This episode is for the women who:

Feels like: I’m a good woman, why aren’t I married? What’s wrong with me? You feel like: I have my career life together but for some reason my love life is trash.

You're good at taking care of yourself, especially when it comes to your career. You know you're a smart woman so you don't understand why you keep getting into those types of relationships. Let's talk...

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XO Reka

Topic: How Your Money is Keeping You in That Dysfunctional Relationship.

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XO Reka

A speech (my story) on overcoming and healing from a dysfunctional relationships. From the Whole Woman event at Corner Stone Church in Pasco, WA. 

Let's talk....

What I do? I teach single professional women in their 30s or 40s a faith-based way to move on from their ex. How to stop the cycle of dysfunctional relationships and what they've never been taught from church/by their parents about a healthy relationship with themselves and with men.

Who are my clients? Women who have their life together, career wise. You're financially stable but you're constantly spending money and time on him. Trying to build him up. You’re steady letting him walk all over you. And you're left wondering why that is? How can I have my professional life together but not my love life?

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Also you buy Single You the Pillow Collection here and check out Single You Academy here. 

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XO Reka

My key strategies to dodging dysfunctional relationships, a masterclass series. 

This episode is for the woman who has:

Your life together, career wise. Financially. But you’re steady letting this man/a man walk all over you.

He is so disrespectful to you emotionally and he takes advantage of you. 

You’re left feeling like: I’ve spent so much time and effort, money and everything pouring into him... to where I feel like I don’t ever get that same type of dynamic in return.

You're thinking: What is it about myself that I keep attracting these types of relationships and how do I solve that, so that I don’t stay in this toxic cycle. I’ve gotta break this cycle.

Let's talk....

What I do? I help single professional women in their 30s or 40s stop the cycle of dysfunctional relationships with men (or heck, just that one guy  ) without the overwhelm of feeling mean for saying no.

Who are my clients? Women who feel like they spend so much time, effort, and money pouring into men, and you feel like you don't ever get that same type of dynamic in return. You're wondering, 'what is it about myself that I keep attracting these types of relationships, and how do I solve that so that I don't stay in this toxic, dysfunctional cycle.'

Did you listen? What were your takeaways?

Also you buy Single You the Pillow Collection here and check out Single You Academy here. 

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XO Reka

Topic: What is it about YOU that keeps attracting dysfunctional relationships? Plus HOW to solve this problem. For the woman who is wondering what it is about myself that I keep attracting dysfunctional relationships and how do I solve this problem?

What I do? I help single professional women in their 30s or 40s stop the cycle of dysfunctional relationships with men (or heck, just that one guy ) without the overwhelm of feeling mean for saying no.

Who are my clients? Women who feel like they spend so much time, effort, and money pouring into men, and you feel like you don't ever get that same type of dynamic in return. You're wondering, 'what is it about myself that I keep attracting these types of relationships, and how do I solve that so that I don't stay in this toxic, dysfunctional cycle.'

Did you listen? What were your takeaways?

Also you buy Single You the Pillow Collection here and check out Single You Academy here. 

Do you have any questions for me? Hit me up.

XO Reka

WHY we stay in dysfunctional relationships but HOW to stop that cycle. 

This topic is for the women who:

Every year over 10 million Americans experience psychological and/or physical abuse. And I'm willing to be thhe majority of that 10 million is women.

And I know why… let's talk.

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XO Reka

WHY does a man not have to lie to YOU to be with YOU? Because if you like him enough, you'll lie to yourself and HOW to stop that cycle of dysfunction.

But the gag is: he is lying to you through his behavior. You just pass up the red flag because you like him.

So what am I saying? Men don't have to say:

Baby, I'll never lie to you, I'll never cheat on you, I'm not a manipulator or a narcissist. I'm just a good guy who loves you.

He knows he's all of the above and has been the above to his previous girlfriends.

BUT We have our God voice and today: I'm going to encourage you to lean into that because I want to help you stop this cycle of dysfunctional relationships.

This series is for you if⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣:

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XO Reka

How good are you at setting boundaries with men?

Can you relate to the following statements....

Let's talk... listen as a fly on the wall, as my best friend Deseree and I discuss boundaries with friends, family and of course men. 

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LEARN MORE: about the key strategies to dodging a dysfunctional relationship masterclass here.

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XO Reka

She writes.... ⁣⁣⁣⁣

I was a very independent women who attracted needy guys. In most of my relationships I was always the nurturing one making sure their needs were meet. My needs were rarely meet and I became frustrated and unhappy. So I'm the one who would end the relationship and move on. Then I got married, things were great at first until he decided to quit his job and sat around like I was going to take care of him. We got divorced and I'm now single, living my best life.

This is her story and her transformation on no longer attracting needy men.

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XO Reka

When I asked Brad: Was there a time you didn't know your worth? If Yes; how did you discover your worth?

He said: Yes, it's been an ongoing battle for me since about 6-7 years ago. After going through multiple relationships and being cheated on. Since I first recognized it, I've been mentally doing things to remind myself of how worthy I am in all phases of life.

Listen: the women doing the work need to find the men who are doing the work. Leave everyone else who continue to want dysfunction and drama alone. Listen in as Brad and I discuss his self-love journey. I bet you can learn a lot!

Shows mentioned: The Color of Compromise available on Amazon prime and Hidden Colors available on Facebook.

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Also you buy Single You the Pillow Collection here and check out Single You Academy here. 

Do you have any questions for me? Hit me up.

XO Reka