Single and Not Settling

Single and Not Settling

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  • 4. GHOSTED! It happened to me and what I learnt

    …And it SUCKED big time!  

    On this episode I get vulnerable and reflect about the time I was ghosted.

    • I discuss how closure does not exist when you have been ghosted.

    • How Christmas Eve will hold a heartbreaking memory that I have turned into a positive.

    • The red flags I ignored.

    • I share the story behind the infamous green dress I was told “not to wear again”

    • The “ghosters” who still window shop on your social media stories.

    • My message to anyone who has been ghosted *hugs

    Connect with me on Instagram @vanessamaree_wingwoman for more on dating and check out What does that even Mean Wednesdays


    45 min
  • 3. Dating apps - Have they complicated dating? Part 2

    There was SO much more to say which is why I had to do Part 2 of my discussion about dating apps!

    • I share tips on ways women can stay safe while dating (heads up, one tip is not drinking alcohol on a first date – eeekkk!)

    • How COVID changed the way we date.

    • Pet peeves on dating profiles!  Guys, put your tongues away it is NOT attractive!

    • Setting boundaries and sticking to them.

    • I share a love story from a book I was reading to give us all hope that love it out there.

    Connect with me on Instagram @vanessamaree_wingwoman for more on dating and check out What does that even Mean Wednesdays


    31 min
  • 2. Dating apps - Have they complicated dating? – Part 1

    Dating apps!  (enough said, right?!)

    Why have dating apps become so tedious and hard?! Should I be the one to text first, why hasn’t he responded to my message?!  So many questions…

    In this episode, I discuss:

    • Differences between the “big 3” dating apps (Tinder, Bumble and Hinge).

    • How to spot a scam or a catfish!!

    • How dating apps have evolved and have changed the face of dating – good or bad?

    • My 24 hour rule!  What is it and why?!

    • I offer advice on questions to ask to make sure you have matched with someone who aligns with that you are looking for.

    • A challenge to everyone to “look up”!

    ….and lots more!

    Connect with me on Instagram @vanessamaree_wingwoman for more on dating and check out What does that even Mean Wednesdays


    24 min
  • 1. My Story, My Why

    Welcome to my first episode!

    This is such a surreal moment and I am so grateful for all of the things that have led to the creation of this podcast and my FIRST episode!

    In this episode I share: 

    • My “why” and why I decided to be the self-proclaimed WINGWOMAN!

    • What does that even mean Wednesday – why hearing what men think can help us in dating!

    • How 2020 was the year that HAD to happen and why I am grateful and found a positive out of a very BIG negative.

    • The time when I was in a comfortable long term relationship and why I stayed there too long.

    • I talk about forgiveness and how I forgave those (aka men) who hurt me and how I forgave myself.

    • Why you should not wait until you are in a relationship to do the things YOU want do to and live your best single life NOW!

    Connect with me on Instagram @vanessamaree_wingwoman for more on dating and check out What does that even Mean Wednesdays


    25 min

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Welcome to Single and Not Settling, the podcast for women becoming unavailable for low effort men, low standards and lives that don't feel aligned.