concept of the 'love ship' as a profound spiritual practice and a journey in relationships. With references to black feminist thought and their personal experiences, they outline three 'North Stars' guiding love ships: spiritual depth, mutual participation, and constant compassion. The episode also addresses a listener's question on balancing differing spiritual perspectives in a partnership, emphasizing the importance of mutual consent and intention in forming a true love ship. They conclude by inviting listeners to join their upcoming cohort for those seeking intentional partnerships.
If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534
For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship
And because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1
Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.
RESOURCES
https://sangodare.podia.com/
alexispauline.com
sangodare.com
CONNECT WITH US
See a Film School version of Sangodare’s Dreamgirl Music Video on Patreon (FREE)
Website
Produced by Wowow Podcasts
In this episode, hosts Sangodare and Alexis introduce Dedication as a spiritual technology for enriching relationships and community, emphasizing that recognizing our connections to others can transform mundane interactions into powerful experiences. They explore the importance of dedication in bringing forth the best versions of ourselves and fostering deeper connections. They also share practices to help cultivate self-love and improve relationships, highlight the influence of historical and ancestral connections and encourage listeners to integrate dedication into their daily lives. The episode ends with listener questions about self-love and expanding love in material ways, offering insights and practical advice for deepening one’s spiritual and relational growth.
If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534
For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship
And because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1
Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.
RESOURCES
https://sangodare.podia.com/
alexispauline.com
sangodare.com
CONNECT WITH US
See a Film School version of Sangodare’s Dreamgirl Music Video on Patreon (FREE)
Website
Produced by Wowow Podcasts
From the publisher's feed
September is a weekly podcast for Loveships. It explores the tools and technologies that build and sustain life-changing love relationships. Hosted by writer and facilitator Alexis Pauline Gumbs…
From conflict and contrast, responsibility and repair, to emotional intimacy and navigating the ever-changing seasons of life, Alexis and Sangodare share insights that nurture not only couples but also families, friends, and communities.
Tune in each week for heartfelt conversations that honor relationships as sacred ground—an offering to ourselves, our people, our ancestors, and spirit.