Shot At Love

This week’s episode of Shot At Love centers on the powerful story and mission of Deborah Griffiths, founder of Bent Not Broken, a platform dedicated to resilience, recovery, and reclaiming personal strength after adversity. Instead of talking about my journey, we shift the focus to Deborah’s—her path, her purpose, and the incredible movement she’s built.

In our conversation, Deborah opens up about the moment her life changed, the challenges that tested her spirit, and the transformative mindset that allowed her not only to survive but to build a community for others who are navigating their own storms. Bent Not Broken offers tools, hope, and a safe landing place for anyone rebuilding their life piece by piece—physically, emotionally, or spiritually.

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This episode is a testament to turning pain into purpose, and Deborah’s energy is a reminder that healing is not linear—but it is possible. If you’ve ever struggled, felt alone, or needed a voice reminding you that you can rise again, this conversation will meet you exactly where you are.

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Dating Decoded: How to Find Real Love, and Succeed on Dating Apps with Julie Lokun

What does modern dating really look like right now—and how do you actually find real love in a world dominated by dating apps, ghosting, and mixed signals?

In this powerful episode of Shot At Love, Kerry Brett steps into the guest seat as she’s interviewed by Julie Lokun, host of the Get Obsessed podcast, for a candid, unfiltered conversation about dating, finding love, and building real connection.

If you’ve ever questioned whether real love still exists, struggled with dating apps, or felt overwhelmed by modern dating challenges, this episode delivers the clarity, strategy, and mindset shifts you’ve been searching for.

Together, Kerry and Julie break down the truth about modern dating—what’s working, what’s not, and how to find love without losing yourself in the process.

This episode answers the questions every single person is asking:

You’ll learn how to navigate modern dating with confidence, clarity, and intention, including:

Kerry also shares how her career as a celebrity photographer shaped her unique approach to dating—especially when it comes to creating an authentic presence that attracts the right partner, not just attention.

If you’re navigating dating after heartbreak, re-entering the world of dating apps, or simply want to finally find real love, this episode gives you practical tools and a new perspective on dating that actually works.

Because finding love isn’t about luck—it’s about clarity, strategy, and showing up as your most authentic self.

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Great Scott! A Hero’s Journey to Love

In the final chapter of Shot@Love: A Celebrity Photographer’s Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Love, we wrap up the story with heart, humor, and hope. Kerry Brett reflects on her own Hero’s Journey—one that mirrors Marty McFly’s in Back to the Future—filled with setbacks, mentors, lessons, and ultimately transformation through love.

This episode is about believing in divine timing, trusting the bigger picture, and having faith that the right person shows up when you’ve done the inner work. Kerry shares how her “Great Scott” moment came when she found love on Tinder, and how every heartbreak, misstep, and “Biff” along the way shaped her into someone ready for a healthy, lasting relationship.

Through pop culture parallels, wisdom from her mentor Jeff Lubin, and her signature storytelling style, Kerry ties it all together—reminding listeners that everyone’s path to love is their own version of the Hero’s Journey. It’s about choosing courage over comfort, learning to love yourself first, and understanding that each swipe, each setback, and each lesson gets you closer to your own “Great Scott” moment.

If you’ve ever doubted that love is possible after heartbreak, this episode will inspire you to believe again. Because when you trust in the bigger picture and take your shot, you just might find the one who was meant for you all along.

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In this episode of Shot At Love, host Kerry Brett shares her unforgettable story of finding love on the commuter rail. This journey starts with a swipe and turns into a cinematic night worthy of Risky Business and Dirty Dancing. What begins as a spontaneous Tinder date with a man named Scott evolves into a hilarious and heartfelt adventure about courage, connection, and the power of showing up even when it’s uncomfortable.

From lip gloss disasters and “walks of shame” to lessons in faith, mindset, and perseverance, Kerry reminds listeners that taking chances in love — and life — often comes with a few unexpected detours. But when you stay open, trust yourself, and keep believing, miracles can happen… even on the rails.

By the end, Kerry reveals how this once “risky” date led to her real-life love story and how her journey on Tinder became proof that manifestation works — if you’re willing to believe, take action, and never quit.

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Visit www.shotatlovebook.com to learn more about her book Shot@Love: A Celebrity Photographer’s Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Love.

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My Dating Breakthrough — Chapter 15

In this heartfelt and full-circle episode titled My Dating Breakthrough, Kerry Brett shares the transformative story behind her biggest dating and personal turning point—one that began with a mantra and led to meeting her boyfriend, Scott. This chapter is about mentorship, mindset, and the courage to change the pattern.

Kerry reflects on her 25-year mentorship with renowned portrait artist Jeff Lubin, a silver-haired visionary who taught her everything about confidence, value, and human connection—lessons that eventually translated into her dating life. Through humor and honesty, she reveals how Jeff’s tough love, wisdom, and one unforgettable lecture helped her rebuild self-worth and learn to believe in love again.

From heartbreak in Florida to a life-changing “aha” moment back in Boston, Kerry explains how her mentor’s voice became the inner compass that guided her out of self-doubt and back into alignment. Because sometimes, the greatest leap of faith isn’t swiping right—it’s believing in yourself again.

Key themes
• The Kubera Gayatri mantra and the power of asking for what you want
• How mentorship mirrors love and self-belief
• Lessons from Jeff Lubin on value, confidence, and resilience
• Overcoming heartbreak and reclaiming self-worth
• The “Quasimodo rule”—breaking patterns and choosing better
• Finding faith, trust, and home in Boston once again

Listen, learn, and love better
This episode reminds us that breakthroughs happen when you stop playing small, take the leap, and believe that the best is yet to come.

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Substack: https://shotatlove.substack.com/p/shot-at-love-the-edit
Website: www.shotatlovebook.com

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Finding Your Match Made in Heaven, Chapter 14 of Shot@Love, A Celebrity Photograph's Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Love

This episode explores how faith, vibration, and belief play a powerful role in attracting love. Kerry shares her experiences learning about the Law of Attraction from Michael Losier—author of Law of Attraction—and how his teachings on deliberate creation helped her shift from doubt to trust.

When heartbreak and online dating fatigue set in, Kerry turned to spiritual practices and divine connections for guidance—from chanting the Lakshmi Gayatri mantra for love and abundance to conversations with her intuitive friends Maureen Hancock and Jill Jardine. Through humor and honesty, Kerry reveals how psychic predictions, astrology, and even a few matchmaking misfires ultimately led to powerful lessons about faith, karma, and timing.

You’ll also hear the inspiring story of Rosie Dalton, Maureen’s sister, who found her “match made in heaven” after years of loss—proof that love can bloom again, even after heartbreak. This chapter reminds us that believing love is possible is the first step to receiving it.

Follow along as Kerry learns to let go of control, trust divine timing, and keep her vibration high—because your match made in heaven might just be closer than you think.

Find Kerry on Instagram @kerry_brett and @shotatlovepodcast, on Facebook and LinkedIn, and join the community at www.shotatlovebook.com. You can also read Shot@Love: The Edit on Substack at shotatlove.substack.com.

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Breaking Up with Mr. Better Than Nothing – Why You Need This Episode

If you’ve ever dated someone who felt promising enough to stick around even when the red flags were waving… this episode is for you. We break down a real relationship timeline so you can recognize the exact moments things shift from exciting to exhausting — and learn how to pivot sooner next time.

Cupid showed up, the texts sparkled, and the chemistry felt easy—until the small tells started stacking up. We share a true dating story that begins with a glittering reconnection and veers into a tour of red flags: venue choices that miss the mark, a harsh snap at strangers that reveals character, grand declarations too early, then silence when it matters. The ride is funny, messy, and painfully familiar to anyone who’s been love-bombed, breadcrumbed, or nudged into the caretaker role before the relationship ever had roots.

As we walk through the timeline—from an “epic” wedding meet-cute to an OKCupid rematch, from a chaotic holiday bar scene to a broken arm that flips romance into housework—we unpack how social proof can lower your guard and how mixed signals can chip away at self-worth. You’ll hear the golden rule that never fails in dating: watch how they treat service staff and unexpected guests. You’ll also hear the moment the power shifts back: no more waiting by the phone, a night out that rekindles confidence, and the clarity to name what’s actually happening—a situationship with one driver and no room for your voice.

This conversation blends story and strategy so you leave with a practical toolkit: how to spot unintentional daters, how to separate charm from character, and how to protect your time with clean boundaries. We keep it real, we keep it human, and yes, we laugh at the clown car along the way. If you’re tired of “better than nothing,” press play, reclaim your standards, and choose the quieter path of self-respect over the noisy comfort of chaos.

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This episode follows a winding road from mantras and angel numbers to a surprising Tinder reunion that reopens old memories and reveals hard truths about trust, red flags, and values. Trust—not trying harder—becomes the real compass in dating, and 222 serves as a reminder to slow down and practice patient awareness.

Nostalgia collides with present-day realities as Boston’s social energy masks a poor fit, and Jonathan’s candid warning becomes a pivotal values check. A serendipitous moment with Fishman’s mom reassures me that when we’re paying attention, the universe delivers the clarity we need.

Through caregiving challenges, ghosting, and even street harassment, resilience rises — leading to a powerful promise: Listen sooner. Set boundaries. Choose self-respect.

If you’re rebuilding after heartbreak, this chapter reminds you that every sign points you forward.

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Tune into Chapter 11, I Surrender; Finding a Path Forward to Love, a favorite for those having a hard time. Heartbreak can feel like quicksand, but there’s a way to stop sinking. I share how surrender—real acceptance, not resignation—becomes a daily practice that steadies the mind, restores self-respect, and turns pain into a teacher. From the serenity prayer to the mantra sarvesham svastir bhavatu, I unpack simple rituals that anchor your nervous system when grief and rumination try to take over.

I walk through the five stages of grief in the context of narcissistic dynamics, making space for the messy parts—denial that kept you safe, anger that needs clean outlets, bargaining that blurs reality, depression that asks for gentle structure, and acceptance that finally loosens the knot. With insights from Kute Blackson’s The Magic of Surrender, I flip the script: a relationship can end and still be a success if it helped you grow into a truer version of yourself. That reframe moves you from searching with scarcity to meeting love with grounded presence.

Stories power change, so we spotlight courage in action. Tina Turner’s night of escape and reinvention shows how one decisive step can reset a life. Dolly Parton’s publishing stand models boundaries, patience, and long-view faith. These examples prove that small steps compound—blocking a number, archiving old photos, taking a quiet walk instead of doom-scrolling—until momentum returns. We close with practical guidance to drop the bag of bricks, set clear boundaries, and trust that peace is possible when you stop pushing and start showing up as yourself.

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Tune into "No One is Coming" and "No Days Off": Chapter 10. Sometimes the hardest truth can be the start of real momentum: no one is coming, and there are no days off. We open with mantras that sharpen courage and then walk straight into the messy middle—an on-again, off-again relationship, a high-stakes photography assignment with Bill Belichick on Nantucket, and a gutting discovery left open in an email. What follows isn’t a collapse; it’s a choice. With a deadline looming and another shoot with Julian Edelman on deck, we turn heartbreak into horsepower, swap rumination for execution, and let anger refine our focus instead of wrecking it.

You’ll hear how patterns take root, why sunk-cost thinking keeps the wrong door open, and how to close it with conviction. We unpack “no days off” as more than a sports slogan—it’s a personal operating system for resilience, discipline, and self-respect. Edelman’s legendary catch becomes a playbook for staying locked in when you’re inches from the ground: eyes on the ball, hands steady, outcome earned. The story moves from betrayal to boundary-setting, from tolerating less to choosing more, and from being benched by pain to calling your own plays.

There’s a twist of joy at the end—a right swipe and a match with former Patriots lineman Max Lane—arriving not as a rescue, but as the natural result of raising your standards. Along the way, we share the practical habits that keep you in motion: clear self-talk, tight routines, creative flow under pressure, and the courage to shut a door that keeps hurting you. If you’re navigating dating, rebuilding after a breakup, or pushing for excellence in your craft, this chapter offers tools and a real story to anchor them.

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