Shining Beyond Shy

Meet phenomenal host, Fiona Cutts, and join her on the magical journey and hear how she changed from being paralysed by shyness to shining with exuberance as an international facilitator, empowering others to create a greater life than they ever thought possible.

Description: In this episode, Fiona talks about consistency and commitment, and how committing to something may in itself lead to you becoming resentful.

Key points:

• People will desire to be consistent so as not to stand out; shy people particularly often desire not to stand out
• We are told that having a habit of showing up will create something; actually it is the very act of showing up that creates something
• When you’re in the space, or in the flow, the project you are working on can meet its intended audience with ease
• You can constantly ask questions while doing something, and let the energy guide you

Questions and tools:

If sometimes it feels like you’re rushing through things and you’re not satisfied with it, or you judge yourself for not doing the things you said you would - what if that’s not a problem, what if that’s all OK?

What if you tune in to your project(s) and let it guide your action with ease?

All the energy that talking about this, in this way, brings up for you, will you destroy and uncreate it?

Right and wrong, good and bad, POD and POC, all 9, shorts, boys and beyonds®. Resources:

> Find me

> Joy of Business

> Access Consciousness®

> Access Consciousness Clearing Statement®

Meet phenomenal host, Fiona Cutts, and join her on the magical journey and hear how she changed from being paralysed by shyness to shining with exuberance as an international facilitator, empowering others to create a greater life than they ever thought possible.

Description: In this episode, Fiona takes us from her past experiences of hiding herself away, fearing to be seen and judged for being different to the place of willingness to not be perfect, not censor herself and to allow in other’s judgment when she speaks up, using the tools of Access Consciousness and Right Voice for You. She asks us: what if everybody could confidently enjoy their lives?

Key points:

• Some people won’t like what we say and will judge us for that
• Sometimes we have to be willing to allow whatever comes our way, no matter how uncomfortable that is
• What if we could notice those spaces where the barriers come up and invite ourselves to put our barriers down and be the vulnerability and speak from that space we don’t feel we could speak from?

Tools and questions:

If you find you are censoring yourself, ask these questions: 

Hey, will I put my barriers down? 

If I am being vulnerable here, what would I say? 

Resources:

> Fiona invites you to her free Zoom call: “Speak Up” on 2nd August 2021. (free Zoom call recordings)

> Find me

> Right Voice for You

> Access Consciousness®

Meet phenomenal host, Fiona Cutts, and join her on the magical journey and hear how she changed from being paralysed by shyness to shining with exuberance as an international facilitator, empowering others to create a greater life than they ever thought possible.

Description:

In this episode, Fiona shares with us the journey, that over time, unravelled the awarenesses that allowed her to choose to be different with money and create a totally different life full of ease, joy and glory around money and everything else.

Key points:

• When we are being shy, we may be conforming outwardly with pressures put on us and at the same time, internally resisting and reacting to those making demands on us and creating great unease for ourselves
• Being willing to be different requires a daring confidence, a beyond this reality confidence 

Tools and questions:

Are you willing to make more money than the richest person in your family? All the energy that question brings up, will you destroy and uncreate it. Thank you.

Right and wrong, good and bad, POD and POC, all 9, shorts, boys and beyonds®.

Would you be willing to have ‘problems’ which rich people have?

Are you willing to be so different that you stand out? All the energy that brings up, will you destroy and uncreate it?

Right and wrong, good and bad, POD and POC, all 9, shorts, boys and beyonds®.

Resources:

> Find me

> Business Done Different (5 to 8 August 2021)

> Access Consciousness®

> Access Consciousness Clearing Statement®

Meet phenomenal host, Fiona Cutts, and join her on the magical journey and hear how she changed from being paralysed by shyness to shining with exuberance as an international facilitator, empowering others to create a greater life than they ever thought possible.

Description:

In this episode, Fiona shares her journey from enjoying working abroad for little money to choosing to become an international accountant earning lots of money. When work was only available in the UK, she became very ill and wasn't able to work and experienced money worries for the first time in her life. Then she began to choose differently and created careers that brought not only money but great joy to her life.

Key points:

• When we have shyness in our world, it can be hard to ask for the value of what we are offering
• Some people will be suspicious of us if we are not charging enough; that what we offer isn’t going to give them the change they are looking for

Tools and questions:

What am I willing to value in me?

Can I have the money now, please? (ten times)

Practice and get in the habit of being willing to mention money to your clients. Ask: How would you like to pay for this?

When a client is booking an appointment, ask: Would you like to bring cash on the day or would you like to pay by PayPal or would you like my bank account details or would you like to go to my website where you can pay by card?

What would it be fun for me to charge? And maybe upping it a bit until you feel uncomfortable.

When potential clients are objecting to pay for your service, ask: What’s the kindness to me here?

Resources:

> Find me

> Right Voice for You

> Find my upcoming classes

> Access Consciousness®

Meet phenomenal host, Fiona Cutts, and join her on the magical journey and hear how she changed from being paralysed by shyness to shining with exuberance as an international facilitator, empowering others to create a greater life than they ever thought possible.

Description: In this episode, Fiona shares with us her experiences of shyness dominating and directing her life and the tools she used to create an exponentialisation of her business and her life to be full of fun and joy.

Key points:

• Shyness can dominate our lives even when others believe we’re striving
• Using the tools can become a compass for honouring ourselves and creating our lives beyond shyness

Questions and tools:

What’s true for you makes you feel lighter.

What’s a lie for you, makes you feel heavier.

There needn’t be a reason for why something is light or heavy.

If I choose this, what would my life be like, in five years time?

If I don’t choose this, what will my life be like, in five years time?

You’ll get the sense of the energy. If you don’t get the sense, ask your body and the universe to show you. You will start to get a sense of how your body and the universe communicates to you and tune in to choose what is really true for you, to see the expansion or the contraction.

Resources:

> Find me

> Joy of Business

> Right Voice for You

> Access Business and Money (24 and 25 July 2021)

> Business Done Different (5 to 8 August 2021)

> Access Consciousness®

Meet phenomenal host, Fiona Cutts, and join her on the magical journey and hear how she changed from being paralysed by shyness to shining with exuberance as an international facilitator, empowering others to create a greater life than they ever thought possible.

Description: In this episode, Fiona shares with us her awareness of how we energetically assess someone when meeting them or seeing their picture for the first time which leads to the judgment of ourselves and how we show up, and what different choice we can make.

Key points:

• You may feel that you have to know somebody for a long time in order to be able to reveal yourself or talk to them; What if time wasn’t a factor?
• Who have you decided is better than you? Who are you projecting authority upon? Who have you decided that you “can’t” talk to? What are you not willing to be? 
• What if we can make the demand that we have us?

Tools and questions:

All the energy that talking about this brings up, will you destroy and uncreate it?

Right and wrong, good and bad, POD and POC, all 9, shorts, boys and beyonds®.

Everything you’re doing to divide the world into those people you feel better than and those people you feel worse than, will you destroy and uncreate that?

Right and wrong, good and bad, POD and POC, all 9, shorts, boys and beyonds®.

Resources:

> Find me

> 3 Days Right Voice for You (8 to 11 July 2021)

> Access Consciousness®

> Access Consciousness Clearing Statement®

Meet phenomenal host, Fiona Cutts, and join her on the magical journey and hear how she changed from being paralysed by shyness to shining with exuberance as an international facilitator, empowering others to create a greater life than they ever thought possible.

Description:

In this episode, Fiona talks about how she moved from having to force herself to write, even though she always received praise, to how she now includes herself in her writing and is having way more fun with it!

Key points:

• Our shyness can stop us from expressing ourselves in our writing even if we are ‘natural’ writers
• Judging our writing can end up meaning we have to push ourselves to do it and it being totally not fun

Tools and questions:

Before you start writing, ask:

How much fun can I have writing this?

What words can I use that these people can hear? 

What are my judgments of me as a writer, with my writing? 

And when you get a sense of what these are say:

Everywhere I am creating this, I destroy and uncreate it all.

Right and wrong, good and bad, POD and POC, all 9, shorts, boys and beyonds®.

Resources:

> Find me

> Right Voice for You

> Access Consciousness®

> Access Consciousness Clearing Statement®

> Easy Writer (5 July 2021)

   Fiona’s 2-hour class: where Fiona will facilitate someone live around their writing.

   Sound appealing? Send a piece of your writing to Fiona.

Meet phenomenal host, Fiona Cutts, and join her on the magical journey and hear how she changed from being paralysed by shyness to shining with exuberance as an international facilitator, empowering others to create a greater life than they ever thought possible.

Description: In this episode, Fiona shares with us recent experiences about where she had been living and how acknowledging what she was aware of allowed her to choose more fun, more joy, more happiness and more consciousness.

Key points:

• Being surrounded by loud and noisy people, when we are craving peace and quiet, can feel like an invasion into our space
• Beyond the noise, we can get total downloads of their worlds and this can bring up stuff for us from the past in this lifetime or others
• Acknowledging this awareness can open up spaces where we can choose something different by using the simple tools of Access Consciousness and asking questions 
• How much play are you willing to have? How much fun are you willing to have? 

Tools and questions:

All the places where you’ve been a not nice person and everywhere you’ve been and done not nice things, will you destroy and uncreate it all?

Right and wrong, good and bad, POD and POC, all 9, shorts, boys and beyonds®.

Resources:

> Find me

> Outshine Your Shy

> Right Voice for You

> Business Done Different (24 to 27 June 2021)

> 3 Days Right Voice for You (8 to 11 July 2021)

> Access Consciousness®

> Access Consciousness Clearing Statement®

Meet phenomenal host, Fiona Cutts, and join her on the magical journey and hear how she changed from being paralysed by shyness to shining with exuberance as an international facilitator, empowering others to create a greater life than they ever thought possible.

Description: In this episode Fiona shares with us experiences where she was feeling a lot of intensity and spoke very directly, how she managed what came up for her afterwards and encourages us to be willing to speak from what we know is true for us.

Key points:

• when we are experiencing intensity, we may not able to monitor and control what comes out of our mouths and people may feel hurt by what we have said
• we are not wrong when we speak from what is true for us
• we can still have a level of intensity and directness when it is required while we are monitoring and controlling what comes out of our mouths 

Tools and questions:

What words can I say that this person can hear? Everything that doesn’t allow that, will you destroy and uncreate it all?

Right and wrong, good and bad, POD and POC, all 9, shorts, boys and beyonds®.

Rather than making yourself wrong, celebrate the out of controlness.

Resources:

> Find me

> Outshine Your Shy

> Right Voice for You

> 3 Days Right Voice for You (8 to 11 July 2021)

> Access Consciousness®

> Access Consciousness Clearing Statement®

Do get in touch with Fiona if you have any questions or would like to suggest a topic for a future Podcast.

Meet phenomenal host, Fiona Cutts, and join her on the magical journey and hear how she changed from being paralysed by shyness to shining with exuberance as an international facilitator, empowering others to create a greater life than they ever thought possible.

Description: In this episode, Fiona shares with us an experience where she became aware of what engagement truly is and how much greatness it created for her and others.

Key points:

• we often think of engagement as when we respond to someone’s social media post or we deliberately interact with someone with a result in mind
• true engagement is the way we can create greater, the way we can totally enjoy our lives and be a space where we can invite people to our creations with ease and fun and lightness and joy
• in order to have true engagement, we need to be willing to have our barriers down and be willing to be out there in the world

Tools and questions:

All the energy that comes up when talking about engagement with the result of creating paying clients in your world, will you let go of it, will you destroy and uncreate it?

Thank you. Right and wrong, good and bad, POD and POC, all 9, shorts, boys and beyonds®.

Resources:

> 3 Days Right Voice for You (10 to 13 June 2021)

> Find me

> Access Consciousness®

> Access Consciousness Clearing Statement®