This week’s listener question comes from a self-described “Type-A podcast listener girlie” who—financially speaking—is absolutely crushing it.

At 32 years old, she’s earning about $100,000, saving 25% for retirement, and has already built roughly $450,000 in Roth accounts, plus a brokerage account and cash savings. Her partner, the same age, entered the workforce later after earning an advanced degree and currently makes about $60,000 while saving 12%.

They’re planning to get married soon, combine finances, buy a home in the next few years, and maybe even retire early someday.

But here’s the twist.

She’s comfortable with the idea that her early savings created a large portion of their future financial security. Her partner isn’t so sure. Coming from a blue-collar, dual-income household built around pensions and Social Security, he feels uneasy about benefiting from wealth that largely came from her earlier discipline and opportunity.

In other words: When the traditional earning dynamic flips, how do couples navigate the psychology of fairness, partnership, and shared success?