Shit's Hard

We are talking about intuition and what feels best to you. In friendships, relationships and everything in between I think we tend to act on what society tells us to do. But that may not always be the answer. We’re tapping into the logical side of our brain, and cooperating without our emotional side, to come to a conclusion that's optimal for us. Focusing on people who make us feel secure, and shifting our attention away from people who disrupt our sense of security. Let's get into it, because this shit is hard :///

Rooting for yourself is soooooo hard. I'm having trouble being on my side right now. Been feeling a little stuck lately - in my career, mental health, and just overall life. I feel like I cannot get focused :/ let's talk about it!! We’re covering goals for 2024, looking back on 2023, leaving the past in the past and focusing on perspective. Trying to stay optimistic but that shit is hard!!

Ahh yesss the holidays, always a magical time filled with joy! Well not always, I know the holidays aren't easy for everyone and can actually be a pretty stressful, sometimes dreadful, time for some. We’re talking about being home for the holidays, missing someone, and answering those invasive family questions. Whatever is on your mind this holiday season, I’m here for ya. Let’s talk about it, because holidays are for sure hard :/

Okay so, as creatives, we’ve all experienced writer’s block to an extent. Well I’m feeling that today as I write this episode. Tbh I’m feeling unmotivated, uninspired, and all around a little lazy. We’re digging into my solution to writer’s block, procrastinating, and getting myself motivated to get Shit done!! I’ve hacked my writer’s block on this episode by just making an episode about being uninspired hehheheh :) Join me on this one, because this Shit is Harddddd

Happy One Year to Shit’s Hard!! Can’t believe it’s been one whole year since I started this podcast. Thank you to the OGs who’ve been here since the start. I gotta say, I am proud of myself for uploading weekly for one whole year. I committed to myself and I’ve only gotten better. I’ve learned so much in this last year, we’re talking about moving forward, decision fatigue, and recognition. Let me know what passions and projects you’re working on!! I am your number one supporter. Let this episode inspire you to get working on your goals :))

I have been in LA for a little over 1 year now!! We’re talking about my time in LA so far: the things I’ve done, people I’ve met, and places I’ve gone :)) I’m giving the dirty deets of working for an influencer, becoming a personal trainer, and moving on from everyone I came here with. It's truly been a year of growth and change, but I wouldn’t want it anything other way. Thank you LA for the best first year, I am ready for what's to come in year 2. I am home <3

The holidays can be really hard for some people, whether that be because of family issues, distance, money, or just the societal standard of having a perfect white Christmas with matching sweaters! The holidays look different for everyone and for me it feels like the holidays look significantly different every year. This is my 2nd year spending Thanksgiving in Los Angeles, and it’s not so bad. We’re going over spending the holidays alone, the opportunities that come with being alone, and how to get in the holiday spirit if you’re riding solo this season. If you’re having a hard time this holiday season, I’m right there with you. This Holiday shit is really hard ://

Friendships are one of the hardest relationships to maintain… they’re are so many levels of friendships with acquaintances, friends, best friends, and long distance besties. We’re diving in on communication, effort, and energy. All expenses that are not limitless and you have to be cautious who you give these things too!! We’re also going to touch on mistakes and how to not internalize them. And how to bear the uncomfortable accountability that comes up with confrontation and conflict management. Communication and Accountability is key here and I’ll share some personal stories on how this comes up in my life, cause this shit is harddddddd!!!

Being 20 something is deffff hard. We’re getting into white collar jobs, passion vs. contentment, and quality of life!! I have autonomy over my work schedule and my quality of life is insanely better than when I worked a 9-5. We’re touching on hustle culture, fuckin’ around vs. grind time, and getting organized about what we want out of life. After all, it is YOUR journey, and you should do whatever the fuck you want to with YOUR life. This Shit is for sure easier said then done, but let’s talk about it :))

What does the perfect version of you look like? Per the title, I’ve not been doing great mentally, not really feeling like myself. Been wondering what the perfect Amber would do in this situation … WWAD? What would Amber do? lol. So we are chatting about feeling disconnected from your feelings, going back to therapy, and giving yourself credit where it’s due!! We’re reconnecting with ourselves and reaching out for help when we need it, with no shame. And if you don’t know anyone else strugglin, ya got me, I’m right there with ya. Let’s talk about mental health, this Shit really is Hard :))