Settled

We dive into the compelling invitation from Jesus to embrace a childlike spirit as a pathway to the kingdom of heaven. The conversation gets real as we explore what it truly means to be childlike—not childish—in our faith journey. We unpack the significance of dependence, joy, and the raw honesty that children embody. Through relatable anecdotes, we illustrate how societal pressures often stifle our innate ability to connect with God and others authentically. Join us as we challenge the norms of adulthood and rediscover the beauty of being a child of God, fully alive and engaged with the kingdom right here around us.

Resources:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026

For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Settled Design Course

Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session

Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco

Connect with us:

Website - https://settledco.com

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/

Takeaways:

• Entering the kingdom of heaven requires a childlike heart and perspective, not mere rules.
• Childlikeness is about dependence on God, recognizing our need for Him in all things.
• Jesus emphasized that being childlike is essential for entering the kingdom, highlighting the importance of humility.
• True childlikeness allows us to engage with the kingdom around us and perceive its presence.
• As adults, we often lose touch with our inner child, but embracing that can lead to deeper spiritual truths.
• Mistakes are part of being childlike; it's the willingness to learn and grow that truly matters.

Mentioned in this episode:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX

Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below.

Supporting Us Through This Journey

As many of you know, Jason was recently diagnosed with stage four stomach cancer. If you'd like to support him and this podcast financially, you can donate using this link. All gifts are tax-deductible. Learn more at settledco.com/jason.

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This week, we’re diving deep into the heart of family dynamics as we explore the significance of gathering around the table. We share our personal journey of how we created a weekly family dinner tradition, which we affectionately dubbed our Shabbat meal. The table became a sacred space where we not only shared meals but also engaged in meaningful conversations about our lives and emotions, encouraging everyone to express their feelings openly. We discuss the importance of creating an atmosphere that allows for vulnerability and connection, even amidst discomfort, and how this practice has fostered deeper relationships within our family. Join us as we reflect on the memories made and the growth experienced through our table rituals, reminding us all that there’s room for every feeling at our family table.

Resources:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026

For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Settled Design Course

Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session

Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco

Connect with us:

Website - https://settledco.com

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/

Takeaways:

• Family dinners create a space where we can share our feelings and experiences openly.
• Establishing a weekly family meal can strengthen connections and provide a rhythm for communication.
• Using a feelings chart helped our family articulate emotions, making sharing feelings more common.
• Creating a safe atmosphere at the dinner table allows for deeper conversations and vulnerability among family members.
• Practicing vulnerability as parents encourages our kids to express their emotions without fear of judgment.
• Over the years, consistency at the family table helped our children feel comfortable sharing their lives with us.

Mentioned in this episode:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX

Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below.

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Journey

This FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

This episode dives deep into the roles we adopt within our families and how these roles shape our identities. We explore the idea that family dynamics can often feel like a framework into which we are poured as children, with each of us taking on specific roles—whether we were asked to or not. From the silent absorber to the family punchline, we share our personal experiences and humorous anecdotes about the roles we played growing up. We open up about how these family patterns can carry over into adulthood, affecting our relationships and self-perception. Ultimately, we encourage you to reflect on your own family roles and consider how they might still influence your life today, as we seek to shed those costumes and embrace our true selves in Christ.

Resources:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026

For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Settled Design Course

Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session

Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco

Connect with us:

Website - https://settledco.com

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/

Takeaways:

• In this episode, we explored how childhood roles in our families shape our adult lives, often unconsciously.
• We discussed the importance of recognizing and shedding the emotional costumes we wore as children to live authentically.
• Understanding our family of origin can help us identify patterns that no longer serve us in our current relationships and workplaces.
• We emphasized that our identities should not be defined by roles imposed on us in childhood, but rather by our true selves in Christ.
• It's vital to notice the dynamics in our families, as they can inform our emotional responses and coping mechanisms today.
• The conversation highlighted how healing involves disentangling from unhealthy roles and stepping into our true identities.

Mentioned in this episode:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX

Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below.

Supporting Us Through This Journey

As many of you know, Jason was recently diagnosed with stage four stomach cancer. If you'd like to support him and this podcast financially, you can donate using this link. All gifts are tax-deductible. Learn more at settledco.com/jason.

Donate

Exploring the concept of God as Mother may just be the most liberating conversation we've had yet. In this episode, we dive into the often overlooked feminine attributes of God, challenging conventional views of the divine as strictly paternal. Through personal stories and scripture, we reveal how embracing God’s maternal qualities can bring healing and a deeper understanding of our relationship with Him. We share our own experiences of how our perceptions of God are shaped by our families of origin, illustrating the importance of seeing God as both a nurturing figure and a source of comfort. This episode is not just a theological discussion; it's an invitation to reconsider how we relate to the divine and to explore the warmth and nurturing that God offers to each of us.

Resources:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026

For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Settled Design Course

Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session

Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco

Connect with us:

Website - https://settledco.com

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/

Takeaways:

• This episode dives into the unconventional idea of viewing God as a mother, challenging traditional notions and encouraging healing through this perspective.
• The hosts share personal stories about their family backgrounds and how they influence their understanding of God, emphasizing the need for guidance in spiritual journeys.
• We explore the nurturing aspects of God as a mother, illustrating how this maternal imagery can provide comfort and security in our faith.
• The discussion unpacks how attachment theory relates to our relationship with God, highlighting the importance of receiving love and nourishment from both our earthly and divine parents.

Mentioned in this episode:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX

Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below.

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Journey

This FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

We're diving deep into how we perceive God as Father in this episode, and it’s a pretty crucial topic. The way we view God is often shaped by our experiences with our earthly fathers, whether those relationships are filled with love or carry deep wounds. We share our personal stories to explore how these dynamics affect our view of God and ourselves. Together, we’ll process those feelings and invite God into the healing process, aiming to reshape our understanding of divine fatherhood. So, grab a seat, and let’s create some space for God to speak into our hearts and bring forth a clearer picture of who He is as our perfect Father.

Resources:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026

For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Settled Design Course

Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session

Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco

Connect with us:

Website - https://settledco.com

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/

Takeaways:

• Our understanding of God as Father is deeply connected to our earthly father experiences, which can shape our identity and beliefs.
• Healing from past wounds with our fathers can transform how we see God, fostering a healthier relationship with Him.
• A father’s voice has a profound impact on a child's identity; it's crucial for affirmation and acceptance.
• Forgiveness is essential for moving forward and can lead to a deeper understanding of our identity as children of God.

Mentioned in this episode:

Supporting Us Through This Journey

As many of you know, Jason was recently diagnosed with stage four stomach cancer. If you'd like to support him and this podcast financially, you can donate using this link. All gifts are tax-deductible. Learn more at settledco.com/jason.

Donate

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX

Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below.

We dive deep into our concept of God today, focusing specifically on how our understanding of Jesus shapes our identity and our relationships. This conversation is not just enlightening; it's liberating. We explore how our early family experiences and the dynamics of sibling relationships heavily influence our perceptions of God and ourselves. With humor and vulnerability, we reflect on our personal journeys towards seeing God as a friend and a brother, breaking down the barriers of misconceptions that may have held us back from experiencing true connection. Join us as we share stories of transformation and invite you to consider how you view Jesus, and how that view impacts your life and relationships.

Resources:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026

For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Settled Design Course

Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session

Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco

Connect with us:

Website - https://settledco.com

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/

Takeaways:

• Our concept of God is significantly influenced by our family of origin, shaping our beliefs about Him.
• It's essential to recognize and address the misconceptions we hold about God stemming from childhood experiences.
• Seeing Jesus as a friend or sibling can transform our understanding of His love and companionship.
• Transformation happens when we allow God to reveal the truth about our lives and relationships.
• The process of healing often requires vulnerability and a willingness to confront past hurts.
• We can hold both the reality of our current relationships and the pain of our past experiences simultaneously.

Mentioned in this episode:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX

Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below.

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Journey

This FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

We're diving into the transformative concept of God in this new series, exploring how our perception of Him shapes our entire experience of life. I mean, how we see God isn't just an abstract idea; it profoundly impacts how we view ourselves and the people around us. We're all carrying around some form of concept of God, often shaped by our upbringing, which can lead to some serious misunderstandings about His nature. As we kick off this series, we're not just scratching the surface; we're laying down a framework that will guide us into deeper conversations and revelations about who God really is. So, buckle up, because this journey is going to be liberating as we shatter those old, unhelpful images and embrace the fullness of His love and goodness!

Resources:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026

For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Settled Design Course

Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session

Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco

Connect with us:

Website - https://settledco.com

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/

Takeaways:

• Understanding our concept of God is crucial as it shapes how we see ourselves and others in our lives.
• The way we perceive God is often influenced by our familial experiences, which can lead to misconceptions about His nature.
• Dysfunctional family dynamics can distort our understanding of God's love and care, highlighting the need for a redefined perspective.
• Our journey toward a healthier concept of God requires us to confront and surrender our preconceived notions, allowing for transformation.
• Recognizing the difference between iniquity and sin helps us understand how generational patterns can influence our view of God.
• Embracing the truth of who God is can lead to profound liberation and a deeper connection with our true selves.

Mentioned in this episode:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX

Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below.

Supporting Us Through This Journey

As many of you know, Jason was recently diagnosed with stage four stomach cancer. If you'd like to support him and this podcast financially, you can donate using this link. All gifts are tax-deductible. Learn more at settledco.com/jason.

Donate

We dive into our marriage journey, sharing how we met and the unique dynamic that keeps our relationship vibrant and authentic. In this episode, we tackle the stereotypes that often shape marital expectations, emphasizing the importance of being true to ourselves rather than conforming to societal norms. We explore the playful differences in our communication styles—like my tendency to chat about every detail while my partner offers brief, succinct responses. Through humor and heart, we discuss how we navigate these contrasts, learning to appreciate each other's perspectives while fostering a deeper connection. Ultimately, we invite you to embrace your own authenticity in relationships, shedding any roles that don't fit and celebrating the beautiful complexity of who you are.

Takeaways:

• Our marriage story highlights the importance of authenticity and finding your true self.
• We challenge stereotypes about men and women, emphasizing that everyone is unique and nuanced.
• The Settled Conference is designed to create a space for healing and personal growth.
• We share our journey of accepting ourselves and each other through the challenges of marriage.
• Communication styles can vary greatly, but understanding and acceptance can bridge those gaps.
• Unity in marriage means embracing our differences while still supporting each other's individuality.

Mentioned in this episode:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX

Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below.

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Journey

This FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Join us as we dive into the intriguing world of prophecy, a subject that sparks a variety of opinions and conversations. We're unpacking our personal journeys with the prophetic, shedding light on how it can be a powerful tool for encouragement and reconciliation rather than something to fear. We believe that everyone can engage with the prophetic—not just a select few—and through this episode, we aim to demystify what it really means to hear God and share His heart for others. Plus, we’re excited to announce our upcoming conference in Grapevine, Texas, where we’ll create a space for healing and connection, helping you to occupy your true self and hear God in the moment. So grab your headphones, and let's explore how prophecy can transform our lives and relationships!

Resources:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026

For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Settled Design Course

Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session

Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco

Connect with us:

Website - https://settledco.com

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/

Book Mentioned: A Beckoning To Wonder by Jen Weaver

Takeaways:

• In this episode, we explore the topic of prophecy and its significance in our spiritual journeys, emphasizing how it can empower us to hear God more clearly.
• We believe that prophecy should not be seen as a tool for judgment or shame, but rather as a means to encourage and uplift one another in our true identities.
• The upcoming Settled Conference aims to provide a healing space for individuals to connect with God, explore their identities, and experience community support.
• A key takeaway is that prophecy is about recognizing and affirming the truth of who we are in Christ rather than merely predicting the future or flattering one another.
• Our conversation highlights the importance of community in the prophetic process, as gathering together enhances our ability to hear from God more clearly.
• Ultimately, we want to remind everyone that we need each other in our spiritual journeys, as we often have blind spots that others can help us see clearly.

Mentioned in this episode:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX

Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below.

Supporting Us Through This Journey

As many of you know, Jason was recently diagnosed with stage four stomach cancer. If you'd like to support him and this podcast financially, you can donate using this link. All gifts are tax-deductible. Learn more at settledco.com/jason.

Donate

We're diving deep into who we are at SettledCo, and let me tell you, it's been quite the journey! We're not just a counseling company; we're a community passionate about helping others occupy their true selves in Christ. From our humble beginnings—when I, Jason, launched the company solo after leaving a decade-long church staff role—to now, where Elizabeth has officially joined the adventure, we've been busy creating a space where people can experience healing and growth. We're excited to share the evolution of our offerings, from biblical counseling to consulting and courses, all underpinned by our core message of settled identity. So grab a cocktail—yes, we might just talk about those—and join us for this revealing behind-the-scenes look at SettledCo!

Resources:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026

For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Settled Design Course

Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session

Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco

Connect with us:

Website - https://settledco.com

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/

Takeaways:

• We started SettledCo after leaving long-term church staff, aiming to help others find their true selves in Christ.
• Our journey has taken us through various office spaces, but we finally settled into a permanent location.
• SettledCo focuses on biblical counseling, coaching, and consulting, with a passion for serving individuals and churches alike.
• We believe that settled identity empowers individuals, couples, and organizations to thrive in their true purpose.
• Our upcoming conference will be a unique opportunity for community and growth, so mark your calendars for February!
• We aim to help churches move from creating dependents to developing disciples with emotional and spiritual maturity.

Mentioned in this episode:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX

Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below.

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Journey

This FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney