Settled

This week, we’re diving deep into a personal journey that took an unexpected turn when Jason faced a health crisis, leading to a life-changing diagnosis of stage 4 stomach cancer. It’s been a challenging month, and we’re here to share not just the details of that experience but also how it connects to the theme of Word Curses that we’ve been exploring. We’ll unpack how words spoken over us—whether by ourselves or others—can shape our identities and impact our lives, especially during tough times. As we navigate the emotional landscape of this diagnosis, we reflect on the power of accepting reality and the importance of speaking blessings over ourselves. Join us as we confront these heavy topics with honesty, humor, and a profound sense of hope.

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Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026

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Takeaways:

• We navigated a challenging month that included a hospitalization due to a serious health issue.
• Our recent experience with word curses has highlighted the importance of the words we speak over ourselves.
• During Jason's hospitalization, we learned that worshiping God can involve accepting our current reality.
• We discovered that the journey of acceptance allows us to process difficult emotions and fears in a healthy way.
• The impact of word curses can shape our identity and behavior in profound and sometimes harmful ways.
• In the face of chaos, we find strength and confidence in knowing who we truly are in God.

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We're diving deep into the intriguing world of generational iniquities, inner vows, and word curses this week. We start our new series by unpacking the concept of generational iniquity, which, let's be honest, sounds like a mouthful of churchy jargon but is so relatable once we break it down. We all have these invisible threads connecting us to our family histories, shaping our behaviors and tendencies—sometimes in ways we don't even realize. Jason and I share some personal stories, including an amusing anecdote about how our son and grandmother seem to share an uncanny knack for the same colorful driving commentary. As we explore the roots of these inherited traits, we aim to empower you to recognize and navigate the winds of influence from your family tree, all while reminding you that your true identity is grounded in Christ, no matter how much the winds may blow.

Resources:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026

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Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Settled Design Course

Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session

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Takeaways:

• In this episode, we kick off a new series exploring generational iniquities, inner vows, and the impact of word curses on our lives.
• We discuss how generational iniquities are not just inherited traits but also tendencies that can influence our behavior and choices over time.
• The metaphor of trees and winds helps illustrate how our family backgrounds shape our inner bents and motivations, which can affect our lives significantly.
• We emphasize that recognizing these iniquities is crucial, as they can visit future generations, but we also have the power to choose how we respond to them.

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Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX

Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below.

We're diving deep into our final discussion on spiritual warfare, and let me tell you, the key player in this whole saga is none other than Jesus. We unpack the reality that our battles are not against flesh and blood, but against the deeper spiritual forces at work. It’s so tempting to channel our frustrations onto the people around us, but we’ve got to remember that it’s the principalities and powers behind the scenes we’re really up against. This episode is all about understanding how Jesus, as the ultimate victor, has absorbed the curse and reclaimed the keys of death, hell, and the grave, empowering us to walk in freedom and victory. So, grab your favorite beverage, settle in, and let’s explore how to truly occupy our true selves in Christ and embrace the contentment that comes from surrendering to Him.

Resources:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026

For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Settled Design Course

Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session

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Connect with us:

Website - https://settledco.com

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YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/

Takeaways:

• In our final discussion on spiritual warfare, we emphasize the importance of understanding the person of Jesus as our ultimate victor and source of freedom.
• We discussed how spiritual warfare is not about fighting against flesh and blood, but rather recognizing the principalities and powers that influence human behavior.
• The keys to victory in spiritual warfare lie in surrendering to Jesus, who has already conquered death and darkness on our behalf.
• True contentment comes from accepting our reality and understanding that God is always present with us, no matter the circumstances we face.

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Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX

Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below.

Supporting Us Through This Journey

As many of you know, Jason was recently diagnosed with stage four stomach cancer. If you'd like to support him and this podcast financially, you can donate using this link. All gifts are tax-deductible. Learn more at settledco.com/jason.

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This episode dives deep into the intriguing topic of spiritual warfare, specifically focusing on the power that God imparts to us through the Holy Spirit. We explore how this power can sometimes feel paradoxical, especially when it comes to the idea that victory in spiritual battles often comes through surrender rather than striving. We also reflect on our personal experiences in Pentecostal environments, discussing the profound and sometimes chaotic encounters with the Holy Spirit that shaped our understanding of divine power. Throughout our conversation, we emphasize the importance of resting in God's presence as a way to access that power, highlighting how being seated in faith can transform our approach to life's challenges. Join us as we unpack what it truly means to be empowered by the Spirit while embracing a posture of rest and trust.

Resources:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026

For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Settled Design Course

Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session

Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco

Connect with us:

Website - https://settledco.com

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/

Takeaways:

• Spiritual warfare involves the paradox of power and surrender, where true victory comes from letting go.
• Our 10-week course is designed to help individuals hear God in the moment and connect with their true self.
• The experience of the Holy Spirit is essential in spiritual battles and is often misunderstood as strange or chaotic.
• Seatedness in Christ signifies trust and power, allowing us to face adversities with confidence and rest.

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Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX

Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below.

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Journey

This FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.

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We're diving deep into the often intimidating world of spiritual warfare this week, focusing on the crucial concept of perspective and how it shapes our reality. It's easy to feel overwhelmed when faced with life's challenges, but we're here to remind you that how we view these struggles can make all the difference. Our conversation highlights the powerful truth that we fight our battles through surrender, flipping the narrative from being victims to realizing we're actually beneficiaries of God's goodness. We'll explore a transformative story from 2 Kings, illustrating how the servant of Elisha gained a new perspective, revealing a heavenly army that far outnumbered the earthly one threatening him. Join us as we uncover how shifting our view not only empowers us in our daily lives but also aligns us with the truth that the world is rigged for good.

Resources:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026

For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Settled Design Course

Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session

Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco

Connect with us:

Website - https://settledco.com

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/

Takeaways:

• Understanding spiritual warfare requires us to shift our perspective on reality; how we see things changes everything.
• The story of Elisha shows that even when we feel surrounded by difficulties, there is a divine army ready to support us.
• Our perspective shapes our reality, and believing that the world is rigged for good can empower us in challenging situations.
• We don’t need to focus on naming our struggles but rather on seeing the support that surrounds us in our battles.

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Supporting Us Through This Journey

As many of you know, Jason was recently diagnosed with stage four stomach cancer. If you'd like to support him and this podcast financially, you can donate using this link. All gifts are tax-deductible. Learn more at settledco.com/jason.

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We’re kicking off a new series on spiritual warfare, and today, we’re diving deep into the intriguing paradox that to win in this spiritual battle, we actually need to surrender. It’s a concept that flips our usual understanding of conflict on its head. We’ve all been taught that fighting back is the way to victory, but what if the true path lies in yielding to Jesus and embracing the humility that comes with it? Throughout our conversation, we explore how surrendering can lead to profound victory, and how this practice can transform our perspective on the challenges we face. Join us as we unravel the complexities of spiritual warfare and discover how agreeing quickly with our adversaries—whether they’re external or internal—can be a powerful strategy in the fight for our true selves.

Resources:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026

For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Settled Design Course

Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session

Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco

Connect with us:

Website - https://settledco.com

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/

Takeaways:

• In spiritual warfare, the core paradox is that to win, we must surrender to Jesus.
• Understanding spiritual warfare requires recognizing the power of our agreements and disagreements.
• Surrendering to Jesus is fundamentally about trusting in His victory and resting in His presence.
• The battles we face are often rooted in our identities; knowing who we are in Christ is key.

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Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX

Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below.

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Journey

This FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.

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We’re diving into the final episode of our childlikeness series, where we unwrap the powerful connection between imagination and a flourishing marriage. We explore how imagination isn’t just a whimsical fantasy; it’s a vital tool we can use to envision healthier relationships and a deeper connection with God. We discuss the distinction between healthy imagination and destructive fantasies, emphasizing how the latter can lead us away from genuine intimacy. Drawing on personal anecdotes and biblical insights, we invite you to reconsider how you use your imaginative faculties to partner with God in creating a life filled with hope and possibility. So, grab a comfy chair, and let’s journey together into the wonderful world of childlike imagination!

Resources:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026

For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Settled Design Course

Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session

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Connect with us:

Website - https://settledco.com

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LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/

Takeaways:

• In our final episode of the childlikeness series, we explore the importance of imagination in a thriving marriage rather than indulging in fantasy, which can lead to harmful illusions.
• Jesus emphasized that to enter the kingdom of heaven, we must embrace a childlike heart, which invites us to perceive the world through the innocent lens of a child.
• Our imaginations serve as a powerful tool for engaging with God, allowing us to experience deeper spiritual realities rather than falling into the trap of fantasies or illusions.
• Imagination isn't just for children; it's a divine gift that can help us envision a hopeful future with God, transforming how we perceive our relationships and lives.
• By partnering with God in our imagination, we can create a vision for our lives and relationships that leads to healing and fulfillment, as opposed to relying on self-sourced fantasies.
• As we cultivate our imaginative faculties, we discover that they can be redeemed and used for good, enabling us to see beyond our current realities and into the possibilities God has for us.

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Supporting Us Through This Journey

As many of you know, Jason was recently diagnosed with stage four stomach cancer. If you'd like to support him and this podcast financially, you can donate using this link. All gifts are tax-deductible. Learn more at settledco.com/jason.

Donate

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX

Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below.

We dive deep into the concept of being childlike, emphasizing that Jesus said we must adopt this mindset to enter the kingdom of God. As we explore what it truly means to be inquisitive, we reflect on how children perceive the world with wonder and awe, often seeing things adults overlook. We share personal anecdotes that highlight our own experiences of curiosity and the joy that comes from embracing the simple marvels of life—like the fascinating design of a grapefruit! We also tackle the challenges of maintaining that childlike wonder as we grow older, often succumbing to indifference or apathy. Through this conversation, we encourage ourselves and our listeners to open up to the magnificence of God and rediscover the joy and curiosity that comes with engaging fully in life.

Resources:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026

For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Settled Design Course

Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session

Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco

Connect with us:

Website - https://settledco.com

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LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/

"Gazing" by Godfrey Birtill: https://youtu.be/ZLFl3aPAb8g

Takeaways:

• Inquisitiveness and childlikeness are essential to engaging with God's kingdom, as Jesus emphasized in his teachings.
• Wonder and awe are fundamental aspects of a child's perspective that many adults lose over time, but they are crucial for spiritual growth.
• Embracing our feelings of apathy can lead to a deeper understanding of God's magnanimous nature and foster a renewed sense of curiosity.
• The journey of integrating both good and bad experiences allows us to maintain our childlike wonder while navigating the complexities of adulthood.

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Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX

Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below.

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Journey

This FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

We dive deep into the essence of childlikeness, focusing on innocence and what it truly means to live with that quality in our lives. We explore how Jesus emphasizes the importance of becoming like children to engage with the kingdom of God, highlighting the genuine curiosity and openness that children embody. As we unpack the complexities of guilt versus innocence, we discuss how societal judgments can distort our self-perception, making us feel inherently guilty rather than recognizing our innate purity in Christ. Join us as we reflect on the journey of reconciling our humanity with our divine identity, ultimately embracing the truth that we are seen as innocent and whole in the eyes of God. It’s a conversation filled with humor, insights, and a call to reclaim the innocence that is rightfully ours.

Resources:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026

For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Settled Design Course

Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session

Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco

Connect with us:

Website - https://settledco.com

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/

Takeaways:

• Childlikeness is essential for engaging with the kingdom of God, emphasizing curiosity and playfulness.
• We often lose our sense of innocence as we grow up, but it's important to reclaim it.
• Feeling guilty is different from being guilty; our identity in Christ is that we are innocent.
• Jesus teaches us that true greatness is found in childlike qualities, flipping societal norms on their head.
• The cross represents an exchange where we trade our guilt for innocence, reaffirming our true identity.
• Understanding our humanity and divinity helps reconcile our growth into maturity while maintaining a childlike heart.

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Supporting Us Through This Journey

As many of you know, Jason was recently diagnosed with stage four stomach cancer. If you'd like to support him and this podcast financially, you can donate using this link. All gifts are tax-deductible. Learn more at settledco.com/jason.

Donate

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX

Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below.

This week, we dive deep into the concept of interdependence versus independence, particularly in the context of childlikeness. We explore what it truly means to have community and the importance of recognizing who’s around us and why that matters. It’s all about understanding our needs and how they connect us to others, as we reflect on the beauty of being able to express those needs like children do. We unpack the idea that while independence is often celebrated, it can lead to isolation, whereas interdependence fosters genuine connections and healing. Join us as we navigate these themes, drawing on personal experiences and scripture, to highlight the power of community in our lives.

Resources:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026

For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Settled Design Course

Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session

Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco

Connect with us:

Website - https://settledco.com

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/

Takeaways:

1. In this episode, we explored the essential concept of interdependence and how it contrasts with independence, highlighting the need for community support.
2. We discussed the importance of maintaining childlikeness in our relationships, understanding that it's not about being childish, but rather embracing our needs.
3. It's crucial to recognize our own needs, as adults often struggle to express them due to societal pressures or past experiences.
4. The podcast emphasized that vulnerability in asking for help is a strength, allowing us to grow in our relationships and deepen our community connections.
5. We reflected on the biblical perspective of bearing one another's burdens, which reminds us that we need each other to navigate life’s challenges.
6. Finally, we touched on how emotional awareness can guide us in understanding our needs, leading to healthier connections with others.

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Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Journey

This FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.

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Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX

Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below.