One thing that I believe women ask for that they don't allow men to have the space for sometimes is honesty. A lot of times if a man gives his honesty is usually not at the right time for women or they're feelings are more important than a man's honesty, and if a man is being honest, they're going to make that moment, not matter as much as they can because of whatever they think.

My thing is if something is not directly affecting you, and someone is asked a question and they give their honest feedback on that question or answer. It is not up to you to decide if his honesty matters or not. And I feel like a lot of women struggle with men giving their honest answer for things. And if we keep putting our feelings in front of a man's honesty, we cannot then turn around and be like why do men lie so much. Most men lie because they don't wanna deal with women's feelings. Most men lie because it's easier to move through than the retaliation of their honesty.

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Choosing peace on a daily. Life requires a certain level of energy to give it back to you.

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Who are you to tell another person what's healthy in a relationship, for them? If your version of healthy isn't working change it. If your relationship is working, both of you are safe, happy and prospering... great... Sometimes the internet will tell you otherwise. Turn off that noise and do you.

What is healthy to you?

If its not working stop acting like its working.

I don't care about fame... I don't make decisions for the internet to agree.

Be good with your thang.

#healthy #thoughtsthatmatter #workoutyourthang

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Every time someone asks you to join something or they want to speak to you about an opportunity... It doesn't mean God was the messenger.

3 Different kinds of Opportunities

1. Additive- in addition to what you need
2. Complementary- its similar to what you already doing
3. Break- through- the opportunity you been waiting for

Pray for discernment...

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Lets be real... this episode was supposed to drop on March 5th but I think with me doing multiple shows I am mixed up the recordings. So I had to re-record this out of my brain instead of for my notes so hopefully I say everything I need to say, but yeah, let’s talk about this anger.

HEYYYYYYYYYY... that's a life lesson.

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This is an answer to BTG for President podcast PSAye... episode. What chapter of life is this for me?

Yeah I'm answering that and celebrating my 7th year of doing this show and growing with all my knowledge. Creators wanna express but there isn't a how log are you gonna do it... time frame... but here I am.

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I got Podfam on the mic today… we talking 90’s times and commercials. I love the 90’s grew up in the most authentic time.

Baylor has episodes on BTG for President reflections of the 90’s… so we in his lane of thinking. I wonder what commercials he got. Check out his episodes: ep310 Chan Be Trippin, ep267 Walkman Talk, ep28790’s Culture Vs. Greg’s Culture and ep 244 90’s and Tings…

Let's hop into it.

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Learn to shut out the nonsense and focus in.

It's okay to not feel motivated some days...but stay focused.

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Sometimes when we're creating, we forget why we're creating. When your podcasting I think people get bored or get lost in the Y when podcasting because you're not improving or you don't have a goal for yourself. In this episode, I basically go through a refresher to ignite your Y. Some things that I have observed with podcasts and why they're falling into the same problems is because they're not evolving in their podcasting.

The artwork doesn't look any better from when you started, the marketing isn't any better for when you started, the audio doesn't sound like you're getting it and you're two years in. So if this is something you feel like you will benefit from listening to please press play if this is something you feel like oh I'm above it and I don't need it. I don't need to hear it. I know what I'm doing. Don't worry about it.

I appreciate all my listeners. I appreciate creators being different from me and this is for those who find themselves in a podcasting funk where you just don't feel like it and as possible that you don't feel like it because you're not switching anything up.

I created books that people can write in and develop their podcasting style in until they're sure of themselves because I was tired of getting the same question over and over again. If you want to get those books, they are available on Chanbepoddin.com in the link section and on lulu.com.

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Do you even know what Emophilia is? I didn't either up until Weds.

I believe a lot of people are outside making irrational life decisions with people who they fall for too quickly... then they turn around and judge a whole sex of people based upon their bad decisions.

You're planning your future with a man you met last night? How Sis?!!!

You want the woman you met two weeks ago to have your baby and she doesn't know your middle name or 2 yr plan as a man?!? Sir !!!

You texted and call them 5 times before they acknowledge you? Nope.

Ummmmm. Let's check on your tolerance meter first.

#discipline #selfrespect #effort #timemanagement

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