Dating a dominant woman isn’t about begging to be used - it’s about learning how to meet power with presence. In this episode of the #teakink Podcast, Eva Oh unpacks the messy reality of dating as a Domme, the chaos of app culture, and what actually works when approaching a dominant woman. Supported by Chyrpe - the dating app for femdom and female-led relationships - this is essential listening for anyone navigating femdom dynamics with curiosity, confusion, or just too many emojis.

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Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh

More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com

HIGHLIGHTS:

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(00:00) - Welcome to #teakink

(00:28) - Introducing Chyrpe: the dating app for femdom and FLRs

(01:24) - Why dating a dominant woman isn’t about “doing anything you want”

(02:00) - The dating app disaster zone

(04:10) - What dominant women experience on mainstream apps

(05:30) - “I want to be your slave” & other spammy openers

(06:15) - Respect, not performance: what Dommes actually want

(07:30) - The cost of desperation: kink bingo and checkbox culture

(08:50) - Submission isn’t self-erasure

(10:10) - What gets a real response from a Domme?

(11:25) – Red flags vs green flags in femdom dating

(13:00) - Emotional competence > chaotic desperation

(15:10) - Fantasy vs reality: can you meet power with presence?

(16:00) - For submissives: curiosity, calm, consistency

(16:35) - For doms: vetting is sacred

(17:10) - Final word: dominance isn’t something you consume - it’s something you relate to