Single You "The Podcast"

I hope you listen with open ears. I'm not here to judge you but if you don't listen to this episode you won't know that. I'm very aware that this message isn't for everyone... but it is for the women I feel called to guide. Because what's the vision for your life sis? No judgement but the way I define judgement and the way cancel culture defines it, is extremely different. 

Isn't your body a temple? Do you want to be lukewarm? Jesus and the Samaritan woman, let's talk... 

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I dated him and I bet you did too. On today's Single You the Podcast; I speak to Jhall. He is a former Fboy and he has confessions for us. From his toxic journey to the man he is today.

He's spilling all the tea and I got all the questions. Bring your note book because who he use to be... we need to learn how to dodge that.

Reach out to Jhall here on IG and read his blog here. 

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I use to be so confused about my gut and the feeling I would get about men. Why did I feel like 'he is not for me' and I don't have a tangible reason? What does the gut feeling actually mean? Am I too picky? I had to learn what it meant to listen to my gut and how to use it to detect the people who aren't for me. Energy is real and we have to start trusting ourselves. The guy feeling is your God voice. 

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What happens if a guy says "I'm too busy" but still wants to keep you as a 'friend'... how do you handle that situation? He doesn't want to be in a relationship but a freinds-with-benefits situation... he's ok with. How you handle that situation? Let's talk...

A quote from Kaitlyn Herman: We ALL have a purpose. At 25, I'm lucky enough to have found mine. Whether you're 23 or 63, I will help you navigate your life to find that purpose. I will help you live an authentic life that you've only dreamed of living. I will hold you accountable for taking actions to make your dreams become reality. I will guide you in the right direction so that you're living every day with immense gratitude. And lastly, I will help you see life through a lens of love, not fear. Through all of this, you'll be guided to achieve inner peace and true happiness for the rest of your life.

You can find information on her coaching here. Her instagram here.

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I should have left him when this happened but I didn't. I go over some of the reasons why I didn't in this episode. 

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It’s Reka here! In case you were wondering what I really do... outside of posting about my workouts, Champ & Thor, my beautiful Pitbulls and discussing relationships...  I am a certified NLP Life Coach aka the Single Girls Life Coach.

In September, after 18 years in radio, I stepped down from my full time job— to focus on what God is calling me to do in this season. I’m called to guide women who need to hear that singleness is not a punishment and you are worthy regardless of your relationship status.

I’m the Founder of Single You Academy & the host of Single You the Podcast.⁣

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I help the ambitious millennial single woman discover her worth so that she can stop tying her identity and worth to men and stop being a man pleaser.⁣

I am looking for TEN women who want better when it comes to men and setting boundaries, knowing your self, understanding your worth and what makes a healthy relationship.

If this sounds like you and you are ready to get started, we should definitely connect. I would LOVE to guide you into next year and make 2021 the year you finally feel happy single. Ready? Either comment below or shoot me a DM!

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Elana got married young young and divorced months later. Why? 

She was then in a relationship where she didn't even want to kiss this 'good man.' Why?

Her friend Riggs (from episode 21) was always there for here as a FRIEND and that's it. How did they transition to lovers? Was it weird? What conversations did they have BEFORE they got serious? What's different with Riggs than any other man she dated? 

Before Riggs she was absolutely just use to dysfunctional relationships. She grew and learned a lot from those relationships. Elana will share with us about all that I just mentioned plus: traits to watch out for in men, traits to look for in men and of course we'll talk about her not wanting kids. I hope you have your note book. 

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We often times by-pass the weight that a relationship is putting on us because our misguided hope makes the weight seems light.

Elana has been happily married to Riggs for 10 years now. But before that she was married and divorced quickly. She has had a few dysfunctional relationships. We can learn from women like her, so I asked her to give us 3 things she knew that she didn't want in a husband and she passed on those gems to us. 

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(Andy) Riggs was married in his early 20s. That did not last but why? 

He has now been married over 10 years. That is lasting why? 

We also cover: 

1. 3 Things not to do in a relationship

2. 3 Things that is keeping their marriage happy. 

3. They don't have kids. He explains why! (not that he had to but I wanted to ask for you).

(Andy) Riggs can be found on:

IG = RiggsRadio

Facebook = Riggs Radio

His Podcast = Riggs off the Radio

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𝐒𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐮𝐬 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧 𝐛𝐲 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠/𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 ‘𝗪𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐍𝐨𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐃𝐨’… Riggs has 3 things you shouldn’t do in a relationship. ⁣⁣

⁣Riggs went from ‘never getting married again’ to ‘happily every after’ with his wife of 10 years (12 years together). ⁣⁣

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𝐅𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐞 𝐈 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐢𝐥𝐲 𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐝 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞. ⁣⁣

How are you learning about what makes a healthy relationship? A healthy marriage? Seriously how? ⁣⁣

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⁣Ps. Yes we discuss that TERRIBLE relationship between Kelly and that damn red power ranger (Andrew) of Bling Empire on Netflix. ⁣⁣A dysfunctional relationship doesn't have to be your normal. 

(Andy) Riggs can be found on:

IG = RiggsRadio

Facebook = Riggs Radio

His Podcast = Riggs off the Radio 

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Sick of being played? Shanice explains how she got ghosted after she drove 2 hours to meet up with a guy who never showed.

Through her story she shares 4 tips on how to better gage if a man is playing you or not.

(1) Stop giving men the benefit of the doubt.

(2) Those stupid rules you make for you not to come off as “annoying” to a man —stop with the rules.

(3) Ask all the questions. Being afraid to ask the questions puts you in situations you didn’t ask for.

(4) Listen to your gut. Stop looking for ‘evidence.’

Why don’t you believe you?

And then because of that story she met her fiancé and yes, he slid into her DMs. 

Listen to Shanice has she encourages women who are still in their single season. Our hope is that you find encouragement through her! 

Shanice can be found on IG @XOXoShanice and Youtube here. 

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