Single You "The Podcast"

 [ Your Wednesday Tangible Tip ]

She Writes Am I wrong for getting upset that my man keeps liking other women's photos on Instagram? Or upset that he follows 90% predominantly women? It causes a lot of strain on our relationships...

Plus. The ol' "do I give him my passwords because he asked" dilemma. I use to think why. not "I have nothing to hide." In fact I did and it never changed his trust in me. He still accused me of being sneaking and cheating. What I've found out is that most people who are accusing you of things heavy, it's because their doing it. I found out later he was cheating and that was my introduction into perfection and understanding what it means. 

Mike Zacchio can be found here: IG = Mike_Zacchio 

What were your take a-ways? Please share with me on IG @ justmeReka

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Xo Reka

Topic: Am I wrong for getting upset that my man keeps liking other women’s photos on Instagram?

Or upset that he follows 90% predominantly women? It causes a lot of strain on our relationship.

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Mike Zacchio can be found here:

IG = Mike_Zacchio

• Quotes and stuff: @hopefulromanticlove

• Co-host, @newpodontheblock

Books and other platforms here: linktr.ee/mzacchio

Welcome to Single You the Podcast. 

Today's tip: How to Make a Guy Wait for Sex with Mike Zacchio. Your Wednesday Tangible Tip drops every Wednesday at 6a. 

The tip comes from Thursday's full episode that drops the next day. New episode of Single You drop on Thursday at 6a. 

Tomorrow's full episode? = How to Know When to Leave Him with Mike Zacchio (4 tips). 

Happily Listening and please remember to subscribe and rate this podcast! Please. 

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If you are a single woman who is dating and looking for Mr. right, what is your biggest dating challenge in finding a good guy? 

Most women say: the biggest challenge they are liars, cheaters, no ambition, no standards, no morals, 3 (or more) kids and baby momma drama. 

But is that true? Should we just throw the whole male species away? Is there still hope... let's talk with my cousin DJ Robinson, he is in fact a male haha 

Xo Reka

Guest DJ Robinson [Wednesday Tangible Tip] [From EP 15]

XO Reka

IG = justmeReka

Topic: So I’m with this guy who doesn’t work.

He doesn't want a 9-5 but I get up five days a week to work. Then I have school on Saturday while he’s at home in my bed and all he does do is clean and take care of my kids when I’m gone ...am I wrong that I want more?

I hate that I’m doing this, is this really what I deserve? Am I settling?

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My name is Jeffrey Whittingham – I am a former Temple University football standout with a burning passion to help others succeed. Being born and raised in Atlantic City, New Jersey, socio-economic hardships and environmental woes made it difficult to remain optimistic about a brighter future.  I did not allow those difficulties to deter me from accomplishing my goals. In 2014, I became the first person from my immediate family to graduate from college. Since then, I have been relentlessly pursuing my goals, while at the same time, setting a positive example for the young men and women in my community.  The combination of my past experiences, present skills, leadership qualities and intellect, make me uniquely qualified to help mold the youth of our community to grow to their full potential.

Growing up, it was difficult for me to see past my immediate circumstances.  Fortunately, football provided me with the optimism I needed to see beyond my present circumstances and elevate to the next level. My motivation to excel in football stemmed from my desire to prove to others in my community that it is possible to excel, despite growing up in an economically depressed area with little to no positive role models.  Today, my mission is to motivate the youth of my community to excel, despite any adversity and/or obstacle in their way. I want to be the light and optimism for someone who may not have the means to find it on their own

Jeff can be reached @_jeffstruth

[ 𝗛𝗲𝗹𝗽 ] 𝗦𝗼 𝗜'𝗺 𝗪𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗚𝘂𝘆 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗗𝗼𝗲𝘀𝗻'𝘁 𝗪𝗼𝗿𝗸. 𝗔𝗺 𝗜 𝗪𝗿𝗼𝗻𝗴 𝗕𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝗜 𝗪𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝗠𝗼𝗿𝗲?⁣ ⁣ 

𝘏𝘦 𝘥𝘰𝘦𝘴𝘯'𝘵 𝘸𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘢 𝟿-𝟻 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘐 𝘨𝘦𝘵 𝘶𝘱 𝘧𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘥𝘢𝘺𝘴 𝘢 𝘸𝘦𝘦𝘬 𝘵𝘰 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘬. 𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘐 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘴𝘤𝘩𝘰𝘰𝘭 𝘰𝘯 𝘚𝘢𝘵𝘶𝘳𝘥𝘢𝘺 𝘸𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘦 𝘩𝘦’𝘴 𝘢𝘵 𝘩𝘰𝘮𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘮𝘺 𝘣𝘦𝘥 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘩𝘦 𝘥𝘰𝘦𝘴 𝘥𝘰 𝘪𝘴 𝘤𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘯 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘤𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘮𝘺 𝘬𝘪𝘥𝘴 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘐’𝘮 𝘨𝘰𝘯𝘦 ...𝘢𝘮 𝘐 𝘸𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘐 𝘸𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘦? ⁣ ⁣ 𝘐 𝘩𝘢𝘵𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘐’𝘮 𝘥𝘰𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴, 𝘪𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘺 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘐 𝘥𝘦𝘴𝘦𝘳𝘷𝘦? 𝘈𝘮 𝘐 𝘴𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨?⁣ ⁣ 

XO Reka

IG = justmeReka

Why do you keep falling for the bad guy?

Have you thought "I’m happy for all of my friends who are married with families but I can’t help but feel like sometimes life is passing me by."⁣⁣⁣

Would you like to start today? ⁣⁣⁣

XO Reka

IG = justmeReka

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D. Irvin's IG = @therealsupad

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Atlanta, GA (October 2020) - D’wayna Irvin, affectionately known as “D. Irvin”, is a woman who certainly lives up to her moniker. A product of New Orleans’ 9th Ward, the polarizing entrepreneur, influencer and author has experienced it all – from crime, fast money and near-death experiences, to betrayal and heartbreak – all in the name of love and loyalty. However, that way of life nearly destroyed hers, until she made a change for the better. Now, she shares her rollercoaster story of tragedy to triumph in her raw and uncut new book, When A D.A.B. Spills the Tea.

What is a D.A.B, you ask? It is an acronym for the kind of woman often celebrated in rap songs. A woman who, against her better judgment, stays loyal and handles the dirty work for her significant other who usually ends up behind bars. It is the woman who sticks by a man’s side through good, bad and worse, jeopardizing her own future in the process.

Yet, unlike in the movies, that loyalty typically doesn’t pan out the way many women imagine.

“Love is a dangerous game, especially when living the street life,"  said D. Irvin.  “One of the biggest lessons I learned is to always put yourself first, because that is what others will do. You may be second to them, but you will never be first.”

D. Irvin Came to this realization after finding herself entrenched in a long romantic relationship with a drug dealer. Like many young women in urban environments, she was mesmerized by the nice cars, clothes and money the lifestyle afforded. Also, this particular man was charming and manipulative. She risked her life for him, delivered packages for him, stayed loyal as he served time for nearly a decade – only for him to betray her. It was the darkest moment of her life.

Suffering from anxiety, depression and even suicidal thoughts, D. Irvin had to rebound. She sought therapy to address her mental health, discovered her self-worth, and ultimately used the hustle she learned from the streets to chart her own course as a successful entrepreneur. Now, her goal is to show other women from similar situations how to do the same.

When A D.A.B. Spills the Tea is about revealing the truth about life and love for a woman in the street life. Rarely are there happy endings with money, marriage and a family. Therefore, the book emboldens women to claim their power, set the standards for their own lives and to become real bosses by understanding how to make things happen for themselves.

D. Irvin is bold and transparent in the book, revealing things most people might be ashamed of, however, she is a firm believer that one must come to grips with their past in order to move forward. Either way, readers will be shocked, entertained and educated by the hard truths and wisdom on each page.

“A ‘D.A.B’ is a female that is willing to go above and beyond the call of duty to gain whatever it is she feels is attainable to her. It is more than for a man or in a relationship. It could be for your business,” D. Irvin said. “I want women to learn how to boss up on their own and take control of their lives. If they can learn from my story, I am happy and I have reached my goal.”

To keep up with news and updates on everything D. Irvin, follow her on Instagram at @therealsupad. Her book, When A Real DAB Spills the Tea is available now and can be purchased on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08G7ZVW6N/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1.

xo Reka

Learn from her story! One of the things that helped me heal from the pain I inflicted on myself by being with my abusive ex, was finding and learning from women who had been through what I went through. I loved feeling like I wasn't the only woman who made 'stupid' decisions for a man. I also was able to learn from those women.

Here is what Stacey J. wrote on her Facebook: 

I became single after a 5 year relationship ended in January 2020. What I once thought would end in married ended in a breakup.

The breakup was needed in order for me to save myself. Not because of physical reasons but to save my mind, protect my peace, confidence and self esteem.

There's nothing like being in a relationship that looks like love to later realize it's narcissistic control. No one thrives in this kind of relationships and it quickly becomes toxic.

The sad part is we are the ones that allow it! Yep girlfriend it's on you. We stay because we feel like things will change, get better,  we pamper them and their feelings sometimes ignoring our own.

But once I was gone I know the universe heard my internal cry and it delivered. That's when operation heal Stacey J began. I had to learn to accept, understand my role in this and rebuild my confidence.

Now I'm happy to say that I am internally happy and my life has exploded like never before!! I have peace,  joy and I've tapped in to my higher self. I am not bitter I'm  better and I welcome love again but when the universe knows I'm ready. I have learned to truly enjoy me.

Stop second guessing yourself girl and know what you want, deserve and willing to give without giving up yourself.

Stacey's IG = @therealstaceyj and @live365.radio

www.live365empowerment.com

I hope in this episode you learn how to stop guessing yourself! 

XO Reka

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