Skill Not Will: For Couples

Skill Not Will: For Couples

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  • Life without Rules with Sarah Beale

    Sarah Beale joins today to chat about her family's journey to parenting without rules or force and how they sold everything and moved to Europe to start over and live in their values. Dan and Sarah also chat about rites of passage and the awakening that often happens when women find a taste of freedom and wildness. Sarah now works with other parents who want to parent in partnership with their kids - you can find her at partnershipparent.com


    Find Dan:

    Instagram: @convergentlyspeaking 

    @danielanearcounsellingcoaching

    Facebook: @convergentlyspeaking

    @danielanearcounsellingcoaching

    Bookings:  danielanear.com


    1 hr 9 min
  • Having a Better Relationship with Yourself with Samantha Mackay

    Dan has an incredibly interesting chat with Samantha Mackay who is a fellow Typology-Lover and Personality Hacker Profiling graduate. Samantha is a former Lawyer, current Trainer and Coach who uses personality frameworks to work with people. 

    Dan and Samantha chat typology and health - Samantha shares her journey with chronic illness and the work she has done to heal and integrate all parts of herself. She also talks about emotions, grief, our relationships with our bodies and lots more.

    You'll really enjoy this episode!!


    Find Dan:

    Instagram: @convergentlyspeaking 

    @danielanearcounsellingcoaching

    Facebook: @convergentlyspeaking

    @danielanearcounsellingcoaching

    Bookings:  Danielanear.com

    1 hr 21 min
  • Why we Talk Past Each Other in Romance and Friendship

    In this solo episode, Dan talks about the root of many misunderstandings in relationships and friendships and what we can do about it.  He shares some insights on how we can gain more understanding and empathy for the people around us, rather than getting frustrated and annoyed at our differences. 


    Find Dan: 

    Instagram: @convergentlyspeaking  

    @danielanearcounsellingcoaching 


    Facebook: @convergentlyspeaking 

    @danielanearcounsellingcoaching 


    Bookings: danielanear.com

    20 min
  • Interview with Dan - Personality Psychology, Podcasting and Spiral Dynamics
    Something a little different - here we are posting Dan being interviewed by Neville Starick (you may remember him from Episode 26). He asked Dan some great questions about his counselling practice, personality psychology, spiral dynamics and podcasting. 
    If you're quite familiar with Dan and his story, zoom ahead to about 36:00 for an interesting discussion about the Theory of Spiral Dynamics which we'll be talking about more in the future. 
    Enjoy!
    Find Neville:
    https://www.linkedin.com/in/neville-starick-counselling-coaching/
    on facebook: Cynosure Support
    Find Dan:
    Instagram: @convergentlyspeaking 
    @danielanearcounsellingcoaching
    Facebook: @convergentlyspeaking
    @danielanearcounsellingcoaching
    Bookings: Danielanear.com
    46 min
  • When Smart People are Dumb
    A solo episode from Dan, exploring how intelligent people can get tripped up by being unaware of their emotions. 
    Find Dan:
    Bookings (new website!!): danielanear.com
    Instagram: @convergentlyspeaking 
    @danielanearcounsellingcoaching
    Facebook: @convergentlyspeaking
    @danielanearcounsellingcoaching
    14 min
  • Personality, Development, Non-Dualism, Self-Coaching (and more) with Dr Dario Nardi (Part 2)

    Here we have for you a huge guest and a great chat! 

    Dario Nardi, Ph.D. is a world renowned author,  researcher, speaker and expert in neuroscience, personality, and body-mind practices. He holds a Senior Lecturer position at University  of California (Los Angeles), where he won UCLA's Copenhaver Award for  Innovative Use of Technology in 2005 and UCLA's Distinguished Teacher of  the year in 2011. His books include Neuroscience of Personality, 8 Keys to Self-Leadership, Jung on Yoga, and Facets of Ayahuasca,  among other titles. We writes game books and fiction. And he is the  creator of the Personality Types iPhone app. Since 2006, Dario has  focused on conducting hands-on brain research, utilizing insights of  real-time EEG technology. Applications extend to coaching, counseling,  education, games, healthcare, leadership development, yoga, and many  other areas. He regularly keynotes international conferences and  facilitates workshops, teaching professionals about the art and science  of the brain. Dario is currently based in Los Angeles, USA and Oslo,  Norway. Dan and Dario cover many topics around personality, growth, shamanism..... and so much more. This is a prime example of a thoughtful conversation between two Intuitives. Hope you have enjoyed both parts of this epic chat. 


    You can find Dario at:  darionardi.com, Facebook

    Buy his book: The Magic Diamond: Jung's 8 Paths to Self Coaching  


    Find Dan:

    Instagram: @convergentlyspeaking 

    @danielanearcounsellingcoaching

    Facebook: @convergentlyspeaking

    @danielanearcounsellingcoaching

    Bookings: danielanear.com

    1 hr 2 min
  • Personality, Development, Non-dualism, Self-Coaching- an interview with Dr Dario Nardi (Part 1)

    Here we have for you a huge guest and a great chat! Dario Nardi, Ph.D. is a world renowned author,  researcher, speaker and expert in neuroscience, personality, and  body-mind practices. He holds a Senior Lecturer position at University  of California (Los Angeles), where he won UCLA's Copenhaver Award for  Innovative Use of Technology in 2005 and UCLA's Distinguished Teacher of  the year in 2011. His books include Neuroscience of Personality, 8 Keys to Self-Leadership, Jung on Yoga, and Facets of Ayahuasca,  among other titles. We writes game books and fiction. And he is the  creator of the Personality Types iPhone app. Since 2006, Dario has  focused on conducting hands-on brain research, utilizing insights of  real-time EEG technology. Applications extend to coaching, counseling,  education, games, healthcare, leadership development, yoga, and many  other areas. He regularly keynotes international conferences and  facilitates workshops, teaching professionals about the art and science  of the brain. Dario is currently based in Los Angeles, USA and Oslo,  Norway. Dan and Dario cover many topics around personality, growth, shamanism..... and so much more. This is a prime example of a thoughtful conversation between two Intuitives. Enjoy the episode and stay tuned for Part 2 next week! You can find Dario at:  http://darionardi.com/ https://www.facebook.com/dnardi The Magic Diamond: Jung's 8 Paths to Self Coaching  Find Dan: Instagram: @convergentlyspeaking  @danielanearcounsellingcoaching Facebook: @convergentlyspeaking @danielanearcounsellingcoaching Bookings: danielanear.com

    58 min
  • Personality and the Cost of Specialisation

    Dan digs into some more of the technical parts of the Myers-Briggs System and how the different parts of a person's personality interact. He talks about the upsides and downsides of "specialising" in our strengths, and how this can play out in our lives. 


    Find Dan:

    Instagram: @convergentlyspeaking 

    @danielanearcounsellingcoaching

    Facebook: @convergentlyspeaking

    @danielanearcounsellingcoaching

    Bookings:  danielanear.com

    24 min
  • From Pain to Purpose

    Life brings us pain, unfortunately there's no way around that. It is certainly not easy, but when we have particularly painful times, we have the opportunity to harness and use that pain to learn and grow and transform. We may just find ourselves coming out the other end with purpose, all the stronger for finding meaning and healing amongst the pain.

    Dan share's some simple but profound quotes that he has gotten a lot out of while doing the work of healing and transforming his own pain to purpose. 


    Find Dan:

    Coaching

    Instagram: @convergentlyspeaking 

    @daniel_anear_coaching

    Facebook: @convergentlyspeaking

    @danielanearcoaching

    danielanear.com

    21 min
  • Mental Health, Transformation and Lived Experience with Jamie Ryan

    Enjoy this beautiful conversation with Jamie Ryan, who is a social worker, counsellor and educator with over 25 years experience in the Mental Health field. 

    He and Dan talk about the ways that the mental health sector is transforming to put people's experiences more in the centre and how Peer Work is part of this transition. Jamie shares about some of his own experiences, which we are honoured to hear. The two also talk about what people's mental health will look like post - COVID, and how we move forward to grow as society. 

    Enjoy the episode!

    Find Dan:

    Coaching

    Instagram: @convergentlyspeaking 

    @daniel_anear_coaching

    Facebook: @convergentlyspeaking

    @danielanearcoaching

    danielanear.com


    1 hr 17 min

About Skill Not Will: For Couples

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Skill Not Will - Relationships don't fail for lack of effort. They fail for lack of skill.