Skill Not Will: For Couples

Skill Not Will: For Couples

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Skill Not Will: For Couples episodes

  • Self Development: What if I'm Leaving my Partner Behind?

    Dan discusses what can happen when one partner in a relationship begins to get into self development, heal past traumas or question their beliefs. How do you manage these changes and how they affect your relationship? How do you best communicate about what you're learning and what's going on? Is the relationship doomed? 


    Find Dan:

    Coaching

    Instagram: @convergentlyspeaking

                          @daniel_anear_coaching

    Facebook: @convergentlyspeaking

                        @danielanearcoaching

    19 min
  • The Stories We Tell Ourselves
    Solo episode with Dan talking about the stories we tell ourselves. Dan shares a personal story of how looking at the stories he was telling himself was holding him back and how the stories we are telling are vital to our sense of well-being.
    What are the stories you're telling yourself? Do you have control over these or are they malleable and changeable? 
    Find Dan:
    Coaching
    Instagram: @convergentlyspeaking
    @daniel_anear_coaching
    Facebook: @convergentlyspeaking
    @danielanearcoaching
    18 min
  • Rejecting Auto-Rejection

    Solo episode from Dan, talking about how to deal with our human tendency to immediately reject and therefore not listen to ideas that are contrary to our own beliefs or are from the other side of a particular issue. What is the antidote to this seemingly inbuilt wiring? How can we teach ourselves to listen better and more fully? 

    Listen for more!


    Find Dan:

    * Coaching Practice

    * Instagram: 

               @convergentlyspeaking   

               @daniel_anear_coaching

    * Facebook: 

               @convergentlyspeaking

               @danielanearcoaching

    20 min
  • Change and Grief with Neville Starick

    Interview with Neville Starick, who shares some of his story as a third culture kid and a life of international travel. 

    Neville is a counsellor who specifically looks at the role of change in people's lives, and how they can move through the grief that change brings with it. He shares some beautiful insights and stories, as well as some bonus Enneagram content! (Neville is an Enneagram 4). Have a listen, you'll love it. 


    Join the conversation on Instagram, share your own stories, impressions of the episode or feedback!


    Find Neville:

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/neville-starick-counselling-coaching/

    on facebook: Cynosure Support


    Find Dan:

    Coaching

    Instagram: @convergentlyspeaking 

    @daniel_anear_coaching

    Facebook: @convergentlyspeaking

    @danielanearcoaching


    1 hr 5 min
  • Why I Love the Enneagram

    The Enneagram is pretty ubiquitous in culture at the moment, everyone is talking about it and everyone wants to tell you your number. 

    Dan talks about the Enneagram, which he's been studying for over a decade, how he's found it helpful and transformative in his life, and some insights on how to journey with it as a tool for personal development. 

    Stay tuned for more Enneagram content in the future! 



    Find Dan:

    Instagram: @convergentlyspeaking 

    Facebook: @convergentlyspeaking

    convergentlyspeaking.com

    18 min
  • Overcoming Adversity with Rohan Harry

    Rohan Harry - comedian, podcaster, and friend from way back - joins the podcast to share his story of overcoming some incredible health issues. It's an inspiring, funny, and at times heartbreaking interview, you're sure to enjoy it!  Dan and Rohan talk personality (Rohan is a classic INFP), motivation, the trickster archetype.... and much more. 


    Find Rohan:  http://attitudeconsultant.com/ I

    nstagram: @attitudeconsultant 

    Find Dan: 

    Instagram: @convergentlyspeaking 

    Facebook: @convergentlyspeaking

    convergentlyspeaking.com

    44 min
  • Personality Types & Relationships: Judgers vs Perceivers

    The fourth and final episode in our series about personality and intimate relationships. 

    The Judger/Perceiver split can be a tricky one to navigate, but with a little understanding, a J/P couple can really thrive as they appreciate and grow from the other's way of doing things. And what if you're both the same type? Dan talks about that too! Something for everyone. 

    Enjoy the episode and hop over to social media to tell us what you thought about it!

    Find Dan:

    Instagram: @convergentlyspeaking 

    Facebook: @convergentlyspeaking

    convergentlyspeaking.com

    19 min
  • Personality Types & Relationships: Thinkers vs Feelers
    In the 3rd episode of this series on relationships and personality, Dan discusses the difference between thinkers and feelers. 
    Do thinkers still have feelings underneath all that cold, hard logic? (yes!)
    Can we ever get on the same page? 
    Listen to understand where your partner may be coming from and how they see the world, and you'll begin to speak the same language and appreciate what each other is bringing to the table. 
    Find Dan:
    Instagram: @convergentlyspeaking 
    Facebook: @convergentlyspeaking
    convergentlyspeaking.com
    19 min
  • Personality Types & Relationships: Sensors vs Intuitives

    This second episode in the series about personality and relationships, Dan discusses the differences between Sensors and Intuitives. Understanding this difference between people can make a huge impact on how we relate to each other, maybe more than any of the other 3 dichotomies of the Myers-Briggs system. Sensors and Intuitives see and experience the world in very different ways and yet these polar opposites can be complementary making for a great partnership dynamic.


    Find Dan:

    Instagram: @convergentlyspeaking 

    Facebook: @convergentlyspeaking

    convergentlyspeaking.com

    19 min
  • Personality Types & Relationships: Introverts vs Extroverts

    The first episode in a 4-part series,  Dan talks about the differences, tension points, and strengths in romantic relationships in regards to the Introvert/Extrovert dichotomy.

    Is it ideal to both be the same type? How do you get your introvert partner out of the house? How do you navigate the issues that arise from being so different (or so similar!)?

    Some thoughts to get you reflecting on your own relationship.  

    Next time, Sensors vs Intuitives (S vs N)!

    24 min

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Skill Not Will - Relationships don't fail for lack of effort. They fail for lack of skill.