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  • Exploring The Decision to be Childfree

    This week on ShrinkChicks, we cover one of our most requested topics: Emmalee interviews Jen about her decision to be childfree. She asks Jen all of your questions including how she knew she didn't want kids, the way she brought it up to her now husband, the initial reactions of her family, in-laws and friends, and how she plans to handle things when she's elderly. They discuss why having doubts is okay and inevitable, the fear of regret, society's expectations of women, and the different stories of shaming Jen has received over the years. Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action!


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    39 min
  • Personal Self vs. Professional Self

    Today on ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen explore the differences between our personal and professional selves. They talk about starting their business, imposter syndrome, authenticity in the workplace, different work environments, and how therapists are taught to be a blank slate. Emmalee and Jen share the fears they both had when deciding to start The Therapy Group and the story of when they got their first call from a potential client. Dear Em & Jen answers the question: Any tips on dealing with my significant other's toxic family? Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action!


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    38 min
  • The Communication Skills We Didn't Learn in School

    On this week’s episode of ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen give us a glimpse into the communication skills we didn’t learn in school. We are ALL sometimes bad communicators, even two couples therapists. They highlight a portion of their Making The Most Of Your Marriage e-course: communication. Em and Jen take us through 15 different types of “bad” communication tactics that can appear in our relationships like: passive aggression, hopelessness, denial, and sarcasm. They give us real life examples of when these characteristics appear in their own romantic relationships and which ones are most common for each of them. On Dear Em & Jen, they give their best break-up advice. Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action!


    To access the Making The Most of Your Marriage e-course for communication and more, visit the link and use the code TALKITOUT for $50 off the original price! thetherapygroup.mykajabi.com


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    44 min
  • Purity Culture Dropout with Erica Smith, M.Ed.

    Today on ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen are joined by the amazing Erica Smith, M.Ed., sex educator and creator of the Purity Culture Dropout Program. Erica educates us all on purity culture and what it looks like in our world today. They discuss Erica's path to becoming a sex educator and the work she does to help her clients recover from the effects of purity culture. They cover topics like dress codes in schools, abstinence only sex education and why it doesn't work, how abortion became a central part of American politics, and so much more. Tune in to find out what Erica is calling BS on and why Emmalee got sent home from middle school during Home Ec class. 


    The various resources (and then some!) that Erica mentioned in today's episode:

    • Erica's Purity Culture Dropout program: https://www.ericasmitheac.com/the-purity-culture-dropout-program
    • Jo Luehmann Twitter account
    • Shameless by Nadia Bolz Weber
    • Sex Positive Families for all things raising children with a healthy, shame free sense of sexuality
    • Pure by Linda Kay Klein
    • Jamie Lee Finch
    • Church Too: How Purity Culture Upholds Abuse and How to Find Healing by Emily Joy Allison 
    • Shameless Parenting: Tina Schermer Sellers 
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      51 min
    • What To Do When The World Is On Fire

      Spoiler alert: there’s no magic trick. After a few weeks of guests, today's episode of ShrinkChicks is just with Em and Jen! They give us an update on their lives and some things they've been facing, personally. They discuss how the world is on fire! And with that, the false sense of control that we can feel when we take in information, the emotion of fear and how it's been ever present over the past year and a half, and how to cope with the uncertainty. Dear Em & Jen asks the question: how do I shut off my brain so that I can just relax? Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action!


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      39 min
    • WTF is a Pelvic Floor with Gina Cunningham

      Welcome to Pelvic Floor Health 101! This week on ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen are joined by Pelvic Floor Physical Therapist, Gina Cunningham. She clues us in to what a pelvic floor actually is and why pelvic floor health matters. Gina explains the reasons why someone might need pelvic floor physical therapy and takes us through what a typical evaluation looks like. She answers some of your questions like: is it possible to do anything to prepare your pelvic floor for childbirth? What is diastasis recti? Do kegel exercises actually work? Is it normal to pee a little when you sneeze, cough, run, etc.?Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action!


      The resources Gina mentioned to locate a practitioner near you:

      https://pelvicrehab.com

      https://ptl.womenshealthapta.org


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      56 min
    • Being a Nurse is F*cking Hard with Katie Duke

      Trigger Warning: death and serious illness. Healthcare workers are on the front lines of the COVID-19 pandemic and the stories shared in this episode, from an inside, firsthand perspective, are heavy and potentially triggering. 


      On today's episode of ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen have a powerful conversation with Katie Duke, who worked on the frontlines of the COVID-19 crisis as a Nurse Practitioner. They discuss Katie's first hand experiences from a New York Hospital (right after a major break-up, mind you), her own severe case of COVID, how the work affected her mental health, burnout, and switching careers. Katie shares why she left the nursing profession all together, what she's doing now, and why part of her new mission is to help nurses find their passion. 

       

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      55 min
    • Feeling Our Feelings with Scout Sobel

      This week on ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen sit down with Scout Sobel (@scoutsobel): co-host of the Okay Sis Podcast, host of SCOUT Podcast, founder of Scout's Agency and most recently an author! They discuss Scout's diagnosis of Bipolar Disorder, why the diagnosis felt so isolating, and how it impacted her especially as it related to a career. Scout explains the importance of finding the right therapist for YOU and tells Em & Jen her favorite story from her therapeutic journey, which you don't want to miss. We learn about how becoming an entrepreneur changed Scout's life for the better and about her debut book, The Emotional Entrepreneur, available for purchase here!

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      40 min
    • Challenging the Stories We Tell Ourselves About Ourselves

      Today on ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen discuss a type of therapy called Narrative Therapy. They explain what Narrative Therapy is, how it's used with clients, and how we can begin to challenge the stories we tell ourselves about ourselves. They talk about where these stories can originate, the roles we take on in our families of origin such as "the shy one," the narratives Em and Jen learned to believe about themselves, personally, and how the two of them challenge those stories now. We also meet Jen's new kitten, Nelly, and learn some exciting news about Emmalee and Jen's therapy practice. (Hint: The Therapy Group is expanding to two new states!) Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action!


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      37 min
    • Social Media's Effect on Our Mental Health

      On this week's episode of ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen dive into the topic of social media and the apps we spend so much time on. They discuss the positives and negatives of social media, comparing ourselves to someone else's highlight reel, the things that exist beyond the highlight reel, why Jen is struggling with the idea of posting pictures of her summer so far, and being conscious of our feelings when we scroll. They also touch on taking social media breaks and the fear that can come along with that. Dear Em & Jen tackles the question: how to tell your boss you need a mental health day when they don't understand. Tune in to gain insight, awareness and action!

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      37 min

    About ShrinkChicks

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    Emmalee Bierly, LMFT and Jennifer Chaiken, LMFT, owners and co-founders of The Therapy Group (@thetherapygrp), bring you the ShrinkChicks Podcast. ShrinkChicks is on a mission to make therapy and…