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  • Exploring Open Relationships: Expert Advice from Jennifer | EP. 61
    In this episode of Pleasure Pathways, I sit down with Jennifer, a seasoned relationship and dating coach who specializes in helping individuals and couples navigate the world of open relationships. Whether you’re curious about non-monogamy, considering opening up your relationship, or simply want to learn more about what it takes to thrive in an open dynamic, this episode is packed with honest insights and actionable advice. Jennifer shares her personal journey from monogamy to non-monogamy, the challenges and joys she’s experienced along the way, and practical tips for building trust, managing jealousy, and setting healthy boundaries. We dive deep into how to communicate with your partner, avoid common pitfalls, and explore whether an open relationship might be the right fit for you. Tune in for a candid conversation about love, freedom, and reimagining what relationships can look like when you step outside of traditional norms.

    Listen now to learn:
    • How to start the conversation about opening up your relationship
    • Key boundaries and agreements for healthy non-monogamy
    • What to do when jealousy or insecurity arises
    • How to explore non-monogamy safely and ethically
    This episode is perfect for anyone looking to deepen their understanding of open relationships or seeking fresh perspectives on love and connection.

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    52 min
  • The Best Relationship of Your Life Might Be Your Best Friends | EP.60
    We spend so much time searching for ‘The One’—but what if the best, most fulfilling relationship of your life is already here? What if it’s been your best friend all along?

    This week, Lauren is talking about why friendships deserve the same energy as romantic relationships, why we’ve been conditioned to treat them as ‘less than,’ and how to actually build deep, lasting friendships that make you feel seen, chosen, and loved.

    💔 Friendship breakups hurt more than we admit—so why don’t we talk about them?
    💖 Romanticizing friendships changed my life—here’s why it should change yours too.
    ⚡ Your partner cannot be your everything—and friendships fill the gaps we don’t talk about."

    If you’ve been feeling disconnected, craving more from your friendships, or realizing you’ve been waiting for a partner to give you what’s already in your life—this one’s for you.

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    25 min
  • How Your Attachment Style Shapes Love, Sex & Dating W/ Samantha Deribin | EP. 59
    Have you ever wondered why you keep repeating the same relationship patterns? Or why intimacy feels easy for some but complicated for others? In this episode, I sit down with therapist Samantha Deribin to break down attachment styles and how they impact dating, love, and sex.

    We cover:
    🔥 The four main attachment styles (secure, anxious, avoidant, disorganized)
    🔥 How to identify your attachment style and what it means for your relationships
    🔥 Why your attachment wounds might be affecting your sex life
    🔥 How to cultivate more security and intimacy in love and the bedroom
    🔥 Actionable tips to rewrite old patterns and build healthier connections

    Whether you're single, dating, or in a relationship, this conversation will give you the insights you need to navigate love and intimacy with confidence.✨ Listen now and learn how to make your attachment style work for you! ✨🔗 Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who needs it!

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    1 hr 12 min
  • What If You Never Find ‘The One’? A 28-Day Journey to Self-Love | EP. 58
    What if you never find your person? That question hit me hard, and honestly… it’s one I know a lot of us have avoided.But instead of spiraling into fear, I decided to turn it into an opportunity—a 28-day commitment to falling in love with myself. Because self-love isn’t something we wait for; it’s something we build.In this episode, I’m sharing why I started this challenge, what I’ve learned so far, and how you can start prioritizing your own self-love today.🔥

    Journal Prompts to  work Through Your Blocks:
    📝 Where am I struggling to show up for myself right now?
    📝 What’s the thing I keep saying I want to do… but I’m not doing?
    📝 What do I believe will happen if I actually commit to self-love?
    📝 What’s the fear underneath my resistance?
    📝 What would change if I let go of this belief?✨

    Self-Love Action Steps from This Episode:
    📌 Day 1: Make a list of what taking care of yourself actually looks like.
    📌 Day 2: Give yourself permission to experience pleasure—without guilt.
    📌 Day 3: Rest as resistance—because rest is a right, not a reward.
    📌 Day 4: Journal through your blocks and rewrite the stories holding you back.
    📌 Day 5: Sensual self-care—engage your senses and reconnect with your body.

    I’m sharing my own journey daily on Instagram @ohyeahcoaching with actionable self-love prompts, reflections, and real talk on what this process is bringing up for me. Follow along and join the challenge!🎧 Press play to dive in! And if this episode resonates with you, share it with a friend or DM me—I’d love to hear what this brings up for you.

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    25 min
  • How Choosing Pleasure Over Burnout Helps You Rewrite the Rules and Take Up Space | EP.57
    Are you tired of feeling like burnout is your default setting? You’re not alone. In this episode, we’re diving into why hustle culture keeps you stuck, how rest and pleasure are the ultimate antidotes, and why choosing joy isn’t selfish—it’s radical.You’ll learn:

    💡 What burnout really does to your body and mind.
    💡 Why rest and pleasure are necessary (not indulgent).
    💡 How to rewrite the rules society taught you about productivity.
    💡 Practical tips for taking up space and making room for what truly lights you up.If you’re ready to ditch the hustle and reclaim your time, energy, and joy, this episode is your permission slip to start living life on your own terms.

    And don’t forget: I’m running a 28 Days to Fall in Love with Myself challenge in February, packed with daily tips and inspiration to help you reconnect with yourself and build a life rooted in rest and pleasure. Follow along on Instagram, and shoot me a DM to grab my free guide on incorporating more pleasure into your life.


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    24 min
  • Embracing Your Vulva: The Power of Self-Love and Acceptance with Catherine Drysdale | EP.56
    In this episode, we chat with sex and relationship coach Catherine Drysdale about the journey of learning to love and accept your vulva. Catherine shares her insights on overcoming shame, embracing nutreality, and fostering a deeper connection with yourself. This conversation is all about celebrating your body, reclaiming confidence, and breaking free from societal expectations. Whether you're looking to build vulva confidence or simply want to understand how self-love impacts your intimate relationships, this episode is for you.

    More about Catherine

    Catherine Drysdale is a fearless sex + relationship coach who empowers people to explore their desires and step into unapologetic pleasure. Combining psychology, kink, and sensuality, Catherine’s work helps people push boundaries and rewrite their approach to intimacy. With over 250k followers on TikTok, her teachings have reached a global audience, and she’s been featured in Cosmopolitan, Allure, and VICE. Catherine is also pursuing her master’s degree in clinical psychology at Columbia University, bringing both academic depth and playful exploration to her work.Apply for 1:1 coaching, grab one of her self-paced courses, or join her upcoming free online workshops : https://linktr.ee/catherinedrysdale




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    1 hr 6 min
  • Having Your Own Back in a World That Won’t: How to Build Self-Trust| EP.55
    In a world where systems often fail us and validation feels hard to come by, learning to have your own back is essential. In this episode, we dive into what it really means to build self-trust, embrace singlehood, and create a relationship with yourself that sets the foundation for the life you deserve. From personal stories of choosing myself to lessons from Wicked's Elphaba and the challenges of dating, this conversation is about showing up for yourself unapologetically. Plus, I’m sharing actionable steps to reconnect with your intuition, audit your relationships, and practice self-love starting today.If you're ready to thrive in a world that won’t always have your back, this episode is for you. 

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    21 min
  • WTF Is Snail Trailing and How It Transforms Your Relationships | EP.54
    In this episode of Pleasure Pathways, I am looking at the concept I call “snail trailing” and how it can transform the way you show up in your relationships—with yourself and others. But it’s not the kind of snail trailing you might be thinking of! We're talking about how women, time and time again, give pieces of themselves away in relationships—leaving behind their desires, boundaries, and ultimately, their power.

    It’s time to stop that. Join me as we explore how to reclaim your energy, set firm boundaries, and reconnect with your pleasure—without sacrificing your worth.

    In this episode, I’ll share how you can stop leaving bits of yourself behind and start standing fully in your power, no longer auditioning for love or reshaping yourself to fit someone else’s version of who you should be. We’re talking about making 2025 the year you fall unapologetically in love with yourself. If you’re tired of shapeshifting to make relationships work, this episode is for you. Tune in, and let’s unlearn the patterns that no longer serve you, so you can create the love life you deserve—starting with YOU.




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    27 min
  • Confidence In and Out of the Bedroom: Lessons from Erika Eileen | EP. 53
    In this episode, I sit down with Confidence Queen Erika Eileen to explore what it really means to feel confident—both in the bedroom and beyond. Erika shares her journey of redefining confidence, from believing it was about fitting into societal beauty standards to realizing it’s as simple (and powerful) as confidently saying you want a salad when everyone else is ordering pizza. We dive into how owning your voice and desires can transform your relationships, your sex life, and your sense of self. Whether you're struggling to feel seen or want to amplify your confidence, this conversation is packed with honest insights, humor, and practical tips to help you show up as your truest self.

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    1 hr
  • The Top Pleasure Predictions for 2025 You Need to Know | EP. 52
    As we say goodbye to 2024, it’s time to look ahead with hope, optimism, and a lot of honesty. In this solo episode, I’m diving into my boldest pleasure predictions for 2025—what I hope to see more of in relationships, intimacy, and self-love. From prioritizing solo pleasure to saying goodbye to performative intimacy, we’re breaking down what’s possible when we embrace liberation and empowerment in every aspect of our lives.I’m also getting personal, sharing some of the hard lessons and wins I experienced this year—like setting boundaries, practicing what I preach, and choosing myself in dating (even when it wasn’t easy). Plus, I’ll show you how to start turning these pleasure predictions into reality right now.Ready to make 2025 your year of pleasure and power? Tune in now!🎙 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
    • My top 5 pleasure predictions for 2025
    • How to prioritize self-love and desire-led intimacy
    • Practical steps to start liberating yourself today
    • Why optimism and boundaries are radical acts of self-care
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    26 min

About Single (not spiraling)

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Welcome to Single Not Spiraling with Lauren—the podcast for women who are done waiting, done performing, and done pretending they’re not whole on their own.

This is your space for honest…