CRUSH YOUR COMPETITION! REALLY?
We hear a lot of talk about how to crush your competition and how we need to outsmart, outwork and out-perform them if we are going to become successful in whatever endeavors we pursue.
Not only that but we need to annihilate them, crush them and demolish them. This is suppose to make us feel better about ourselves and what we do.
We are stronger than them. We are better than them.
There can be no in-between. It’s all or nothing. It’s either they win or we win.
There is some element of truth in that mindset and it does give you a long-term view on what you might want to do.
In the world of sports, that’s the name of the game. In some parts of the business world, it’s also the name of the game.
But is this the only way? Is this what we’re all about?
Then we hear it’s a dog-eat-dog-world.
You might not have heard that phrase before but according toyourdictionary.com, this phrase has the following meaning:
It is something or some situation in which there is fierce, ruthless competition. An example of dog eat dog is a competitive sales environment where everyone is trying to beat out their co-workers to make the most sales, even if they have to lie and cheat to do it.
Wow! Can you imagine that?
Is that what we are being asked to do?
Unfortunately I subscribed to that idea for a long time, which led to frustration, doubts, fears and even depression at times.
When I looked so fervently on my competition to see what they were doing and how to annihilate them plus all the other things I was supposed to do to them, I lost my way. I no longer knew who I was or what my mission was.
Have that happened to you? Do you relate to this? Is this the story of your business or your life?
I am glad I came to my senses even though it took a lot of years, setbacks, overwhelm, disappointments, frustration and humility to get to where I am currently.
It also was time that I couldn’t afford because of the stage of life I found myself in – the midlife stage. Time is one of the most lucrative currency that I have and I need to spend it wisely.
Does this mean that I’m no longer competitive? Oh no. I think I’m more competitive now than ever. But there is a difference.
Focusing so much on how to crush your competition can lead to:
1. Wasted time
2. Missed opportunity
3. Becoming a carbon-copy
Here are 3 ways to avoid the disastrous results:
1. Be the best version of you
2. Outwork, outsmart and outdo what you did yesterday
3. Improve on what you do based upon the feedback you receive
You will find a full blog article that elaborates on each of the above here.
Past episode mentioned:
There Has To Be More To Life Than This | Kingsley Grant | Episode TML168
Feeling Stuck So Here Is What I Did | Kingsley Grant | Episode TML162
You Still Have What It Takes And Here Are 3 Reasons Why | Kingsley Grant | Episode TML169
More About Your Host:
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