Scott and Betsy, from West Michigan Marriage Center, explain why resonance is what creates movement in marriage.

Ever feel like you're fighting for your marriage but, despite your effort, the problems keep fighting back? West Michigan Marriage Center's very own Scott and Betsy Nuismer explain why Attunement might be the answer you are looking for.

In this episode, Scott and Betsy explain what Attunement is, how it works, and why it can completely change the conversation between you and your spouse.

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Scott and Betsy Nuismer officially announce their not-for-profit organization, West Michigan Marriage Center. They go over future plans for WMMC, introduce the Marriage Restoration Track, and imagine what it would be like if our whole community had healthier marriages.

Evan and Lia get vulnerable with us on this episode and talk about what it's like to be in the middle of dealing with Evan's porn addiction. They get real about their pain, how lost they sometimes feel, and the glimpses of hope they see along the way.

Tired? Overwhelmed? Getting into fights as a result? We can relate! Scott and Betsy walk you through one of their recent fights. Step-by-step, they explain how they got sucked into the cycle and what they did to get back out of it again, so they could re-connect and repair.

Ever try to help your spouse feel better, only to have it blow up in your face? You are not alone! Scott and Betsy, from the West Michigan Marriage Center, dig into common mistakes we make in marriage (with the best of intentions), why these moves don't work, and the solution that actually works.

Does your marriage feel stuck?

In episode 20, Scott and Betsy briefly explain the EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy) cycle and then go into detail on what's needed to exit that cycle. Through a hilarious experiment and practical examples, you will learn why slowing down, looking inward, and looking deeper at your spouse's heart all contribute to exiting the cycle and re-establishing your connection.

We all know the remarkable ability our kids have to punch us right in our deepest insecurities. In this episode, Scott and Betsy dig into their own raw spots being triggered in parenting. Using the Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) cycle, they map out why they lose their cool and make the same mistakes their parents made. They also explain why getting vulnerable helps them exit the cycle and repair with their son.

Husbands - does it seem like your wife always wants more from you? In this episode, learn the deeper truth about how to satisfy your wife by being more of yourself.

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Learn the 3 steps you can use to turn your spouse's anger into wonderful bonding moments.