In this holiday episode, we ask why Halloween leads to the sexualization of professions such as nursing, firefighting, and, most controversial of all– nuns (nunning? nunnery?). Of course, this leads us back to one of our favorite sources; the circles of sexuality. DOWNLOAD here for free. Truth is, Halloween is just one instance of society writing us all a permission slip to dress however we want, so the question really is– what does it look like to give yourself permission to live your life how you actually want to? We encourage you to look at your personal recipe for a good time (ex. Halloween) and apply it to yourself, your dates, & your free time more often. After all, a recipe is only good if you use it.

- The Psychology of Your 20s (H's fav podcast)

- Circles of Sexuality Handout FREE

- Learn more about the PLISSIT Model

- Dr. Jack Morin's book, The Erotic Mind

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Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. 

Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator.

The reality of life is that you have a body. And sometimes, because of a myriad of reasons– ie society, body dysmorphia, etc– there are days where we just hate our bodies. This is truly a universal experience and I hope this episode both equips you with tools to use on those hard days and shows you that you are not alone in this. The conversation today centers around honoring your emotions then making the active decision to help move yourself from a place of disgust with self to a place of appreciation.

RESOURCES

Sonya Renee Taylor the body is not an apology

WinxHealth

Brick App (lock your phone physically)

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Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. 

Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator.

Do you find yourself hating your birthday every year? Maybe you’re used to a heaping sense of disappointment when you allow yourself to anticipate a perfect day that ends up falling short of your unspoken expectations. In this episode, we talk about Lauren’s perfect birthday weekend– celebrating her daughter’s birthday and her own. Lauren gives us her recipe for a perfect birthday– asking for what you want. Then, Holland talks about her most recent disappointing birthday experience that fell short of communicated desires and expectations; proving a relationship was not the right fit. If you’re not yet convinced of how the Wheel of Consent is integrated into every single human experience; this episode may just convince you.

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Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. 

Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator.

Well, when you put your life on a podcast you should expect to be held accountable for your actions. We are not perfect, but we do our best to hold ourselves accountable for our actions and impact. Lauren leads us in a game that encourages the players to define themselves apart from their relationships; guiding us to think about how our values shape the lives we lead. We talk through one of our favorite worksheets that walks you through Accidents vs Violations and steps to repair.

RESOURCES

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Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. 

Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator & Embodied Coach.

Lauren returns from her training-- Like A Pro: The Wheel of Consent with even more wisdom than before. Lauren breaks down the WOC and tells us more about the basic principles of consent.

Seasons of change often bring immense discomfort, including bodily discomfort. Lauren takes us through her weekend of detrimental sickness that led to clarity in decisions to close important chapters and move forward into new opportunities.

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Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. 

Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator.

A conversation centered around the JOY that comes from trusting your own intuition and following through for self. Holland talks about being recognized in public for the first time as well as a recent recognition from a friend. Lauren gives her in depth story about how she came into sexuality education and the internal wisdom she had to follow to find it. 

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Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. 

Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator.

Episode 43 is at its core, about the fact that self-care, in whatever form you most need, is not villainous. I discuss my most recent experience with revoking consent in favor of self-care and Lauren touches on respecting her own needs when others draw on her energy. We also discuss a new modality that Lauren is learning about in her Embodied Coaching Course: MEBES. Love, H

03:30 Consent & Revoking Consent

08:00 Pleasure Cannot Be Given or Received- Dr. Betty Martin

09:30 Be the Villain in Someone Else’s Story

13:20 Meh Means No

16:00 Schedule Space for Sex

18:30 Willing vs Unwilling

22:30 How Did H Cancel Her DC Trip?26:00 H’s Situationship with Clear Boundaries

32:26 MEBES

40:00 Pls Cancel “Hey How Are You”

44:50 Self Care Isn’t Villainous

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Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. 

Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator.

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Follow along as we walk through the process of selecting new values for SEX ED FOR YOU; detailing mine and Lauren’s personal stories of why values are so important to us as business people and just plain ol’ people people. 

Values Blog Post

Sex Ed Prep for Parents 

Find Your Why

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Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. 

Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator.

Looking to expand your own sexuality education? Check out our monthly membership program, HEMLOCK. At only $10 a month you'll have access to the tools you need to begin to reclaim your sexuality for yourself!⁠ (for femme-presenting people only at this time)

Here it is!! The most comprehensive list of all the products, games, and tools we recommend to clients and friends alike. This list will give you everything you need to know about the some of the coolest brands available in the field of sex and sexuality.

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Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. 

Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator.

Looking to expand your own sexuality education? Check out our monthly membership program, HEMLOCK. At only $10 a month you'll have access to the tools you need to begin to reclaim your sexuality for yourself!⁠ (for femme-presenting people only at this time)