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Dating apps. New relationship energy. Getting paid for your time. In this first episode of the Sex Work VS miniseries, I explore how sex work reshaped my expectations of dating, romance, and emotional labor. From valuing my time to filtering partners like my client applicants, I unpack why I still date—and what I refuse to give away for free.
Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
HIGHLIGHTS:
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(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:21) - Sex Work VS Dating
(01:20) - A Changed Dating (App) Landscape, but Similar Motivations?
(02:50) - The Emotional Benefits of Both
(04:50) - How Getting Paid Taught Me About My Value and Gave Me Choice
(06:30) - Why I Still Date (for free); Entertainment and Aesthetic
(08:42) - How I Keep Dating Relevant in a Frivolous Culture
(11:05) - My Dating Application Process
(13:55) - The Disadvantage of Unpaid Dating Labour
(15:15) - Oxytocin, New Relationship Energy and Infatuation
(17:00) - The 'Neatness' of Getting Paid
(17:40) - Wasting My Resource and Being Valued
(20:00) - A Cis-Het Lens Focus, for now
By Dominatrix Eva Oh4.7
3434 ratings
Dating apps. New relationship energy. Getting paid for your time. In this first episode of the Sex Work VS miniseries, I explore how sex work reshaped my expectations of dating, romance, and emotional labor. From valuing my time to filtering partners like my client applicants, I unpack why I still date—and what I refuse to give away for free.
Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh
More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com
HIGHLIGHTS:
Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.
(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:21) - Sex Work VS Dating
(01:20) - A Changed Dating (App) Landscape, but Similar Motivations?
(02:50) - The Emotional Benefits of Both
(04:50) - How Getting Paid Taught Me About My Value and Gave Me Choice
(06:30) - Why I Still Date (for free); Entertainment and Aesthetic
(08:42) - How I Keep Dating Relevant in a Frivolous Culture
(11:05) - My Dating Application Process
(13:55) - The Disadvantage of Unpaid Dating Labour
(15:15) - Oxytocin, New Relationship Energy and Infatuation
(17:00) - The 'Neatness' of Getting Paid
(17:40) - Wasting My Resource and Being Valued
(20:00) - A Cis-Het Lens Focus, for now

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