SHE Gets It Pod

Sustaining a relationship falls on two people. Who are willing to drop that pride and ego.

Men and women struggle with this and if you need clarity and you don't have it, work on that asap.

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This is the trickery: I believe women are trained from little girls to want everything good from a man. What the biggest and the best all the time. Weddings in my opinion are overly costly and audacious. Those who like big, elaborate parties and attention probably love them. Personally I never wanted one. I never looked at a wedding dress like " this is what I would want"... I don't even know my ring size. Lowkey me please. Lets spend that green on something else.

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Women do not always think that they're right we just hope that you stop trying to correct us and just let us be. So the pushback that most men get is because you're setting a boundary. A lot of women are not used to men setting boundaries but letting them feel right when they're wrong. I'll tell you more. I just press play.

Sorry, Ladies.

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Its not a diss... Don't be offended, men just want to know if you can recognize a good man or one thats not good for you. Dad's are so essential for women and little girls.

It’s season 24.

Its Chan and SHE Gets It Pod

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Mental abuse with anyone isn't good.

Free yourself and let me be honest... too many get women get away with manipulating men in relationships for their own selfish reasons.

Im talking about it.

It’s season 24.

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Do not beat me up. I'm just a messenger.

I think society has become a leaning " agreed contributor" towards women on most things where it isn't fair. Now as a woman, I'm going to be in the middle of explaining answers to a lot of different men's questions. A lot of men want to have some understanding of why women do what they do, why do they think how they think, and why do they feel how they feel?

Nobody is picking on women, nobody is in favor for everything that men think. But sometimes women make men feel like they can't ask certain things that they should be able to get understanding on. So I chose to create a whole season on questions men have that need answers from a woman's point of view. I don't expect everybody to agree with me, but as a woman, I'm going to answer a lot of questions from my perspective.

I expect a lot of upset people by the season and I'm OK with that because you're free to think how you think. Likewise. I ready...

Today is just the question run down. After this episode I will not be taking in new questions.

It’s season 24.

Its Chan and SHE Gets It Pod

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The Men had questions and I gave answers.

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All friendships aren't forever, if I end one I had a good reason. Those friendships you walk away from... don't look back.

I can't be phony for you. I keep it direct.

I won't ever be okay with anyone being disrespectful so you can stick around.

For what?

Emotionally not being aware, being messy and not caring what connects you ruin because your in ya feelings, is a "you" issue. Your emotions dictate your moods... thats bad biz.

Work on that.

Enjoyed that time. Move on.

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Rest doesn't always mean sleep.

Today would have been my dads 102 b day

Rest could be, no social media, no calls, no emails, no leaving the house and no driving. Go in your back yard, put your feet in grass without shoes.

We are always on the go and rest is always needed in order for us to be our best selves.

Now I'm not saying you cannot sleep or nap... do what ya body needs.

In today’s wild world, where endless tasks seem to never stop, many overlook the value of quality rest. Quality rest goes far beyond just sleeping well at night or taking brief pauses during the day. 

That I talked about:

Declutter Your Space

Is The Place where you rest for comfort ?

There Are Different Types of Rest

• Physical Rest
• Mental / Emotional Rest
• Sensory Rest

Make Restful Routines

Establish a Prepare for Good Rest

Power Naps

Just Be Consistent

Quality Rest Matters To You

Chan & Pods

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This is why I say there is no happy ending.

Press play

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