Settled

Today, we dive into the transformative practice of meditation and contemplation, exploring how these moments of silence can help us truly hear God. This episode wraps up our series on connecting with God not through words, but through stillness and presence. We’ll discuss how stepping away from the noise of daily life allows us to be present with ourselves and with God, and help dispel the pressures we feel to constantly be productive. From personal anecdotes about our kids to sharing our favorite contemplation techniques, we aim to make this practice accessible and inviting. So grab a candle or find a quiet spot, and let’s explore how simply being can be an act of worship and a path to deeper connection.

Resources:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026

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Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Settled Design Course

Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session

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LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/

Takeaways:

• Meditation and contemplation allow us to hear God by embracing silence and stillness.
• Practicing presence with both God and ourselves is essential for spiritual growth.
• Our identity shouldn't be tied solely to productivity; being is just as important as doing.
• Creating intentional quiet moments can lead to profound experiences of God's presence and love.
• We often confuse maturity with productivity, missing the value of simply being present.
• Engaging in practices like lighting a candle can help cultivate a quiet, reflective space for prayer.

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Supporting Us Through This Journey

As many of you know, Jason was recently diagnosed with stage four stomach cancer. If you'd like to support him and this podcast financially, you can donate using this link. All gifts are tax-deductible. Learn more at settledco.com/jason.

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Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX

Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below.

Today, we're diving into the profound topic of being known as a friend of God. It’s not just about knowing Him; it’s about the incredible reality that He knows us deeply and intimately. We explore different dimensions of knowing God—cognitive, emotional, and even that profound intimacy likened to a marriage. Along the way, we share personal stories about our struggles with anxiety and how vulnerability opened the door to experiencing God’s presence in those moments. Join us as we unpack what it truly means to invite God into our lives and be seen by Him in our rawest, most honest states.

Resources:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026

For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Settled Design Course

Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session

Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco

Connect with us:

Website - https://settledco.com

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/

Takeaways:

• We discussed the importance of being known by God, which goes beyond mere cognitive understanding.
• The episode explored the idea that vulnerability allows us to experience God's presence intimately.
• We shared personal stories about panic attacks and how surrendering brought peace and connection with God.
• The conversation highlighted how knowing God involves emotional and intimate dimensions, not just intellectual knowledge.
• Friendship with God means engaging in curiosity and asking fun questions about our relationship with Him.
• We emphasized that God's invitation to be known is essential for experiencing true peace and hope.

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Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Journey

This FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.

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Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX

Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below.

Today, we're diving into a conversation about finding a safe place with God, a concept that can transform how we hear Him. We explore the idea that feeling safe is a core human need, and when we don’t feel safe, we tend to hide or put on facades instead of bringing our true selves to the table. With insights drawn from Scripture, we highlight that God serves as our strong tower, providing refuge and safety in His presence. We also discuss how to use the eyes of our heart to discover new truths about ourselves through contemplation and reflection, fostering a more intimate connection with God. Join us as we guide you through exercises to visualize your safe place and invite you to see yourself through the lens of divine love and safety.

Resources:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026

For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Settled Design Course

Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session

Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco

Connect with us:

Website - https://settledco.com

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/

Takeaways:

• In this episode, we explore the profound concept of finding a safe place with God, emphasizing that safety is a fundamental human need that influences how we engage in relationships and with ourselves.
• We discuss how our internal judgments can hinder our ability to sit comfortably with ourselves, which is crucial when seeking to hear God more clearly.
• The idea of practicing the presence of both God and ourselves is highlighted, helping us to feel safe enough to explore our thoughts and emotions without judgment.
• We encourage listeners to visualize their 'safe place' during meditation, understanding that God knows what we need to feel secure and will guide us there.
• Throughout the podcast, we share personal anecdotes about how engaging with our imagination in safe spaces can lead to deeper revelations about our identity in Christ.
• Finally, we emphasize that our ability to hear God can be enhanced when we feel safe, allowing us to present our true selves and receive His guidance more freely.

Mentioned in this episode:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX

Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below.

We're diving deep into the art of asking, seeking, and knocking—yes, it's not just a catchy phrase; it's a lifeline for hearing God in our lives! In this episode, we explore how persistence in our prayers and desires not only aligns us with God but also reflects our inner longings and truths. We'll unpack the importance of using our words, our eyes, and our bodies in this process, illustrating how each action plays a vital role in our relationship with God. Together, we’ll reaffirm that this journey is about discovering ourselves in Christ, recognizing that the knocking isn't just about us inviting Him in; it’s about Him inviting us to see who we truly are. So grab your metaphorical door knocker, and let’s get ready to explore how to engage more fully with the One who is always knocking at our hearts!

Resources:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026

For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Settled Design Course

Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session

Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco

Connect with us:

Website - https://settledco.com

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/

Takeaways:

• Hearing God involves asking, seeking, and knocking persistently, not just once.
• Our approach to God should be about relationship, not obligation or striving to earn favor.
• Understanding our true identity in Christ is crucial for effective communication with God.
• Persistence in prayer reflects our genuine desire for connection with God and self-discovery.
• We can hear God through various senses; it's not limited to just what we hear.
• Asking God about our identity can transform our understanding of what we truly need.

Mentioned in this episode:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX

Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below.

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Journey

This FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.

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Today, we’re diving deep into the concept of attunement and how it relates to hearing God. We’re exploring the idea that genuine connection with others—and with God—hinges on being seen, heard, and understood. Through some relatable stories, like a mom's response to her daughter’s mishap with a new pair of jeans, we’ll illustrate how attunement can transform our relationships and interactions. We’ll also unpack how God is perpetually attuned to us, inviting us to mirror that same understanding and connection in our own lives. So whether you’re feeling frustrated, joyful, or anything in between, this episode is about recognizing that you are not alone in your emotions, and that there’s a loving presence ready to meet you right where you are.

Resources:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026

For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Settled Design Course

Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session

Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco

Connect with us:

Website - https://settledco.com

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/

Takeaways:

• We learned that humor can be a powerful tool in communication and connection.
• It's essential to embrace vulnerability in our conversations to foster deeper relationships.
• Our experiences shape our perspectives, and sharing those can help others feel less alone.
• We discussed the importance of active listening and how it can transform dialogues.
• Finding common ground can lead to more meaningful discussions, even in disagreement.
• We emphasized that laughter is a universal language that can bridge gaps between people.

Mentioned in this episode:

Supporting Us Through This Journey

As many of you know, Jason was recently diagnosed with stage four stomach cancer. If you'd like to support him and this podcast financially, you can donate using this link. All gifts are tax-deductible. Learn more at settledco.com/jason.

Donate

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX

Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below.

Today, we're diving into a thought-provoking discussion about how you don't actually need faith to hear God. I know, it sounds a bit wild, right? But it’s true! This episode really unpacks the idea that as children of God, we are inherently designed to hear Him without the pressure of mustering up faith first. We’re here to help you settle into the reality that you’re perfectly made to tune into His voice. Join us as we explore what it means to rest in that truth and stop striving, because hearing God is about relationship, not performance. Plus, we’ll share some personal insights and practical coaching tips to help you engage in this beautiful connection with the divine.

Resources:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026

For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Settled Design Course

Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session

Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco

Connect with us:

Website - https://settledco.com

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/

Takeaways:

• You don't need to have faith to hear God; hearing is inherent to being His child.
• Resting in our ability to hear God allows us to stop striving for faith.
• The act of listening is not about producing faith, but rather relaxing into God's presence.
• We are designed to hear God without needing to muster up faith ourselves.
• Faith comes from hearing, and by simply listening, we receive the faith we need.
• The metaphor of sheep and shepherd illustrates our natural ability to recognize God's voice.

Mentioned in this episode:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX

Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below.

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Journey

This FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Today, we dive into the profound topic of hearing God, a conversation that challenges the notion that only the spiritual elite can tap into divine communication. We explore the idea that the language of God is not just a set of words but the very fabric of reality itself. In our discussion, we share personal experiences that illustrate how God speaks to us through peace, intuition, and even our emotions, emphasizing that hearing Him can take many forms beyond the traditional understanding. We reflect on how our upbringing and societal influences shape our perceptions of God and reality, inviting listeners to consider surrendering their limited views for a broader, divine perspective. Join us as we embrace the journey of discovering how God communicates in our lives, offering tools to help us tune into His voice in a way that feels personal and tangible.

Resources:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026

For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Settled Design Course

Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session

Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco

Connect with us:

Website - https://settledco.com

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/

Takeaways:

• In this episode, we discuss the importance of hearing God and how our perception can shape our reality, emphasizing that God speaks in the language of reality.
• We explore the concept that hearing God is not just about words, but also involves intuition, emotions, and the embodied experience of our relationship with Him.
• Understanding that God is love, hope, and peace means recognizing that these virtues are not merely gifts, but are intrinsically part of His nature and reality.
• The podcast encourages listeners to surrender their perceived realities to God's ultimate reality, which is essential for personal transformation and growth.
• We highlight the significance of perspective in understanding our lives and the people around us, suggesting that God often invites us to see things differently.
• Lastly, we emphasize that our experiences, emotions, and even our imaginations can be valid ways to hear God, challenging the notion that divine communication is strictly verbal.

Mentioned in this episode:

Supporting Us Through This Journey

As many of you know, Jason was recently diagnosed with stage four stomach cancer. If you'd like to support him and this podcast financially, you can donate using this link. All gifts are tax-deductible. Learn more at settledco.com/jason.

Donate

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX

Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below.

Today, we’re unpacking the profound topic of original design and what it means to be found in Christ before the very foundations of the earth were laid. It's a refreshing perspective that shifts the narrative away from original sin and towards the beautiful truth of our original innocence in Him. We dive deep into how our identity isn’t defined by our mistakes but rather by our inherent value as individuals chosen by God. With humor and heartfelt honesty, we explore the idea of seeing ourselves through the lens of grace rather than guilt, inviting a transformative perspective that can change how we live and interact with the world. Join us as we navigate these themes and encourage each other to embrace the reality of being found in Christ, discovering the impact of this truth on our everyday lives.

Resources:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026

For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Settled Design Course

Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session

Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco

Connect with us:

Website - https://settledco.com

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/

Takeaways:

• The discussion centers around our origin in Christ, emphasizing that we were chosen in Him before the foundation of the world, not defined by sin.
• C.S. Lewis's view on time is highlighted, explaining how God transcends our linear understanding, seeing all time as one continuous moment.
• The podcast encourages listeners to embrace their original innocence, moving beyond the narrative of original sin to understand their identity in Christ.
• A significant focus is placed on the idea of partnership with God, exploring the concept of 'usness' in our relationship with Him and how we can interact with His will in our lives.
• Listeners are reminded that God is never far from us, confronting the lie of separation and inviting us to recognize His closeness in every aspect of our lives.
• Ultimately, the conversation invites a perspective shift, encouraging us to see ourselves as reconciled beings in Christ, moving towards spiritual maturity and the true essence of our identity.

Mentioned in this episode:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX

Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below.

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Journey

This FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

We're diving into a pivotal discussion about our original design, focusing on the theme of being "naked and unashamed." This episode tackles the concept of shame and how it impacts our lives, encouraging us to identify the areas where we feel exposed and the voices that have influenced our self-perception. We reflect on the Genesis narrative, emphasizing that before the fall, humanity was created to live in openness and vulnerability, fully embraced by God's presence. Through personal stories and insights, we explore the transformative journey of relinquishing shame and occupying our true identities in Christ. Ultimately, we aim to illuminate the path toward healing and authenticity, inviting listeners to engage with their own narratives and discover the freedom that comes from living without shame.

Resources:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026

For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Settled Design Course

Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session

Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco

Connect with us:

Website - https://settledco.com

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/

Takeaways:

• In this episode, we explore the concept of being naked and unashamed, which dives deep into our original design as humans created in the image of God.
• We discuss how shame can manifest in our lives, often leading us to cover up our true selves with metaphorical fig leaves, and the importance of identifying these areas.
• The conversation highlights the significance of asking ourselves 'who told you that?' to understand the lies we believe and where they come from.
• We emphasize that God invites us into a safe space where we can explore our shame and find healing through His truth and love.
• As we reflect on the Genesis narrative, we recognize that our identity in Christ is rooted in being unashamed, reminding us of our worth and value.
• The episode encourages us to live out our true selves without fear of judgment, embracing vulnerability as a pathway to authentic community and connection.

Links referenced in this episode:

• bibleproject.com

Mentioned in this episode:

Supporting Us Through This Journey

As many of you know, Jason was recently diagnosed with stage four stomach cancer. If you'd like to support him and this podcast financially, you can donate using this link. All gifts are tax-deductible. Learn more at settledco.com/jason.

Donate

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX

Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below.

Today, we’re diving into a fascinating exploration of our original design as we unpack the significance of the two trees in the Garden of Eden. The central theme revolves around understanding the choice between the Tree of Life and the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil, and how this choice impacts our spiritual journey. We’ll help you discern which tree you might be drawing from in your own life, and share insights from years of personal and ministry experiences that have transformed countless lives. Our goal is to empower you to live from the Tree of Life, embracing a source of life that leads to true fulfillment rather than the confusion of self-sourcing that often leads to insecurity and striving. Join us as we navigate these profound concepts and invite you to reflect on where you’re finding your sustenance in life.

Resources:

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026

For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Settled Design Course

Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session

Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco

Connect with us:

Website - https://settledco.com

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/

Takeaways:

• In today's episode, we explored the profound narrative of the two trees in the Garden of Eden, emphasizing how they symbolize our choices between life and death.
• We discussed the importance of discerning whether we are sourcing our lives from the Tree of Life or the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil.
• After years of ministry and personal growth, we've witnessed countless transformations by encouraging individuals to choose life over knowledge that leads to insecurity.
• It's essential to understand that while knowledge can be good, it should never become our primary source of identity or fulfillment, as it can lead us away from true life.

Mentioned in this episode:

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Journey

This FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within.

Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX

Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below.