Spilling the Thera-Tea

What if you found yourself entangled in the web of a sociopath or a psychopath? Would you be able to identify the warning signs and navigate your way out? We promise to equip you with the necessary tools to understand and recognize the traits of these complex personalities. We kick things off by defining sociopaths and psychopaths and exploring their distinguishing symptoms. Our discussion also covers the potential dangers of a relationship with these individuals and offers advice on setting healthy boundaries.

We then get under the skin of these disorders, uncovering the differences between sociopathy and psychopathy. Looking at research on brain abnormalities in psychopaths, we contemplate how this could affect treatment options. Adding a grim yet intriguing twist to our conversation, we delve into the chilling tales of notorious figures like Ted Bundy, Elizabeth Holmes, John Wayne Gacy, and Billy McFarland. These stories serve as stark reminders of the potential damage these disorders can wreak.

As we wrap up, we put Anti-Social Personality Disorder (ASPD) under the microscope. We examine how ASPD impacts those around the individual and the process of diagnosing this disorder. Additionally, we provide a comprehensive overview of the available treatment options. Our deep-dive explores the role of medication, cognitive behavioral therapy, and family therapy in managing ASPD. Join us for this captivating exploration as we demystify the enigmatic world of sociopaths, psychopaths, and antisocial personality disorder.
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DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice.
The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.
Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony. 
No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.
If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to [email protected].
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Navigating the bumpy road of co-parenting? Or perhaps you're dealing with an ex who's a narcissist or an abuser? This episode is designed just for you. We talk about complex co-parenting scenarios and the benefits of parallel parenting, with insights to lessen the disruption and chaos.
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I’ve Had It! Podcast
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ive-had-it/id1650340709
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DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice.
The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.
Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony. 
No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.
If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to [email protected].
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Ever wondered why your partner struggles to emotionally connect, or why they seem to be constantly putting a wall up in your relationship? Well, we've got the answers for you. Our latest episode is a candid conversation about emotionally unavailable people in relationships. Weshed light on the different archetypes of emotionally unavailable partners, such as the jester and the fixer, alongside a discussion on the role of avoidant attachment styles.

Staying true to our promise of not only exploring problems but also providing solutions, we give you a practical guide on dealing with emotionally unavailable partners. We dive deep into how these relationships can impact self-esteem and unveil the role that understanding your Enneagram can play in identifying unhealthy patterns. Remember, being in a relationship with an emotionally unavailable partner can be tough, but understanding, acknowledging, and working through the challenges is the key. Join us as we navigate this intricate journey of emotionally unavailable partners and how to cope.
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DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice.
The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.
Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony. 
No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.
If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to [email protected].
Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music

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***TRIGGER WARNING***
THIS EPISODE DISCUSSES SUICIDE, LISTENER DISCRETION IS ADVISED.

We're taking the plunge, unabashedly tackling a tough subject close to our hearts - suicide. Together, Therapist Kathy Dan Moore and grief coach Jess Lowe, are shedding light on this often misunderstood topic, discussing how to engage in conversations about it, identifying key risk factors, and ensuring the safety of those contemplating it. This episode is not just about spreading awareness, it's about making a real difference as we challenge the language we use when discussing suicide.

Venturing deeper into the discussion, we touch upon the increasing occurrence of teen suicide, discussing the risk factors and prevention guidelines provided by the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention. We also delve into the connection between alcohol misuse and suicide risk, debunking myths, and providing guidance on handling crisis situations. Together, let's break the stigma surrounding mental health and suicide, and create a society where understanding and empathy are paramount.
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988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
We can all help prevent suicide. The 988 Lifeline provides 24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress, prevention and crisis resources for you or your loved ones, and best practices for professionals in the United States.Call or Text 988 for support https://988lifeline.org/

The Bridge -Movie https://www.amazon.com/BRIDGE-Eric-Geleynse/dp/B01605UTXQ/ref=tmm_aiv_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1697722733&sr=8-6
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DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice.
The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.
Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony. 
No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.
If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to [email protected].
Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music

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Ever grapple with feelings of shame or guilt? It's an often misunderstood emotional terrain that we're excavating in our enlightening discussion. We're navigating the key differences between these two emotions and their significant impact on self-perception and self-esteem. We unravel the power of guilt as a moral anchor, and reveal the potentially devastating impact of toxic shame.

As we delve deeper, we focus on the critical aspect of managing toxic shame. Discover how mindfulness can aid us in challenging our shame-based thoughts and cultivating healthier thinking habits. We emphasize the importance of fostering a support network, and opening up to a friend, partner, or mental health professional about shame and the journey to overcome unprocessed trauma.
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Book Mentioned in Episode:
Gabor Mate: The Myth of Normal
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DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice.
The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.
Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony. 
No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.
If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to [email protected].
Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music

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What if you could navigate through the stormy waters of infidelity and not only reach the shore but build a stronger bond on the other side? This episode promises to provide you with the essential tools, strategies, and insights to help you and your partner turn a crisis into an opportunity for growth. We shatter common misconceptions about infidelity, and reveal the potential for resilience and fortification within a relationship tested by betrayal.

Through an open conversation, we explore the path to recovery, stressing the vital role both partners play in the healing process. We delve into the value of sincere communication, boundary-setting, and trust rebuilding. Our goal is to provide you with a roadmap that will transform infidelity from a relationship ender to a hurdle that can be surmounted. 
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Check out books mentioned by clicking link below!
https://spillingthetheratea.com/media

Affairs episode:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/spilling-the-thera-tea/id1632302353?i=1000583377676

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DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice.
The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.
Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony. 
No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.
If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to [email protected].
Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music

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**TRIGGER WARNING**
THIS EPISODE DISCUSSES LOSS -INCLUDING LOSS OF A CHILD.

Welcome to a profound dive into the wild beast that is grief. A multidimensional journey that's anything but straightforward, filled with emotional highs and lows that can leave you feeling as if you're on a rollercoaster. As your hosts, grief coach Jess Lowe and therapist KathyDan Moore, we will guide you through this complex maze, covering everything from the various stages of grief to the unique emotional challenges it presents. From the depths of denial and anger, to the bargaining and acceptance stages, we unlock the different manifestations of each phase, emphasizing that there's no one-size-fits-all approach to grieving. Determined to look grief in the eye, we delve into the significance of self-care and the importance of granting ourselves grace during this difficult time. We promise, moving forward doesn't equate to leaving your loved one behind. Rather, it's about nurturing yourself and creating a fresh start, all while cherishing the memory of your loved one.  Lastly, we tackle the five pitfalls of grief -  offering ways to overcome them. We advocate for embracing grief as a way of honoring and commemorating the love for our loved one, even in their absence.  It's a heartwarming conversation that anyone grappling with grief should not miss out on. Tune in and let's navigate this journey together.
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Resources:

Grief.com
INSTITUTE OF PROFESSIONAL GRIEF COACHING- from Grief to Gratitude

Author Mentioned:

Malcolm Gladwell
https://www.gladwellbooks.com/

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DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice.
The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.
Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony. 
No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.
If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to [email protected].
Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music

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Guess what? That exhilarating, giddy feeling you experience at the start of a new relationship isn't meant to last forever, and that's okay! We're here to reassure you that as the sizzle of the honeymoon phase cools down, it's not a sign your relationship is tanking. Instead, it's evolving into something more profound, joyous, and deeper. Through our latest conversation, we unpack the various stages of romantic relationships, guiding you on how to navigate each one and cultivate a thriving connection with your partner, irrespective of the stage you're in.
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THE LOVE PRESCRIPTION:
https://a.co/d/fdOAuti
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DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice.
The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.
Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony. 
No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.
If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to [email protected].
Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music

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This week on Spilling the Thera-Tea, we take a deep dive into Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) - a misunderstood and overused diagnosis. Guided by therapist KathyDan Moore, we unravel the complexities of NPD, warning of the dangers of misdiagnosis and the importance of individualized care. Grief coach Jess Lowe  joins the conversation  to shed light on narcissistic abuse, empowering you with strategies to deal with someone with NPD. We leave you with an insightful worksheet and practical steps on how to cope, heal and move forward.
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Grief Coaching :
https://kdmcounselinggroup.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/Grief-Coaching-Resource.pdf?
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery:
https://kdmcounselinggroup.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/narcissistic-abuse-recovery.pdf?
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DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice.
The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.
Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony. 
No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.
If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to [email protected].
Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music

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This week we are excited to take you through the art of cultivating a positive body image. We’ll be focusing on the power and value of your body, rather than its appearance. We'll guide you on how to incorporate empowering affirmations into your day-to-day life and how enjoyable exercise can be a powerful tool for healthier body image goals. And here's the juicy bit! We'll be discussing how to rebuild your relationship with your body, cut out negative messages, and find activities that truly nourish you. We'll even throw in some body-positive literature and song recommendations to inspire you.  Let's all journey towards self-love and acceptance together!
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BODY POSITIVE READING LIST:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/eating-disorders-news/201110/body-image-books-can-help-here-are-our-favorites

BODY POSITIVE SONGS:
https://www.billboard.com/culture/pride/body-positive-musicians-list-8099201/
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DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice.
The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.
Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony. 
No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.
If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to [email protected].
Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music

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