Sex at Every Size

Sex at Every Size

By Cassie Willnauer and Hailey RauschEducation
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Sex at Every Size episodes

  • Doubling Down

    In This Week in Pop-Culture we’re breaking down how two different celebrities handle being asked to do better. Both Lizzo and Bette Midler have had a misstep recently and we talk about how each of these were handled differently and who did it well. 

    Our listener question this week is about how to navigate living in “the lifestyle” with adult children who may or may not cross paths with you and also tiptoes into a discussion on various kinds of consent. 

    Then we have wins of the week! We’re still feeling a little bit heavy about the Supreme Court being supremely shitty, so Cassie takes this segment as an opportunity to further discuss “cancel culture” vs “call-out culture” and how we can make change as society without getting stuck in this constant battle to shame one another for advocating for that change in different ways.

    Patreon is now live! Become a patron at patreon.com/sexateverysize



    Links for Resources:

    Lizzo

    Lizzo Ableist Lyric Apology

    Bette Midler 

    Bette Midler Transphobic "Apology"

    Joy Behar

    https://www.google.com/search?client=firefox-b-1-d&q=joy+behar 

    Patreon:

    https://www.patreon.com/sexateverysize 


    IG: @sexateverysize

    Email: [email protected]

    Cassie:

    IG & TikTok: @CassieWillnauerLCPC


    About the hosts:

    Cassie Willnauer, MA, LCPC, NCC

    Cassie Willnauer is a licensed therapist serving the Kansas City area. She specializes in working with clients on issues of body image, sex, and sexuality. She's done training in perinatal mental health and practices from the Health at Every Size Model. She's currently working towards a PhD in Clinical Sexology where she will become a Certified Sex Therapist & contribute to the field by investigating the intersection of fatphobia and sexuality. 

    Hailey Rausch, MS, RDN

    Hailey Rausch is a Registered Dietitian with experience in a variety of settings including clinical nutrition counseling for patients with Diabetes, diabetes during pregnancy, as well as acute and long-term care residents in skilled nursing facilities. 

    IG: @sexateverysize

    Email: [email protected]

    Cassie:
    IG & TikTok: @CassieWillnauerLCPC

    About the hosts:

    Cassie Willnauer, MA, LCPC, NCC

    Cassie Willnauer is a licensed therapist serving the Kansas City area. She specializes in working with clients on issues of body image, sex, and sexuality. She's done training in perinatal mental health and practices from the Health at Every Size Model. She's currently working towards a PhD in Clinical Sexology where she will become a Certified Sex Therapist & contribute to the field by investigating the intersection of fatphobia and sexuality.

    Hailey Rausch, MS, RDN

    Hailey Rausch is a Registered Dietitian with experience in a variety of settings including clinical nutrition counseling for patients with Diabetes, diabetes during pregnancy, as well as acute and long-term care residents in skilled nursing facilities.

    Music: https://www.purple-planet.com

    43 min
  • We Found™ Lies

    This week we’re sick of articles about celebrities abdominals, so we’re breaking down a shitty new fad diet so you don’t get duped by it! We go over their faulty logic and sketchy claims as well as their co-opting of anti-diet language and inclusive imagery in order to trick you into thinking it’s not really a diet. 

    Our listener question this week is about helping a male partner feel more excited about your sex life. We talk about how to prioritize your sex life in a long term relationship and how each partner has to take ownership of the sex life you share. 

    Tangents include: losing our credibility by not understanding the size and appropriate unit of measurement for a mouse and how to raise our kids to have a healthy relationship with sexuality. 

    Then we have wins of the week! Except this week there are no wins because we recorded this after Roe V Wade was overturned and female sexuality is being controlled and stigmatized all around. 

    Patreon is now live! Become a patron at patreon.com/sexateverysize


    Episode highlights:

    “Hey it’s not your fault, but here’s a bunch of shit for you to do anyway.”


    Links for Resources:

    Link to my Google docs with letter templates for writing to your congresspeople:

    Contacting Congresspeople

    Patreon:

    https://www.patreon.com/sexateverysize 

    IG: @sexateverysize

    Email: [email protected]

    Cassie:

    IG & TikTok: @CassieWillnauerLCPC


    About the hosts:

    Cassie Willnauer, MA, LCPC, NCC

    Cassie Willnauer is a licensed therapist serving the Kansas City area. She specializes in working with clients on issues of body image, sex, and sexuality. She's done training in perinatal mental health and practices from the Health at Every Size Model. She's currently working towards a PhD in Clinical Sexology where she will become a Certified Sex Therapist & contribute to the field by investigating the intersection of fatphobia and sexuality. 

    Hailey Rausch, MS, RDN

    Hailey Rausch is a Registered Dietitian with experience in a variety of settings including clinical nutrition counseling for patients with Diabetes, diabetes during pregnancy, as well as acute and long-term care residents in skilled nursing facilities. 

    IG: @sexateverysize

    Email: [email protected]

    Cassie:
    IG & TikTok: @CassieWillnauerLCPC

    About the hosts:

    Cassie Willnauer, MA, LCPC, NCC

    Cassie Willnauer is a licensed therapist serving the Kansas City area. She specializes in working with clients on issues of body image, sex, and sexuality. She's done training in perinatal mental health and practices from the Health at Every Size Model. She's currently working towards a PhD in Clinical Sexology where she will become a Certified Sex Therapist & contribute to the field by investigating the intersection of fatphobia and sexuality.

    Hailey Rausch, MS, RDN

    Hailey Rausch is a Registered Dietitian with experience in a variety of settings including clinical nutrition counseling for patients with Diabetes, diabetes during pregnancy, as well as acute and long-term care residents in skilled nursing facilities.

    Music: https://www.purple-planet.com

    44 min
  • Influenced

    This week we’re introducing a new segment called We Read the Comments So You Don’t Have To! We came across a Yahoo article about Sarah Nicole Landry of The Birds Papaya and went down the rabbit hole of reading the comments. We break down a couple of comments and find the cultural/societal/social constructs that are embedded within them. 

    Our listener question this week is about having a new partner who’s not into post-sex snuggling. We talk about logistics and communication around this issue as well as compromising to get needs met within relationships.

    Then we have wins of the week! Hailey’s friend mentioned wanting to lose weight and she brushed right past it in avoidance but her partner handled it like a real anti-diet champ! Cassie’s win is about the Patreon perk stickers we ordered! Go to our Patreon page or her Instagram to take a peek and get your own!

    Patreon is now live! Become a patron at patreon.com/sexateverysize


    Episode highlights:

    “Some people might not even feel comfortable touching that part of their bodies.”

    “If you actually wanted people to be more healthy, you would stop trolling them for being fat.”

    “We live in a world where we don’t make it comfortable for a fat person to exercise.”


    Links for Resources:

    Sarah Nicole Landry 

    Patreon:

    https://www.patreon.com/sexateverysize 

    IG: @sexateverysize

    Email: [email protected]

    Cassie:

    IG & TikTok: @CassieWillnauerLCPC


    About the hosts:

    Cassie Willnauer, MA, LCPC, NCC

    Cassie Willnauer is a licensed therapist serving the Kansas City area. She specializes in working with clients on issues of body image, sex, and sexuality. She's done training in perinatal mental health and practices from the Health at Every Size Model. She's currently working towards a PhD in Clinical Sexology where she will become a Certified Sex Therapist & contribute to the field by investigating the intersection of fatphobia and sexuality. 

    Hailey Rausch, MS, RDN

    Hailey Rausch is a Registered Dietitian with experience in a variety of settings including clinical nutrition counseling for patients with Diabetes, diabetes during pregnancy, as well as acute and long-term care residents in skilled nursing facilities. 

    IG: @sexateverysize

    Email: [email protected]

    Cassie:
    IG & TikTok: @CassieWillnauerLCPC

    About the hosts:

    Cassie Willnauer, MA, LCPC, NCC

    Cassie Willnauer is a licensed therapist serving the Kansas City area. She specializes in working with clients on issues of body image, sex, and sexuality. She's done training in perinatal mental health and practices from the Health at Every Size Model. She's currently working towards a PhD in Clinical Sexology where she will become a Certified Sex Therapist & contribute to the field by investigating the intersection of fatphobia and sexuality.

    Hailey Rausch, MS, RDN

    Hailey Rausch is a Registered Dietitian with experience in a variety of settings including clinical nutrition counseling for patients with Diabetes, diabetes during pregnancy, as well as acute and long-term care residents in skilled nursing facilities.

    Music: https://www.purple-planet.com

    37 min
  • I Want Passion!

    This week Hailey’s telling us a story about her work as a registered dietician where she was asked to perpetuate fatphobia and how she managed the situation without having to do that! We also talk about James Patterson’s recent reverse racism yikes moment. 

    Our listener question this week is talking about if and when it’s ever okay to get divorced over an unsatisfying sex life. It turns into a conversation about being loved the way you want to be loved. We talk about how people can really misinterpret the needs of their partners in order to feel loved.

    Then we have wins of the week! Cassie just found out about the new Disney movie Lightyear! We talk a little about feeling grateful that one of our favorite classics is trying to do the right thing by bringing diversity to the casting and storylines. 

    Tangents include: Book-Twitter takes a crappy moment and makes it funny, Gweneth Paltrow pops up again, and the definition of a core vs. side tangent. 

    Patreon is now live! Become a patron at patreon.com/sexateverysize


    Episode highlights:

    “If you’ve lived that long, it’s not a fucking mystery to you what your body looks like!” 

    “It’s a tangent always on the side?”

    Links for Resources:

    James Patterson Whoopsie 


    Patreon:

    https://www.patreon.com/sexateverysize 

    IG: @sexateverysize

    Email: [email protected]

    Cassie:

    IG & TikTok: @CassieWillnauerLCPC


    About the hosts:

    Cassie Willnauer, MA, LCPC, NCC

    Cassie Willnauer is a licensed therapist serving the Kansas City area. She specializes in working with clients on issues of body image, sex, and sexuality. She's done training in perinatal mental health and practices from the Health at Every Size Model. She's currently working towards a PhD in Clinical Sexology where she will become a Certified Sex Therapist & contribute to the field by investigating the intersection of fatphobia and sexuality. 

    Hailey Rausch, MS, RDN

    Hailey Rausch is a Registered Dietitian with experience in a variety of settings including clinical nutrition counseling for patients with Diabetes, diabetes during pregnancy, as well as acute and long-term care residents in skilled nursing facilities. 

    IG: @sexateverysize

    Email: [email protected]

    Cassie:
    IG & TikTok: @CassieWillnauerLCPC

    About the hosts:

    Cassie Willnauer, MA, LCPC, NCC

    Cassie Willnauer is a licensed therapist serving the Kansas City area. She specializes in working with clients on issues of body image, sex, and sexuality. She's done training in perinatal mental health and practices from the Health at Every Size Model. She's currently working towards a PhD in Clinical Sexology where she will become a Certified Sex Therapist & contribute to the field by investigating the intersection of fatphobia and sexuality.

    Hailey Rausch, MS, RDN

    Hailey Rausch is a Registered Dietitian with experience in a variety of settings including clinical nutrition counseling for patients with Diabetes, diabetes during pregnancy, as well as acute and long-term care residents in skilled nursing facilities.

    Music: https://www.purple-planet.com

    38 min
  • Any Sex is Better Than No Sex

    This week Hailey’s asking Cassie about childhood sexual development which turns into a great discussion on not equating pleasure to orgasms only. 

    Our listener question this week is about neurodivergence, fat sex, and long-term partnerships with mismatched desire. Check out the links below for some resources to improving sex in fat bodies. We also talk a lot about how to find a sex therapist for you. 

    Then we have wins of the week! Hailey’s is about learning how to communicate really well and Cassie’s is about a woman winning a court case holding her sexual partner accountable through his car insurance for knowingly infecting her with HPV. 

    Tangents include: How to find a sex therapist. Improving your sex life on your own even if you’re in a relationship. 

    Patreon is now live! Become a patron at patreon.com/sexateverysize


    Episode highlights:

    “I’m just the kind of a person that gets really excited anytime you can stick it to an insurance company.” 


    Links for Resources:

    Accessibly Sex Devices:

    Extra Long Handled Vibrator 

    Penis Sleeve/Extenders

    Wedge Pillow 


    Patreon:

    https://www.patreon.com/sexateverysize 


    IG: @sexateverysize

    Email: [email protected]

    Cassie:

    IG & TikTok: @CassieWillnauerLCPC


    About the hosts:

    Cassie Willnauer, MA, LCPC, NCC

    Cassie Willnauer is a licensed therapist serving the Kansas City area. She specializes in working with clients on issues of body image, sex, and sexuality. She's done training in perinatal mental health and practices from the Health at Every Size Model. She's currently working towards a PhD in Clinical Sexology whe

    IG: @sexateverysize

    Email: [email protected]

    Cassie:
    IG & TikTok: @CassieWillnauerLCPC

    About the hosts:

    Cassie Willnauer, MA, LCPC, NCC

    Cassie Willnauer is a licensed therapist serving the Kansas City area. She specializes in working with clients on issues of body image, sex, and sexuality. She's done training in perinatal mental health and practices from the Health at Every Size Model. She's currently working towards a PhD in Clinical Sexology where she will become a Certified Sex Therapist & contribute to the field by investigating the intersection of fatphobia and sexuality.

    Hailey Rausch, MS, RDN

    Hailey Rausch is a Registered Dietitian with experience in a variety of settings including clinical nutrition counseling for patients with Diabetes, diabetes during pregnancy, as well as acute and long-term care residents in skilled nursing facilities.

    Music: https://www.purple-planet.com

    43 min
  • Swallow That

    There’s a new Top Gun movie and we have thoughts.. starting with the fact that we have no idea what the theme, setting, or plot of this movie is. We talk about how the original female love-interest has been swapped for another actress and the cultural implications of this casting decision. 

    Our listener question this week is about carrying the mental load in long term relationships, obligatory sex, and we even give a few pro-tips on giving oral sex to a penis owning partner!  

    Then we have wins of the week! Cassie’s win this week is about her kid’s foul mouth again. Hailey’s win is about feeding a toddler without all the food weirdness we got as kids. 

    Tangents include: Rant about Tom Cruise and the proper way to fold towels. Also an unintentional oral sex pun. 

    Patreon is now live! Become a patron at patreon.com/sexateverysize


    Episode highlights:

    “It’s not a great face.” 

    “If that’s the case, yeah your jaw does hurt.”

    “That’s how I talk about getting an oil change.”

    “That wasn’t intentional..”


    Links for Resources:

    Top Gun Maverick:

    https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/why-kelly-mcgillis-isn-t-174010220.html

    https://money.yahoo.com/why-tom-cruises-love-interest-213851071.html


    Patreon:

    https://www.patreon.com/sexateverysize 


    IG: @sexateverysize

    Email: [email protected]


    Cassie:

    IG & TikTok: @CassieWillnauerLCPC


    About the hosts:

    Cassie Willnauer, MA, LCPC, NCC

    Cassie Willnauer is a licensed therapist serving the Kansas City area. She specializes in working with clients on issues of body image, sex, and sexuality. She's done training in perinatal mental health and practices from the Health at Every Size Model. She's currently working towards a PhD in Clinical Sexology where she will become a Certified Sex Therapist & contribute to the field by investigating the intersection of fatphobia and sexuality. 

    Hailey Rausch, MS, RDN

    Hailey Rausch is a Registered Dietitian with experience in a variety of settings including clinical nutrition counseling for patients with Diabetes, diabetes during pregnancy, as well as acute and long-term care residents in skilled nursing facilities. 


    Music: https://www.purple-planet.com

    IG: @sexateverysize

    Email: [email protected]

    Cassie:
    IG & TikTok: @CassieWillnauerLCPC

    About the hosts:

    Cassie Willnauer, MA, LCPC, NCC

    Cassie Willnauer is a licensed therapist serving the Kansas City area. She specializes in working with clients on issues of body image, sex, and sexuality. She's done training in perinatal mental health and practices from the Health at Every Size Model. She's currently working towards a PhD in Clinical Sexology where she will become a Certified Sex Therapist & contribute to the field by investigating the intersection of fatphobia and sexuality.

    Hailey Rausch, MS, RDN

    Hailey Rausch is a Registered Dietitian with experience in a variety of settings including clinical nutrition counseling for patients with Diabetes, diabetes during pregnancy, as well as acute and long-term care residents in skilled nursing facilities.

    Music: https://www.purple-planet.com

    42 min
  • Follow the Pleasure

    This week we remind Hailey that Jessica Simpson is still a thing! Jessica Simpson has been making waves on Instagram over some saucy photos of her body. We point out the ways in which her trainer’s plan is a repackaging of Health at Every Size in order to perpetuate diet culture. 

    Our listener question this week is about being afraid of sex. 

    Then we have wins of the week! Cassie’s win this week is about going to Physical Therapy and Hailey signed up for a half-marathon!

    Tangents include: The impact of faith on sexuality, capitalism and productivity culture, the importance of community and human connection. 

    Our Patreon page is also live now! We would love the support!


    Episode highlights:

    “Why is it always centered around your thinness?” 

    “We’re not attacking the person.”

    “It’s not a mystery to anyone why bodies are getting larger throughout the lifetime.”

    “Why are we even researching this!?”

    “We’re expected to do more work with no extra time and not enough more money to live in a way that would afford all the things that Jessica Simpson has available to her.”

    “They’d be horrified because we’re wearing pants.”

    “I’m also not a person who believes that you have to leave you faith tradition to have good sex.”


    Links for Resources:

    Jessica Simpson:

    https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/jessica-simpson-zebra-print-swimsuit-170859863.html

    Evident 3 Study:

    Lugones-Sanchez, Cristina; Recio-Rodriguez, Jose I; Agudo-Conde, Cristina; Repiso-Gento, Irene; Adalia, Esther G; et al. Journal of Medical Internet Research; Toronto (Feb 2022): 
    e 30416. DOI:10.2196/30416

    Patreon:

    https://www.patreon.com/sexateverysize 

    IG: @sexateverysize

    Email: [email protected]

    Cassie:

    IG & TikTok: @CassieWillnauerLCPC


    About the hosts:

    Cassie Willnauer, MA, LCPC, NCC

    Cassie Willnauer is a licensed therapist serving the Kansas City area. She specializes in working with clients on issues of body image, sex, and sexuality. She's done training in perinatal mental health and practices from the Health at Every Size Model. She's currently working towards a PhD in Clinical Sexology where she will become a Certified Sex Therapist & contribute to the field by investigating the intersection of fatphobia and sexuality. 

    Hailey Rausch, MS, RDN

    Hailey Rausch is a Registered Dietitian with experience in a variety of settings including clinical nutrition counseling for patients with Diabetes, diabetes during pregnancy, as well as acute and long-term care residents in skilled nursing facilities. 


    Music:

    IG: @sexateverysize

    Email: [email protected]

    Cassie:
    IG & TikTok: @CassieWillnauerLCPC

    About the hosts:

    Cassie Willnauer, MA, LCPC, NCC

    Cassie Willnauer is a licensed therapist serving the Kansas City area. She specializes in working with clients on issues of body image, sex, and sexuality. She's done training in perinatal mental health and practices from the Health at Every Size Model. She's currently working towards a PhD in Clinical Sexology where she will become a Certified Sex Therapist & contribute to the field by investigating the intersection of fatphobia and sexuality.

    Hailey Rausch, MS, RDN

    Hailey Rausch is a Registered Dietitian with experience in a variety of settings including clinical nutrition counseling for patients with Diabetes, diabetes during pregnancy, as well as acute and long-term care residents in skilled nursing facilities.

    Music: https://www.purple-planet.com

    44 min
  • Normal Boob Things

    We are unfortunately talking about Sports Illustrated again! Yumi Nu is one of the cover models for the 2022 swimsuit edition. We talk about the importance of representation and we break down some of the history behind Sports Illustrated and the ripple effect it can have on our culture as a whole. 

    Instead of a listener question this week Cassie is asking Hailey a question about her job as a Registered Dietitian. Hailey goes on to break down how she works as a dietitian without perpetuating diet culture and fatphobia. 

    Cassie crushes Hailey’s win of the week. Cassie got some overalls! Our Patreon page is also live now! We would love the support!

    Episode highlights:

    “Cassie is the mitochondria of this podcast.”

    “I did a deep dive into the Wikipedia page so I’m basically an expert now.”

    “Her leg looks like my leg! My leg has dimples like that!”

    “These women, their boobs, they do normal boob things!”

    “He’s trying to talk about everyone coming after him, when he literally started a shitshow about her.”

    “Mickey Mouse credentialing!”

    “Where do these people get the audacity and then where do they store it all!?”

    “I’m sorry that I crushed your soul and your win of the week.”

    Links for Resources:

    Sports Illustrated:

    Hunter McGrady Sports Illustrated

    Natalie Mariduena Sports Illustrated

    Yumi Nu Sports Illustrated Cover

    Jordan Peterson:

    Maintenance Phase JP Pt. 1

    Maintenance Phase JP Pt. 2  

    Jordan Peterson NY Post 

    Help A Reporter Out:

    HARO 

    Target Ava & Viv Overalls:

    Target Ava & Viv Overalls 


    Patreon:

    IG: @sexateverysize

    Email: [email protected]

    Cassie:
    IG & TikTok: @CassieWillnauerLCPC

    About the hosts:

    Cassie Willnauer, MA, LCPC, NCC

    Cassie Willnauer is a licensed therapist serving the Kansas City area. She specializes in working with clients on issues of body image, sex, and sexuality. She's done training in perinatal mental health and practices from the Health at Every Size Model. She's currently working towards a PhD in Clinical Sexology where she will become a Certified Sex Therapist & contribute to the field by investigating the intersection of fatphobia and sexuality.

    Hailey Rausch, MS, RDN

    Hailey Rausch is a Registered Dietitian with experience in a variety of settings including clinical nutrition counseling for patients with Diabetes, diabetes during pregnancy, as well as acute and long-term care residents in skilled nursing facilities.

    Music: https://www.purple-planet.com

    46 min
  • I Like Bread But I Also Like Cheese

    We’re talking about c-section scars in Sports Illustrated this week. We had a discussion on the importance of representation for all different kinds of bodies in the media.

    Our listener question this week is about insecurity in sexual relationships. We go into the differences in individual sexuality and partnered sexuality. We give some ideas about how to communicate feelings of insecurity without making accusations. We also touch on the concepts of attraction and the role of porn in sexuality. Then we talk about the barriers that can be involved with insecurities and contribute to low desire for partnered sex.  

    Cassie’s win this week is the book Fat & Queer being awarded the “Book for General Audiences” recognition for 2022 from the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists. 


    Episode highlights:

    “Was the interpreter my mother-in-law?”

    “I learned to shave without looking, bitch.”

    “She doesn’t even have the pooch!”

    “Having a baby isn’t an achievement.”

    “If we could just stop promoting this one kind of body as the ideal for sexuality, that would be great.”

    “I don’t think it’s going to leave people being like, ‘wow that’s what I might look like if I have a c-section one day’.”

    “I am having a genital response to this, and I never want to watch this again.”

    “I need the weird.”

    “Why do you have to have boundaries!?”

    “I know that I am in the wrong right now, but–”

    “He doesn’t just have eyeballs when he’s staring at his phone.”

    “I like bread, but I also like cheese”

    “We don’t always need things to be fixed, sometimes you just need validation.”


    Links for Resources:

    Sports Illustrated C-Section Scar Model Photo

    https://news.yahoo.com/sports-illustrated-swimsuit-debuts-first-110423783.html -

    Fat & Queer Anthology:

    https://www.fatandqueer.com/

    IG: @sexateverysize

    Email: [email protected]

    Cassie:

    IG & TikTok: @CassieWillnauerLCPC


    About the hosts:

    Cassie Willnauer, MA, LCPC

    Cassie Willnauer is a licensed therapist serving the Kansas City area. She specializes in working with clients on issues of body image, sex, and sexuality. She's done training in perinatal mental health and practices from the Health at Every Size Model. She's currently working towards a PhD in Clinical Sexology where she will become a Certified Sex Therapist & contribute to the field by investigating the intersection of fatphobia and sexuality. 

    Hailey Rausch, MS, RDN

    Hailey Rausch is a Registered Dietitian with experience in a variety of settings including clinical nutrition counseling for patients

    IG: @sexateverysize

    Email: [email protected]

    Cassie:
    IG & TikTok: @CassieWillnauerLCPC

    About the hosts:

    Cassie Willnauer, MA, LCPC, NCC

    Cassie Willnauer is a licensed therapist serving the Kansas City area. She specializes in working with clients on issues of body image, sex, and sexuality. She's done training in perinatal mental health and practices from the Health at Every Size Model. She's currently working towards a PhD in Clinical Sexology where she will become a Certified Sex Therapist & contribute to the field by investigating the intersection of fatphobia and sexuality.

    Hailey Rausch, MS, RDN

    Hailey Rausch is a Registered Dietitian with experience in a variety of settings including clinical nutrition counseling for patients with Diabetes, diabetes during pregnancy, as well as acute and long-term care residents in skilled nursing facilities.

    Music: https://www.purple-planet.com

    46 min
  • Do You Send Up a Bat Signal?

    This week in fatphobia we’re talking about Kim K’s Met Gala crash diet and Lili Reinhart’s response to it. Then we dive into the episode of Survivor that aired on 5/4/2022. There was a powerful discussion on race that happened in the episode and we felt compelled to share it from our white lady lens in case it might be helpful to you on your anti-racist journey! There are some spoilers mentioned, so if you’re not caught up, skip ahead a bit!

    Our listener question this week is about how to break out of the cycle of what feels like “obligatory sex” in a long term heterosexual relationship. 

    Our win of the week section got hijacked by the Supreme Court’s leaked draft. BUT–don’t despair, Cassie gives some actionable steps you can take to help the situation and ideally feel like you’re not just watching this hell-scape we’re living in go up in smoke entirely. 


    Episode highlights:

    “I kind of like the idea of not using her name.”

    “Does Kim really need anymore going on right now? No. But does she put herself in these situations? Yeah.”

    “We’re asking her to stop with this really harmful diet culture talk 24/7.”

    “She has the right to do these things to her body.”

    “When people are hungry they don’t have the most sound judgment.”

    “It’s very easy to have a heart for someone that is mentally ill so visibly, but that’s not the only issue.”

    “One, ew, can we stop with the virgin thing?”

    “It’s not fucking about you!”

    “My white lady feels”

    “This is about being aware of the way that the world works for people that aren’t like you.”

    “Where’s the fucking fun?”


    Links for Resources:

    Kim K & Lili Reinhart

    https://pagesix.com/2022/05/04/lili-reinhart-slams-kim-kardashian-over-met-gala-2022-diet/

    Find your US Senators:

    https://www.senate.gov/senators/senators-contact.htm

    Find your US Representatives:

    https://www.house.gov/representatives/find-your-representative


    IG: @sexateverysize

    Email: [email protected]


    Cassie:

    IG & TikTok: @CassieWillnauerLCPC


    About the hosts:

    Cassie Willnauer, MA, LCPC

    Cassie Willnauer is a licensed therapist serving the Kansas City area. She specializes in working with clients on issues of body image, sex, and sexuality. She's done training in perinatal mental health and practices from the Health at Every Size Model. She's currently working towards a PhD in Clinical Sexology where she will become a Certified Sex Therapist & contribute to the field by investigating the intersection of fatphobia a

    IG: @sexateverysize

    Email: [email protected]

    Cassie:
    IG & TikTok: @CassieWillnauerLCPC

    About the hosts:

    Cassie Willnauer, MA, LCPC, NCC

    Cassie Willnauer is a licensed therapist serving the Kansas City area. She specializes in working with clients on issues of body image, sex, and sexuality. She's done training in perinatal mental health and practices from the Health at Every Size Model. She's currently working towards a PhD in Clinical Sexology where she will become a Certified Sex Therapist & contribute to the field by investigating the intersection of fatphobia and sexuality.

    Hailey Rausch, MS, RDN

    Hailey Rausch is a Registered Dietitian with experience in a variety of settings including clinical nutrition counseling for patients with Diabetes, diabetes during pregnancy, as well as acute and long-term care residents in skilled nursing facilities.

    Music: https://www.purple-planet.com

    48 min

About Sex at Every Size

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Hi and welcome to Sex At Every Size where two sisters Hailey Rausch and Cassie Willnauer give you all the latest pop culture gafs and answer listener questions about all things body image and…