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Are you or someone you know asking, “Am I too old for love? Marriage? A meaningful relationship? My forever partner?” It may surprise you to know that many women, regardless of their actual chronological age, are asking themselves these questions. They are at a ‘certain age’ (in their own minds and belief systems) where they start measuring themselves against societal norms, family expectations, or peer pressure — whether they be Thirty-three or Seventy-three!  Many believe that they are falling behind all of their friends who have found their soulmates or who have gotten married and had children. Debra and Rob break down the reality of the matter and explore the age factor in finding true love.

• Discover what it means when you are feeling too old for love
• Look at how you judge others with their age and their dating choices around age
• Find out the psychology of attraction and why we seek younger people
• Learn about your shadow around age and be inspired to know that you are at the perfect adult age for great love

Episode Exercise:  Embrace your age whatever it is and look at your triggers around age and beauty to help you reveal your shadow that is influencing your dating life.

In our Love+Purpose Facebook Group, Debra Berndt Maldonado and Rob Maldonado, PhD — Relationship experts and Founders of Creative Mind Coaching — lead free micro-trainings for ambitious women who want to live their lives to the fullest. If you are someone who wants more in life and wants to make a difference in the world, join our private group. You will be a part of a community of educated women who are on the same journey to love and purpose. By understanding yourself, you understand the world and the relationships around you. If you know who you are, the universe will know exactly the right person and career to match you up with.

Join us: https://www.facebook.com/groups/loveandpurpose

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The internet has given us so many gifts and ways to connect but it also comes with a dark side. We are more connected than ever but sometimes we feel bad when we spend too much time on Facebook, Instagram or Twitter. The false persona that we present online can be confused with our real self and we can get caught up in identifying with our ego instead of our true spiritual self. 

In this episode we discuss the three main issues people have online that keep them from evolving:

1. Comparing Themselves to Others – what others have and minimizing their own success compared to others in relationships, career and even how they look and age.
2. Needing Attention – the need to be liked, literally, feeling bad when not enough people like your posts or comment on them. Feeling as if no one cares or that you are not popular enough or what you say is not important.
3. Battles of Opinion – getting caught up in mini-battles about politics, religion, personal development or health opinions, especially with strangers. We look at the need to be right instead of having a healthy discussion and debate on important matters.

Episode Exercise: What to do when you are triggered by someone online.

Like and Follow us on Facebook to stay connected and get announcements about our Creative Mind Life Coach trainings and personal growth groups, events & programs. Tap the 'Groups' section on our Facebook Page to learn about our free Love+Purpose micro-trainings: https://www.fb.me/creativemindmethod Our 'Creative Mind Method' — developed by Debra Berndt Maldonado and Robert Maldonado, PhD — is a powerful alchemy of Jungian Psychology, eastern Philosophies, and the latest in Neurosciences and the basis of all our teachings and trainings. Learn more at https://creativemindmethod.com

In continuation of the conversation in our previous episode on Healthy Boundaries, relationship experts Debra and Rob Maldonado go deeper into boundaries in romantic relationships and how to identify red flags. We explain:

• How being in a healthy relationship helps you
• How to identify unhealthy relationship patterns and especially red flags
• The basics of good boundaries include Open Communication, Cultivating Trust and Respect and what it looks like in a romantic relationship
• What to do if you or your friend is in an unhealthy relationship

Episode Exercise: Take the quick assessment to see how you rate yourself in the three critical areas of Communication, Trust and Respect and where you need to start making improvements so you can establish boundaries and get the relationship you want.

Like and Follow us on Facebook to stay connected and get announcements about our Life Coach trainings and personal growth groups, events & programs. Tap the 'Groups' section on our Facebook Page to learn about our free Love+Purpose micro-trainings. https://www.fb.me/creativemindmethod

Do you feel guilty saying “no” or do you allow others to make decisions for you and feel resentment? Many people think that lack of boundaries is an indicator of low self-esteem, but as social creatures, everyone has problems with boundaries. If you do not have the ability to set healthy boundaries in relationships you may just avoid relationships all together or just wait for someone to behave according to your rules without having to express yourself.

We all act in relationships based on our past experience by default and that is how we learned to tolerate certain behaviors through example of the adults around us when we were young. This fixed mindset will only lead to the same type of relationship patterns. By setting and expressing boundaries, you get to use your Creative Mind to create your own path and example in how you want to be treated and how you treat yourself.  

In this episode, Debra and Rob will lead you through an honest talk on boundaries in relationships and how to set boundaries to make you feel empowered. 

• Take a quick assessment on how well you keep your boundaries
• Understand what are boundaries and why do we need them?
• The difference between physical and emotional boundaries
• Explore the Challenges you face when setting boundaries

Episode Exercise: Debra will give you an exercise to begin to address where boundaries are not being expressed and how to start setting them so you can be more empowered in relationships, have more self-respect and surround yourself with people who honor you.

In our Love+Purpose Facebook Group, Debra and Rob offer free micro-trainings, including one on how to master the art of love by learning how to access the Creative Mind. The reason you do not have the love or life you want isn’t because of any external circumstances or that something is wrong with you. You don’t need to date more or change your profile as much as look within yourself to see the REAL YOU. If you are someone who wants more in life and wants to make a difference in the world, you will be a part of a community of educated women who are on the same journey to love and purpose. By understanding yourself, you understand the world and the relationships around you. If you know who you are, the universe will know exactly the right person and career to match you up with.

Like and Follow us on Facebook to stay connected and get announcements about our groups, events and programs. Tap the 'Visit Group' button on our Page to learn more about Love+Purpose. https://www.fb.me/creativemindmethod

Have you ever given a partner in a romantic relationship you power - the power to hurt you, the power to reject you or the power to fill you with love? You may wonder why you keep feeling chemistry for people who cause you pain or disappointment and in this episode we will reveal the inner cause of your unconscious attraction – your Animus Archetype or as we call your 'Inner Adam'. The Inner Adam® Technique is a part of the Creative Mind Method™ based on the work of Carl Jung, neuroscience and Eastern philosophies. 

• What is an archetype?
• The masculine and feminine archetypes according to Jung – Anima and Animus
• How do these archetypes affect your romantic life and why they are the key to your individuation process
• Why women reject masculine traits early in life and what happens to those traits
• The shadow effect on your relationship life
• The three ways to work with your Inner Adam to change your love destiny and live your purpose.

Episode Exercise: Debra will reveal how to work with emotional triggers in relationships and how they are the clue to finding your patterns and changing them.

Ready to meet your 'Inner Adam'? Join us for our 5-Day Inner Soulmate Challenge by visiting and Liking our Facebook Page and tapping the 'Visit Group' button:
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Have you ever wondered if you are really in love or if you are just repeating old patterns? Maybe you have been in a relationship for a while and the flame has burned out and wonder if you just fell out of love. In this episode you will discover the three elements of love that are critical for making a relationship last.  

• Why we are physically attracted to some and not others
• How we look for partners that match our inner psychological patterns and early life family imprints
• How to find true, spiritual connection with your ideal partner
• The real purpose of love and how to experience relationships beyond the ego

Episode Exercise: Love Assessment. Debra will lead you through a series of questions to assess your relationship life to see what elements of love are missing and how to begin to shift your mind to connect on a deeper level with the one for you.

In our Love+Purpose Facebook Group, Debra and Rob offer free micro-trainings, including one on how to master the art of love by learning how to access the Creative Mind. The reason you do not have the love or life you want isn’t because of any external circumstances or that something is wrong with you. You don’t need to date more or change your profile as much as look within yourself to see the REAL YOU. If you are someone who wants more in life and wants to make a difference in the world, you will be a part of a community of educated women who are on the same journey to love and purpose. By understanding yourself, you understand the world and the relationships around you. If you know who you are, the universe will know exactly the right person and career to match you up with.

Join us: https://www.facebook.com/groups/loveandpurpose

In this Bonus episode of Creative Mind Living, Debra and Rob explore and explain the benefits of Life Coach training for ALL who want to take their lives to the next level of happiness and success. 

If you love personal development you have probably heard about life coach training and wondered if it is something that would help you in your life. Many people do not realize that you do not have to start a business as a coach to take the training, some just want to participate in life coach training for their own personal growth or to uncover their own purpose.

Many professionals from athletes to actors to musicians hire coaches to help them master the skills. Life coaching helps an individual master their life in all areas such as relationships, career, personal setbacks, motivation for change, financial and professional development.

In this episode we explain:

• The life coaching market and how it is a growing career choice
• The difference between coaching and therapy
• How the Creative Mind Method is different than other coach training programs
• The personal growth that occurs within coach training
• What coach training looks like, how it is structured and how to participate
• The right temperament you need to be an effective coach

Learn how Creative Mind Coaching offers is the most advanced coaching system available using the Creative Mind Method developed by Robert Maldonado, Ph.D. and Debra Berndt Maldonado (Author of LET LOVE IN and Certified Hypnotherapist). The Creative Mind Method is based on the work of Carl Jung, Neuroscience and Eastern Philosophies and assumes the client is not broken but born to express their full potential.

Visit us online to join our free Group micro-trainings and stay updated on our events and new programs: fb.me/creativemindmethod

Have you wondered if you could get hypnotized to change your life? You see it in movies as some blank state where the person is powerless to control of the hypnotist or something than can erase memories. In this episode we explore the state of hypnosis and how it can change your life.

Debra Berndt Maldonado is a highly-trained clinical hypnotherapist and has personally helped thousands of people with her hypnotic tools. Her book, LET LOVE IN: Open Your Heart & Mind to Attract Your Ideal Partner (Wiley 2010) is all about how to use hypnosis to attract love.

• What is hypnosis and debunking the myths
• How the stage hypnotists get people to do things that look silly
• How you can use the hypnotic state to access a higher awareness within you and use suggestions to change the way you think and feel
• Are past-lives and regressed memories real?
• How in the hypnotic state you open the doorway to the Creative Mind and all of its power and that suggestions made in the state are 1000x more powerful than saying affirmations.

Episode Exercise: Self-hypnosis. Debra leads you through a quick self-hypnosis exercise you can do every day to shift your mind and get into a relaxed state instantly. She explains how to write affirmations that work in your hypnotic state for faster results.

One of the main tools that we teach our students in our Creative Mind Coach training program is how to effectively use visualization to help a client make changes in their life. Debra has developed hundreds of visualizations and her visualization videos on YouTube have received millions of views. There is extensive research on visualization and its effectiveness. While athletes use it to prepare for a sport, any person can use it to master their life. Visualization enables a person to use their Creative Mind to shift their perspective, work with emotions, uncover what is unconscious and focus their mind on what they truly want in life so they can achieve their desires.

Subscribe to our podcast Creative Mind Living. Learn more about us and our transformational Life Coach trainings & Personal Development programs based on the best principles of Carl Jung, Neuroscience, and Eastern Philosophies by connecting with us online. Like our Facebook Page to stay updated about our next Group for free Creative Mind Coach micro-trainings for aspiring Life Coaches: fb.me/creativemindmethod

If you feel there is a hidden force working against you, slowing down your progress, throwing up obstacles and not sure what you are doing wrong, you may need to learn how to escape your family karma.

• Understand what Karma really is and how it affects your results in life
• Explore your Family Karma and how they influenced your patterns and experience
• Learn about how genetics and epigenetics impact your conditioning but do not limit your future
• Get three steps to escape your Family Karma and how to make conscious choices and change your destiny

Episode Exercise: Non-Judgment. Debra leads you through a quick exercise when you are looking at your current results to help you free yourself from Family Karma.

Subscribe to our podcast Creative Mind Living. Learn more about us and our transformational Life Coach trainings & Personal Development programs based on the best principles of Carl Jung, Neuroscience, and Eastern Philosophies by connecting with us online. Like our Facebook Page to stay updated about our next Group for free Creative Mind Coach micro-trainings on living life in Love & Purpose: fb.me/creativemindmethod

Do you feel disconnected from your spirituality when you get caught up in work, money issues, relationship challenges and just trying to survive every day? If you crave a deeper spiritual connection in your everyday life, we will share:

• What is spirituality?
• How you get limit your ability to connect to your intuition, creativity and purpose and how to create a new spiritual habit
• Understand the power of spiritual goals
• Introduction to the symbolic life and how it can bring magic and wonder in your everyday experience

Episode Exercise:  Debra will lead you through an exercise you can do with symbols that show up in your life and how to find a deeper meaning to help understand yourself and guide your decisions.

Subscribe to our podcast Creative Mind Living. Learn more about us and our transformational Life Coach trainings & Personal Development programs based on the best principles of Carl Jung, Neuroscience, and Eastern Philosophies by connecting with us online. Like our Facebook Page to stay updated about our next Group for free Creative Mind Coach micro-trainings on living life in Love & Purpose: fb.me/creativemindmethod