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On this episode hosts Alexis and Sangodare focus on reclaiming the term “special” in a sincere way. They argue systems like capitalism and empire discourage recognizing inherent dignity and discuss why this self recognition is not vanity but deeply spiritual work. They close by announcing registration for the September Chrysalis Experience retreat via mobilehomecoming.org.
If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534
You can also send us a tax-deductible donation via “text to give." Send a text to this number: 53-555. All you have to put in your message is “September.” Then press send. You will get a text back from Black Feminist Film School which is helping us make this and all our production more sustainable for us and consistent for you.
For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship
Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1
And connect with us on the channels below!
RESOURCES
https://sangodare.podia.com/
alexispauline.com
sangodare.com
CONNECT WITH US
Website
Produced by Wowow Podcasts
On this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis discuss purpose as “love flowing into form,” how society and capitalist value stories can separate people from purpose, and how natural gifts often become last on the to-do list. They unpack over-prioritizing support for others at the expense of their own creative practice, the need to value our most precious connections to source and consent around purpose-to-purpose relationships while respecting boundaries under scarcity.
If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534
You can also send us a tax-deductible donation via “text to give." Send a text to this number: 53-555. All you have to put in your message is “September.” Then press send. You will get a text back from Black Feminist Film School which is helping us make this and all our production more sustainable for us and consistent for you.
For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship
Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1
And connect with us on the channels below!
RESOURCES
https://sangodare.podia.com/
alexispauline.com
sangodare.com
CONNECT WITH US
Website
Produced by Wowow Podcasts
On this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis introduce love as a collective superpower, arguing that love’s fullest power is not individual or confined to isolated couples or the nuclear family but lives on the scale of community and collective freedom. Drawing from Angela Davis’s autobiography, they highlight how her story centers collective support and love as forces that propelled her political commitment. They share 3 “North Stars” and call for social relations where all are loved and no one is sacrificed.
If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534
You can also send us a tax-deductible donation via “text to give." Send a text to this number: 53-555. All you have to put in your message is “September.” Then press send. You will get a text back from Black Feminist Film School which is helping us make this and all our production more sustainable for us and consistent for you.
For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship
Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1
And connect with us on the channels below!
RESOURCES
https://sangodare.podia.com/
alexispauline.com
sangodare.com
CONNECT WITH US
Website
Produced by Wowow Podcasts
On this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis celebrate the New York Knicks winning their first NBA championship in 53 years, and how sports and fandom connects to the legacy of collective love and teamwork. Using Alexis’s Dad’s Knicks loyalty as a metaphor, they offer three north stars about how love is it’s own reason and answer a listener question about whether or not it makes sense to have a goal oriented approach to relationships.
If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534
You can also send us a tax-deductible donation via “text to give." Send a text to this number: 53-555. All you have to put in your message is “September.” Then press send. You will get a text back from Black Feminist Film School which is helping us make this and all our production more sustainable for us and consistent for you.
For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship
Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1
And connect with us on the channels below!
RESOURCES
https://sangodare.podia.com/
alexispauline.com
sangodare.com
CONNECT WITH US
Website
Produced by Wowow Podcasts
On this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis distinguish what is urgent (time-based) from what is important (value-based) amid capitalist pressures. Using experiences around Black Feminist Film School production and podcast scheduling, they emphasize that clarity about the important attracts community support, while urgency can undermine rest and presence. They invite listeners to a virtual Juneteenth Patreon date night and take a listener question on addressing a loved one dating someone potentially harmful.
For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship
Because love is living with purpose join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1
If you are in Durham, join us for Black Feminist Revival services the last Sunday of the month at Northstar Church of the Arts.
Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.
RESOURCES
https://sangodare.podia.com/
alexispauline.com
sangodare.com
CONNECT WITH US
Website
Produced by Wowow Podcasts
If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534
Join before June 19th (Juneteenth!) to be at our first virtual hangout session. #datenight
You can also send us a tax-deductible donation via “text to give." Send a text to this number: 53-555. All you have to put in your message is “September.” Then press send. You will get a text back from Black Feminist Film School which is helping us make this and all our production more sustainable for us and consistent for you.
For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship
Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1
And connect with us on the channels below!
RESOURCES
https://sangodare.podia.com/
alexispauline.com
sangodare.com
CONNECT WITH US
Website
Produced by Wowow Podcasts
In this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis define what it does and doesn’t look like to spend intentional time together. They distinguish vacations, staycations and jaunts and how they draw distinction and boundaries between these experiences and work and family trips. They recount a recent jaunt involving deep conversations, play, and a near–EV battery mishap and cite Gwendolyn Brooks on blooming in the whirlwind. They answer a listener question about play and how levity builds agility, flexibility, and rediscovery.
If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534
For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship
Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1
Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.
RESOURCES
https://sangodare.podia.com/
alexispauline.com
sangodare.com
CONNECT WITH US
Website
Produced by Wowow Podcasts
In this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis explore non-linear time, queer time, and the practice of loving every age of oneself and one’s partner. Using a conflict about an expensive pillow after mattress shopping, they discuss feeling unseen, re-parenting each other, and how multiple selves show up in adult life, while clarifying boundaries and rejecting any justification of harm to minors. They offer three “North Stars” and answer a listener question about date night as ritual. They announce a May 24 Revival service in Durham and June cohort registration for Chrysalis Life Purpose Roadmap.
If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534
For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship
Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1
Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.
RESOURCES
https://sangodare.podia.com/
alexispauline.com
sangodare.com
CONNECT WITH US
Website
Produced by Wowow Podcasts
In a live episode at North Star Church of the Arts in Durham, Sangodare and Alexis use a seafaring metaphor to explore what it means to be “anchored in love”. They unpack how preparation, resourcing and kindness can keep a “love ship” steady through change. They discuss identifying resilience strategies before you need them, discerning when to move versus be still, and remind us that being able to access our tools matters as much as the tools themselves.
If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534
For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship
Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1
Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.
RESOURCES
https://sangodare.podia.com/
alexispauline.com
sangodare.com
CONNECT WITH US
Website
Produced by Wowow Podcasts
In this episode hosts Alexis and Sangodare explore the idea of the “dark night of the soul,” through poetry and a very literal dark-night story of their own. They offer three “North Stars” to help listeners return to love even through the darkness, and answer a listener question about a time they each had to “compost” habits and beliefs that did not serve their highest purpose.
If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534
For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here
https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship
And because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1
Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.
RESOURCES
https://sangodare.podia.com/
alexispauline.com
sangodare.com
CONNECT WITH US
Website
Produced by Wowow Podcasts
From the publisher's feed
September is a weekly podcast for Loveships. It explores the tools and technologies that build and sustain life-changing love relationships. Hosted by writer and facilitator Alexis Pauline Gumbs…
From conflict and contrast, responsibility and repair, to emotional intimacy and navigating the ever-changing seasons of life, Alexis and Sangodare share insights that nurture not only couples but also families, friends, and communities.
Tune in each week for heartfelt conversations that honor relationships as sacred ground—an offering to ourselves, our people, our ancestors, and spirit.