In this candid and compassionate conversation, Elizabeth Woodson and Yana Conner explore the complexities, beauty, and challenges of Christian singleness. Drawing from their own experiences as single women, they dismantle harmful church messages, unpack common misconceptions, and offer a biblical vision of singleness that is rooted in purpose, dignity, and Shalom. They discuss the emotional realities of longing, grief, and sexual frustration, while emphasizing the spiritual maturity and sanctification that singleness invites—not as a waiting room for marriage, but as a life stage full of God-given agency, calling, and joy.

Elizabeth and Yana also challenge churches to better support single adults through belonging, inclusion, and genuine family, rather than centering marriage as the pinnacle of Christian life. Their message is clear: Shalom—wholeness, peace, and flourishing—is available to singles right now because it flows from connection to Christ, not relationship status. With honesty, humor, and theological depth, this episode offers hope and a fresh imagination for what faithful, flourishing singleness can be.

Key Scriptures:

• Psalm 16:5-8
• Psalm 22:1 
• Psalm 37:4
• John 10:10

Questions Covered In This Episode:

1. What misconceptions or misplaced perspectives about singleness prevent believers from experiencing shalom?
2. How can singles live fully in God’s wholeness without “waiting” for another life stage?
3. How can the church better embody shalom for singles in its community life?
4. Where are you experiencing  longing? 
5. How could your current [single] season be leveraged for unique kingdom impact? 

Recommended Resources:

• Embrace Your Life: How to Find Joy When the Life You Have is Not the Life You Hoped For 
• Living Single with Yana Jenay Podcast

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